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April 2014 thread! - still continually supporting one another!

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Cupcake92 · 16/02/2016 11:03

New thread :)
I want to see lots of our old faces back!!
Come on girls!

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LuluJakey1 · 21/02/2016 08:33

DH cooked a cheese and onion pasta bake with a green salad and french dressing. It was yummy- gruyere, chedder and parmesan with a crunchy breadcrumbs topping. Fresh fruit salad afterwards - that was the healthy bit DS woke up and had some fruit salad and sat at the table with us for a bit playing with fruit in the tray on his high chair and after a bit of wailing went back to sleep.

I have had indigestion through the night

The landlord is wasting his money getting a boiler repaired if it needs replacing. Have you no heating or hot water?

Hope you got some sleep Cupcake.

zombiemeow · 21/02/2016 12:47

Snap with the temp cupcake ds didn't sleep last night, got him down for a kip this morning and he woke up screaming the place down and was boiling hot, I stripped him off and he had a temp of 38.9 he kept sneezing. I gave him calpol and left him starkers for a bit he weed on the floor about 6 times and did one poo and it's gone down a bit now.

Not heard about the house yet, they said they have been overloaded there so haven't had chance to look into it (it's through a friend) so I didn't want to keep on at them. But..... I have a meeting booked with a solicitor next week to find our everything I need to know and will go forward from there.

Cupcake92 · 21/02/2016 19:59

Oh that sounds yummy Lulu!
Yes there's heating and hot water but I have to reset the boiler every time I want heating or hot water so it's a bit of a faff.

Oh no ducky :( ur poor DS too!
Hows he been today?
DS2 has been awful today! Keeps crying and just won't settle :( it's so not like him.
He's dribbling so so much and is soaking his clothes! No amount of teething remedy is helping him :( poor baby.
Good news about the solicitor. I hope u manage to get the house tho ducky, keeping my fingers crossed for u

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zombiemeow · 21/02/2016 20:09

Oh no poor ds2! Thats early isn't it! What have you tried so far? Have you tried Ashton's and parsons? It's meant to be really good but ds can't have it because of his allergies.

I hope I get the house too. We had an argument last night and I kept thinking, I can't wait to be with just ds. Then some times he can be really ok, and I think am I making the right decision but I know I can't go on like this. We haven't even kissed (as in just a peck) in 7/8 months and as for a proper kiss, it must be years.

I briefly spoke to the solicitor the other day and said I was worried if he went for custody of them giving 50/50. She said a lot of people do this recently but if it comes to it we will fight for full custody and it should work out. I very much doubt he will go for that as I will tell him he can see ds when he wants. I will not stop that happening.

Cupcake92 · 22/02/2016 20:08

No ducky I've not tried Ashton's and parsons I've tried the teetha granuals but they make him heave

A lot of men threaten with custody but they 99% of the time never go ahead with it.

DS1 has been so good today! He's been such a polite little boy! He's been hugging and kissing his little brother and wiping dribble off his chin he had a tantrum and threw his crisps on the floor then suddenly he started picking them up and came up to me hugged me and said 'sorry mummy' can't believe it!

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zombiemeow · 22/02/2016 21:04

How very strange cupcake! Despite being ill and not napping, ds has been in a fab mood all day! His temp is normal now but he's had snot dribbling out his nose all day he wiped it on me when we were in bed at 4 this morning

LuluJakey1 · 22/02/2016 22:54

We have had a very busy day today where DS has been busy all by himself, very intent on playing with his bricks and shapes and xylophone and I have been in his way. Then we went for a walk and went onto the beach and he toddled ahead of me exploring.

I was cramping his style I think- until he got tired and became a limpet.

Cupcake92 · 23/02/2016 22:34

I've felt ridiculously tired today for some reason!

Went and got DS new shoes today and he won't wear them
Oh and he's still awake and won't go to sleep :(

DS2 has been fast asleep since 9pm :)

Hope everyone's okay!

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Cupcake92 · 24/02/2016 20:59

Any news about the house ducky?
And when do u speak to ur solicitor?

Got DS2 to wear his new shoes to nursery today and I asked him if he was going to show his friends his new shoes and he said 'nooooooo don't like shoes'
Haha

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zombiemeow · 25/02/2016 06:29

Haha ahh ds I can't believe the cost of their shoes

No news on the house yet. I was meant to speak to the solicitor this weekend but it's changed to next weekend now.

But last night h asked me if I loved him and I told him I didn't. I feel awful, he was upset but I can't just lie. Now he's trying really hard but I feel like it's too little far too late. I really feel awful now though

zombiemeow · 25/02/2016 12:05

I think I just ended it why do I feel so shit. I'm sat here in tears. He keeps texting me telling me that me and ds are his whole life and he loves me.

zombiemeow · 25/02/2016 15:13

Well it's over between me and h.

He's not making things easy.

This sucks.

LuluJakey1 · 25/02/2016 19:18

What has happened Ducky?

zombiemeow · 25/02/2016 20:03

He's saying he wants everything signed over to him. He's saying he will keep my dog, then he won't, then he will.

I'm currently sat in ds room infront of the door. He's slammed the knifes into the kitchen work surface and ruined it

LuluJakey1 · 25/02/2016 23:48

What a plonker! Is he demonstrating his inner caveman or something? Does he think he will be winning you over with that behaviour? I imagine this has now convinced you absolutely that you have made the right decision.

Let him get on with it Ducky and don't give in. Just be calm and normal and don't rise to any if it. Don't be intimidated, it is all a bit pathetic really. If you ring the police they will remove him from the house over the knife stuff.

Can you just leave tomorrow? Or not yet. How long will it be before you can? I would be tempted just to go and take DS and the dog while he was at work. even if you had to stay at your grandad's or your mum's for a couple of weeks.

Did you see the solicitor?

zombiemeow · 26/02/2016 01:16

I just drifted off and heard lots of banging. I think he was trying to hang himself. All the curtain poles have been pulled down and he had a rope in his hands. He told me to get away from him and went out and drove off.

I called the police, they didn't care about the knives etc, they arrested him for drink driving. He tried to get away from them and they smashed his car windows. He'll be really angry.

I'm now very scared as they don't have to let me know when he's released.

Cupcake92 · 26/02/2016 08:30

Oh god ducky!!!
I am so sorry I wasn't on yesterday :( I feel bad now but the kids we're being difficult and I went to sleep pretty early :(

I hope ur okay???

If u call someone to come round to be with u? Can u do that?
Or Infact change the locks ASAP get a emergency lock smith and have them changed. To make it safe for u and DS. U can call the police and express how scared u are and they may be able to help?

Oh ducky so sorry I can't be there in person to help u :( tho I wish I could!!

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zombiemeow · 26/02/2016 08:37

I have come to dm's. I have one pair of trousers. Two tops and two pairs of underwear. I just rammed things into a bag.

His getting out now, his mom is going to pick him up.

Cupcake92 · 26/02/2016 09:04

What's ur DM said about it all?
I'm glad ur there tho.

Will he be going back to the house?

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zombiemeow · 26/02/2016 10:15

He's turned up at my moms. He's got a driving ban. He just keeps saying sorry and he was upset

Cupcake92 · 26/02/2016 13:01

Oh gosh :( hope things went okay.
How are u feeling now?

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zombiemeow · 26/02/2016 13:17

I feel awful for him, but his behaviour was unacceptable. And I just can't be with him anymore.

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Cupcake92 · 26/02/2016 19:28

Big hugs ducky.
Uve made the right decision for u and DS

Hope things are okay tonight

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LuluJakey1 · 27/02/2016 14:26

His behaviour is pathetic. How completely ridiculous! You are well rid Ducky. What are you going to do? Have you got your dog away from him?

Cupcake92 · 28/02/2016 07:53

How are things ducky?

Let us know ur alright.

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