TTC after miscarriage thread #4

[InsufficientlyCaffeinated]

Hello ladies. I noticed the last thread filled up, seemed to happen all of a sudden! Hoping you find your way here (prepares for tumbleweed)

For reference here's thread 3 www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/2593041-TTC-after-miscarriage-lucky-thread-number-3

All those we are trying to conceive a child after miscarriage are welcome here, whether it's your first or you already have DC

Good luck ladies. Let's have some BFPs, we've earned it

[Miami81]

purple I also counted from the day I passed the sack. Somehow felt like everything after that was just body righting itself.
I temped this morning and still haven't had the rise for ovulation, I am so happy, DH is home tonight and is on a warning that I will not hear any chat about him having been travelling for 4 days and being tired, he can be tired tomorrow!!! I am CD12 and have been getting o related twinges in left side.
Have tried to OPK but am also trying to be really good and strict with food at the moment so have been drinking gallons of water so I feel the OPK isn't the right thing for me at the minute.
Decided it was important to me to try to get back to pre mc weight, I carry a lot of weight anyway and just felt those extra 7lbs were just not going to help, if unsuccessful this cycle planning to continue and try to shift another bit before next round.
Have a good day everyone. Stay positive we will get there.

[JustineLittle]

Kate1980 - I had very little CM last cycle and two negative ovulation tests at cd13 and cd14 so I really don't know when I ovulated.
Managed to get pg but started bleeding on cd40. I went for a scan and my doc couldn't see anything, so took a pregnancy test and it was already negative.
I think it didn't implant properly as my test were very faint. It was a small miscarriage and I want to start trying right away. I'm on cd7 today do will wait till next week.

[JustineLittle]

Good luck Miami!!

[AmyB1986]

Hi all hope you're all ok.

Mrs nice to hear from you but sorry things are tough at the min. Things will come right in the end as my dear grandma says, she is usually right. Sending you virtual hugs...

Purple & Kate hope you're both ok, glad to see you're still determined with ttc.

Welcome to anyone who's joined us that I've missed.

Cd17 here and I think I ov'd yesterday although my temps don't reflect that at the min. I had sharp pains and an ache low down for a couple of hours yesterday morning but nothing since. We've dtd everyday inc last night from cd13. I've had loads of cm this month but it is definitely less today so I think it's happened. Also again I can't sleep, seems to happen after o every cycle, I'm exhausted which is making me emotional and weepy. I've also just been offered a new position at work, I don't know if I want to take it or not as it means more hours, more stress and responsibility which is not reflected in the slight pay increase I would get. DH isn't convinced it would be beneficial to us, im going to talk to my mum and see what she thinks as well before I make any decision. Right now though I want to tell my manager to stick my job completely, but I'm being rash because I'm tired. Keeping my mouth shut!

[InsufficientlyCaffeinated]

We're getting near the end of the thread so I'll actually be organised this time and start a new one when there's still room to link it rather than hope everybody finds it! Will link below

[InsufficientlyCaffeinated]

Here we go: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/2657346-TTC-after-miscarriage-thread-5

Feel free to fill up here but when it gets full you know where to find everybody

[InsufficientlyCaffeinated]

Oh ffs somehow I managed to create two! Use the link above, I'm requesting the other one be deleted!

[HopefulKate1980]

Thanks IC!!

[Grapefruit8]

Evening all, just checking in- been lurking but haven't posted in a little while. Wanted to let you all know I've had a scan today and baby looking great, kicking it's little legs and moving round loads! Now 12&2, EDD 20th Dec so keeping fingers & toes crossed for a happy healthy baba in time for Christmas. Just wanted to say keep the faith & believe, I've found it hard & there's been so many tears but praying it all works out in the end

[Brenna24]

Fantastic Grapefruit. I am so happy for you.

[HopefulKate1980]

Brenna! We are on the other thread and missing you!! IC posted the link above

[onelastone]

I had a mmc picked up at 12 week scan, fetus stopped growing at 8 weeks and erpc was last week. Hoping to try again but just turned 44 and ob-gyn said there is 85% chance of miscarrying at my age (with own eggs).

[InsufficientlyCaffeinated]

Hi onelastone I'm sorry for your loss. How are you feeling now? Have you considered donor eggs?
The thread has moved over to a new one now as this one is nearly full, you can find everybody over here: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/2657346-TTC-after-miscarriage-thread-5

[onelastone]

Thanks InsufficientlyCaffeinated, will move over to thread 5!!