TTC after MC#6 - the lucky one for all of us!

[Romeolovesjuliet]

New thread. Hoping for lots of lovely BFPs over the coming weeks

Hi to the newbies. So Sorry to see you on here so I hope you find some comfort on here this is a very supportive page loads of different experiences and advice. As disney said we will all get there again at different stages but we will get them 2 lines again pretty soon im sure :).

I am not sure who's next to test this month has gone really quickly. Mine should be 14th June but like you hun my cycle is not going as planned this month lol.

all So sorry to hear of the awful time youve been through. Big hugs. Good luck on bfp soon. :).

red No idea if ov or not hun. Hope you get them two red lines this month :) glad your getting back to normal cycle wise huni.

drifting Not really I am still bleeding today but so slightly, its weird like ovulation but end of a period sorry for tmi there. I have all signs of ovulation and AF feeling sick, weird taste in mouth, hungry and sore boobs and cramps but I dont know if I have had a weird early AF or not. I am so impatient but I am just going to have to see over the next month what happens. Even though I have been getting negatives on doctors pg tests and the cheap ones off of amazon I got pregnant 1-2 weeks on clear blue this morning so I think my body is just playing tricks on me. I had a routine check up today and if still saying 1-2 weeks this time next week or 2-3 they will take bloods incase anything was left in there :(. The doctor said some people ovulate so quickly after a d+c and AF catches us out early but this was so light I doubt it. I am just hoping I am on my tww now still.
Awww hun maybe some months you ov'd later than others and think you've got it in the bag and then the following month it tricks you. Dont give up your get there. I think wanting to dtd hehe is defo a sign. I can imagine you feeling low after the time your waiting but it will surprise you. I just can not wait until we all move over the pg page together and look back on this as a distant memory.

disney I know its frustrating isn't it. After having a mc to judge ovulation and Af again. Fingers crossed you have ovulated or are close don't blame you for dtd alot just incase as you never know.
Good luck hun.

Dobby I am glad to hear it was over for you as quick as possible and good luck with getting a bfp really soon.

Hey guys. Just nipping back to offer [tea] and to everyone. I haven't been around in a long ol' time. I hope you are all okay and healing.

I'm 16+2 now and just beginning to feel movements and I remembered how much I loved it when people nipped back to tell me they had healthy progressing pregnancies and how that can and does and will happen.

I've not forgotten the hurt of losing my bean or the ectopic, but it's not so raw and I'm slowly realising that this baby is healthy and will be in my arms eventually (i hope)

I can't wait to see you all over on our pregnancy thread. Keep strong ladies.

X

disney thank you, hopefully we all get there sooner rather than later...
adventure nice to see a friendly face from the mc thread! lillana suggested this thread, as I couldn't seem to find an up-to-date one on the topic of 'ttc after mc'. Do you remember ginger, she got a bfp didn't she? I hope she's doing well...how are you? X

adventure sorry think we crossed posts. Its really not silly to think that way at all. However the way I look at it now is if you feel ready then go for it. We can not control nature, nature controls us unfortunately.

Hey chasing looking forward to getting back. xxx give everyone my love glad everything is going well xxx

keys thank you, fc x
rainbow congratulations , cant wait to join you gals either! Then I will have 3 threads to follow,...feel awful if I don't check in with ladies I've chatted with who are now going through what we went through...so many names to remember!

Paws it was Ginger who first directed me to the Headwreck thread as she was on my October Bus before I miscarried ! I pop back on there sometimes to see how they're all doing and she's full on in pram buying mode which is lovely !!! Lillana is on here too although now she's also got a BFP I'm presuming she's hopped on another bus.

Chasingtherainbow it's lovely to hear the progress reports !! Keep them coming.

Anyone know how Kep is doing ?

Keys yes you're right. I just need to go with it and not worry about months etc as it could very well take til December to get the BFP anyway. It's such a head f* isn't it !!

Forgot to say adventure I know what you mean...i was obsessed with the due date of our lost bubba, 5th Nov which would have made her a Scorpio...my nan was who had my mum on 8th Nov (another Scorpio), my mum then had me on 2nd Nov (another Scorpio), then I was due my Scorpio ....guessing she was a she....4th generation Scorpio female...so I totally get obsessions, their not silly, its natural I think x

Oh keys love. Been thinking of you loads. I'm glad you're in this thread. It's a safe place to be xx

Lovely to hear they are both doing well, keeps me positive seeing other bfp's... although makes me anxious to get mine x

chasing made me cry seeing again I miss you all so much. Everyone on here has been so welcoming and the support has been amazing as I have naff gone on lol. I am still hurting very much and still so confused but as you said you never forget I will get there Hope to see all again soon and will pop in when I am stronger. xxx

Adventure It really is hun I got my head around having a November baby and nature took that away from me. Now we could all be having a leap year baby lol xxx

[Flowers] you are very much missed too. But I believe you will be back soon. I just know it doll. X

Glad all is well chasing! You'll meet your baby very soon.

I was due to test on Friday. But today I'm having strong AF cramps but no AF yet. If she doesn't appear I will know by the end of tomorrow if I'm pg or not without taking a test, as that's how I felt with DS. But there's still enough time for her to show up...

Keep positive hun im keeping everything crossed for you im wishing you a bfp xxxx

chasing I hope so hun these last 2 weeks have been so hard. Seeing the bfp's as well I am so impatient to get back on bored lol. My mum thinks i'll be pg again before i ever know it but when you've just had a d+c you never know. My body is being so nasty to me all got my pg symptoms back :( and bleeding :(so until my next proper cycle hits I have no idea where I am.

I am so pleased all is going so well over there xx

I'm so sorry it's taking time to resolve. You've had such a rough ride my love. When I was here, and going through the motions of it I started to wonder if I'd ever move past it all. It was all so dragged out etf. I still can't really believe that I might have a baby before the years out. I'd truly began accepting that we'd be a one child family. Things change so quickly. . (As we know) .. give yourself time to heal from all angles, and soon enough we'll be chatting early scans and morning sickness again xxxxx

Welcome dobbyand allmy, hope your time on this thread is short and you get your bfps again soon!

Red I think we all do the age thing ... When ttc my first, I used to be always comparing how old people were when they had their firsts ... It varies totally!

I hope you are feeling a bit better drifting, days like that are poop! Where you just feel helpless! Keep your pecker up lovely. I take my hat off to those who have children close together, it must be so hardwork, all worth it though I'm sure.

Fingers crossed carrotpuff, it's just so nice to know either way sometimes isn't it after all the waiting. Fx for a bfp though!

Not a lot going on over here! 17 days since d and c and have no idea where I am in my cycle still. Trying to ignore it (ha!! If only).

Big hug keys too xx

honey Thank you hugs to you as well. I'm in same boat as you have no idea where I am in my cycle be so nice to know wouldn't it. I am taking it we are in our 2ww now? I will wait until 14th if still no AF I will give it a few more weeks see if this little bleed I have had was my AF otherwise will go back to see my doctor again. Hope you get your bfp or AF in a few weeks hun so you know where you are xxx

carrot How you feeling today hun? I am keeping everything crossed for you.

FX carrotpuff

dobby your story is almost exactly the same as mine except my little boy is only 25 months. MrVan is totally freaked out by the massive pack of opks

carrotpuff really hoping for good news for you

Hugs to everyone that's feeling down. I watched Somthing Borrowed yesterday and had a little cry at the end when she felt her pregnant stomach.

But having seem so many names fall off this thread with BFPs I know we'll get there.

Still no ov for me - hurry up and get back to normal!!

I was a little amused / frustrated reading a thread the other day where people were timing sex to try and get a boy or girl. I just kept thinking how we're all dtd constantly to try for anything!!

Surely that doesn't work anyway? I'd be happy either way. My little boy says "no sister" though.

My little girl just loves babies. Our social circle has had a big influx of second borns and pregnancies recently. She wants us to take one home, boy or girl, and is rather put out when they have to go home with their mums. We'll honestly just be happy if we're blessed with another baby.

I actually felt alright and very proud of myself for going to our usual music group yesterday afternoon. This time last week I didn't think I'd want to go to any again and see the bumps and newborns. But went and had a tea with my friends as usual and told them about it without feeling too sad. Very glad for my lovely supportive friends.

carrotvan My dh has just said to keep them out of sight so his not reminded everytime he goes to the bathroom. But he did bring home a cheep of opks when he got in from work so I can start testing right away.

Yep - all my initial baby group friends have just had babies or about to have babies. I probably should have taken some time off after the MC but have tried to keep things normal with meet ups and work