TTC after MC#6 - the lucky one for all of us!

[Romeolovesjuliet]

New thread. Hoping for lots of lovely BFPs over the coming weeks

keys oh no! I'm sorry to hear about dd, I hope things go as smoothly as they can. Thinking of you xxx

That sounds so scary keys. Hope you managed to have an ok weekend and that you find out what's happening with your dd soon.

keys I hope everything is ok with your dd. I have had a number of friends with children who have seizures and then grow out of it, so hopefully it is just one of those things.
Good luck to those who are testing soon. Bigger and heavier boobs are a sign I can vouch for, it happened for me within a week into my pregnancy, along with being constantly thirsty and needing to pee a lot. I've got a good feeling for some bfps on this thread soon.
I finally got AF, after a 37 day cycle (was 25 days pre MC). So bloody relieved, I knew I wasn't pg as I was avoiding dtd around ov as per doctor's orders last cycle so I was really worried something might be wrong. Now I'm in to a new cycle, got the all clear to try again and I'm determined to stay positive. I've been going to acupuncture and I was kind of stressing to the doctor about my never- ending cycle and he put it in perspective "one of two things is going to happen; either you'll get your period eventually or you'll give birth to a baby"

Good point fruit I'm holding onto that as still nothing (day 44 post mc). I doubt v much I'm preg .. No Symptoms whatsoever. Just my stupid body being all stooopid! To be fair, I'm not fussed really just want af to arrive once and for all! Going to ring docs at end of this week if still nothing as its getting silly now!

Anyway I'm a stuck record!

Been awol a few days as bday celebrations for dd and work on house have kept me very busy!

Hope all ok with dd keys how very frightening that must've been! X

We've had no sleep :( but she's OK she's sleeping now after being up all night
My 5 year old DD has her first school trip tomorrow to the beach and I'm in two minds whether to let her go I'm so worried about her being away from me and someone else I don't know will be driving on the motorway with her then trusting her with another mum I don't know and to top it all off we on red alert with these bloody nutters going around.
What would you do? Maybe I'm being oversensitive as oive hqwd bo sleep for past 4 days
On a positive really dark ovulation line today darkest ive ever seen it before CD 8 for me is that possible?

How is everyone else? Sorry been so bad with keeping in touch this week xxx

Red alert for nutters? What's happened?

The Tunisia thing carrot...google it or bbc news 24! So sad. X
keys I'm sure she would be fine, its natural to feel a little overprotective given what's going on with the word, and what we've been through recently x

I gave in and tested with a 10mui onestep today bfn .... Only 7dpo though...knew I shouldn't have, feeling a bit shitty now

Opk positive completely possible, you can O anywhere from day 9, and you O 12-36 hours after first positive opk....i got a my first positive cd14 and O'd cd15

keys so sorry for DD, hope she has a speedy recovery!

AF arrived today CD36 of wtf cycle so not too long. Was so excited by my hard and veiny boobs but they deflated late last week so knew I was on my way out. Came to terms with it before AF arrived so not feeling too shit, sort of relieved the pressure is off now that the wtf cycle is over! Onwards & upwards!!

Hope everyone is ok here and sorry to see some newbies x

Right...pls somebody help me!!! I'm driving my husband crazy!
7dpo today and now have the following symptoms:
Pains in bbs
Cramping in lower ab and cervix
Headache
Feeling of wellbeing
Food aversion to eggs and butter
Tired
Dizzy
Aches in legs and back
Very sore throat and swollen glands feels like onset of flu or heavy cold!

Feel like I'm going mad trying to associate everything with possible pregnancy.
Just don't feel myself, going to curl up in bed...

paws they could all be great signs, or you could be ill... When are you due to test?

Forgot to add:

Forgetfulness
Thirstiness
Sensitivity to heat on touch (hairdryer felt way hot, phone feels oddly warm to touch!)

Any replies greatly appreciated xxx

Thanks mummy, I know that may also be the case...tested today bfn, but just too early I spose...gonna test every day given I have a billion 10mui pg tsts

Sorry af got you, I was dissapointed when i didn't fall in wtf cycle, as you hear how common it is...but as you said, onwards and up! At least we can take some comfort in the knowledge that having one cycle after mc is recommended xxx

My gums are bleeding too! X

paws how many dpo are you? Yes our womb lining will be perfect for the egg that's ready

Sorry for late reply mummy, I'm 7 dpo today, way early I know. I really felt ovulation this month too, such strong one sided cramps, never had that before either. I guess mc can alter a woman's cycles and symptoms completely...i never had pms before either, what a lovely gift from god that is too

I will feel soooo stupid if I'm 'not' pg after all this ranting...felt stupid that I convinced myself I was in my wtf cycle...obviously that was just pms that I'd never had before x

paws that's a lot of symptoms you've got going, I really hope you get your bfp. I'm on cd5 so boring! Yesterday I had a bit of an off day which is quite unusual for me really, I'm turning 37 soon and the fact that I'm not a mum yet for some reason really got to me yesterday... I also got myself into a bit of a state of being really negative about ttc when I next ovulate. I suppose it's the disappointment from when at arrives and the mc and the not knowing argh... I'm sorry I'm not sure I'm making much sense, I feel less down today and I want to get my positive head on again otherwise what's point?

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paws your post must have appeared whilst I was typing but you're not out yet are you? Fx! I had loads of symptoms when I was taking pregnacare it was awful so needless to say I soon ditched them as bfn every time.

Oh Sakura sorry you're feeling low, 37 is no way near too old, so try not to worry. I think they say after 40 for women the odds slightly start to decrease. Things are probably still very raw for you after the mc, I still have the odd weird moment where it will just flood back into my memory from nowhere, and I'm getting on for 3 months now. Grief has horrible ways of effecting us doesn't it. But every week I notice I'm feeling a little better, hopefully you will too! Chin up hun, I know it's easier said than done but the more you stress, the more likely your body is to think "oh, I seem to be under stress, now is not the time for me to get pregnant because I'm not fit to support it" .... I read that somewhere in amongst all the dreaded 'google searching pregnancy/mc/ttc' stuff! Makes sense really, if you're relaxed, happy and healthy then your body will recognise that as a 'good place' to grow and nurture a baby x

Cross posted with you again oops! X

I've never used pg bits, only folic acid. I make sure I eat lots of fresh fruit, veg, nuts, low fat protiens including salmon, high fiber carbs, dairy and honey...i exercise every day too, only 30 mins on my x.trainer but its enough

Meant pg 'vits' ...not 'bits'

paws sounds so positive all them signs. 7dpo is a little to early to be testing I think hun in didn't get my bfp with DD1 until the day my AF was due and I had a First response 2 days prior to that and was negative so don't get to dishearten your still early especially on the Amazon pg tests therres no way that would pick up yet. I really hope you start seeing 2 lines soon. It's not as common as you think hun people falling in the wtf cycle havent known anyone on here to have fallen in their wtf cycle I was sure I concievd I'm my wtf cycle then AF hit I was so upset but tour body has a fresh new cycle now so I would say chances are higher the next 2 following months.

sak on first few days of cycle your hormones are all over the place you were bound to feel like that. Glad your feeling more upbeat and positive. The fun has only just begun for you and your OH for next few weeks then before you know it your back in your 2 ww.

Nothing to report here cd9 for me. DD's first ever school trip today and I am so nervous was not going to send her in but she's so excited.