Meet the Other Phone. Protection built in.

Meet the Other Phone.
Protection built in.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

TTC after MC#6 - the lucky one for all of us!

999 replies

Romeolovesjuliet · 13/05/2015 15:22

New thread. Hoping for lots of lovely BFPs over the coming weeks Smile

OP posts:
Thread gallery
10
Autumn2014 · 02/06/2015 12:45

Hi, can I join in?
I'm 36 years old (TTC#2), 4 weeks post mva, following a MMC at 9 weeks. I had to wait almost 2 weeks for the mva after the scan showed my little baby's heart had stopped at 7+5 weeks, so it feels like I've been waiting ages to get back to TTC. I bleed for 3 weeks, which I found really difficult as I don't like wearing sanitary towels, but finally the discharge stopped and this weekend I suppose we officially are back TTC. I'm not charting so no idea where I am in my cycle. I suppose there is a chance that I could get my AF this week, if I return to a 28 day cycle. that would be a pain- 3 weeks of bleeding post mc, then a week free, then back to AF! I had a little bit of ewcm this weekend but not pining any hope on ov this month. Hope 2016 is our year!

CarrotPuff · 02/06/2015 12:47

Welcome Autumn!

Well I caved and POAS this morning. BFN. Feeling very stupid, should have just waited a day or two.

kep1979 · 02/06/2015 13:06

adventure I just popped on to give a quick update - had early scan yesterday and saw our little bean with a lovely strong heartbeat Grin Dates were right too, so I'm now 7+3. I will not relax yet, but am allowing myself to feel a little more hopeful. I hope you are all doing well, I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you all x

Adventuregame · 02/06/2015 13:37

Kep lovely to hear from you !! Glad it's all going well.

keys27 · 02/06/2015 13:41

hehe my mum just made me LOL she said stock up on brie and wine before you get them two red lines xx

Welcome Autumn good luck on bfp hun. Were all over the place in here with dates etc.

carrot so sorry hun. I would of caved as well tbh. Fx was to early they double every 24-48 hours so heres hoping just not strong eough yet.

kep lovely news hun congratulations

MissMrsMummy · 02/06/2015 14:38

Hi everyone,
I was on this lovely thread a couple of months ago. I have just popped back to see how everyone is doing. I have managed to get to 9 weeks and after an early scan I feel a little bit more confident :)
Hope you are all doing ok and fx for good news for you all soon xxx
PS kep hi and congratulations!

redredwine4 · 02/06/2015 14:50

Welcome Autumn.

Sorry about your bfn carrot fx for the next few days.

Lovely to hear from missmrs and kep and chasing- you give me hope! Glad to hear all is going well.

I'm starting to have a panic as no o symptoms at all this week. From positivity to doom all in a few days. It's a rollarcoaster. Sometimes I still catch myself in disbelief that I've had an mmc. Weird body and mind and the only thing that'll calm it all down in a wee baby. Seems as likely at the moment as seeing a unicorn flyby

DisneyMillie · 02/06/2015 15:21

red I totally understand - we can hold hands in panicking about ovulation - I haven't got any signs it's imminent either and I think I'm only a day behind you. I panic that the mmc has messed up my body totally and then try and calm down and remind myself of all the lovely sucess stories and how I'm sure we'll get there in the end.

redredwine4 · 02/06/2015 15:35

Oh thanks disney yes let's walk this cycle together! I'm on day 4 of the flashing smiley face on the cb digi opks- I could murder it looking all happy with itself! Just have to remember all of the lovely ladies who have graduated from this thread and who continue to do so every month.

Honey85 · 02/06/2015 20:24

Welcome autumn!

Oh carrot how rubbish! Fx it's too early to test :)

Congrats kep and miss.

red and Disney sending you both happy thoughts! I'm with you both though on the worrying about the impact the mc has had, so frustrating! Like you so though, loads of bfps recently so there's bucket loads of hope ... We will all get there in the end.

There won't be much poasing at this end ... If I did get a bfp it would be immaculate conception im afraid! Need to crack on but just feel a bit despondent. I'm sure I'll feel better once in the swing of it again!

Allmychildrenhavepaws · 02/06/2015 21:09

Thanks hunny ... I caved and tested this morning...bfn, but I think I knew it would be so god knows why I decided to torture myself, as I'm sure I'm only 9 dpo! Gonna test on Thursday, then Saturday the day before AF due...i have a feeling she would show 'on time' if i weren't pg, as I'm almost certain i O'd 9 days ago...have had a headache every day since, prickles in boobs last few days, crying, sleeping and very moody! But don't want to get my hopes up as i know how cruel our body's can be by playing tricks on us Sad.
Hi newbies, I'm new too x

dobbythedoggy · 02/06/2015 21:34

Think I might have got a positive on the ovulation test this evening. Not convinced I was reading it right and not sure if it would happen that soon after. I'm very in the mood anyway.

Might test again tomorrow morning at some point...I think I might start to get a bit obsesive.

MarysPrayer · 02/06/2015 21:35

Hi MissMrs, good to hear from you, we joined this thread at about the same time I think. Smile I'm so glad everything is going well for you. I got my bfp too! I'm just under 6 weeks along but I have just passed the point at which I had my mc last time and I have lots of symptoms so I'm trying to stay positive.

Kep I'm glad all is well for you too.

MissMrsMummy · 02/06/2015 21:44

Great news marys :-) fx everything goes smoothly for you x

DisneyMillie · 03/06/2015 07:13

It's still really early allmy - keeping my fingers crossed for you x

Lovely to hear everything's going well mary

red any signs of anything today? Yet another high on my lying monitor with no signs at all of ovulation coming anytime soon. Poor DP is struggling with the every other day dtd now!

keys27 · 03/06/2015 07:23

red Disney so sorry about ovulation issues I have no idea whether I have or not sure I was getting faint ones last week but dont think I was doing right never used them before. Done one this morning the right way and was negative. I had a little bleed Friday -Sunday was weird never had one like it before but I am sure it was end of mc and not sure if you ovulated when your having a small bleed.

honey Oh hun probably done the right thing to be honest trying to let your body heal I rushed in then calmed down. We will be here together next month hand holding again.

Good luck to everyone testing again soon. Nothing to report here.

congratulations again to the bfp's :)

redredwine4 · 03/06/2015 09:24

Day 5 of the flashing face- argh! Disney, dobby hope there is better luck tmrw! keys it's so difficult waiting for first af in wtf cycle. I would advise being patient but that would be too rich coming from me! Hope it all settles down soon.

honey you are right- just have to stay positive nothing else for it.

redredwine4 · 03/06/2015 09:31

Sorry about bfn paws early days yet

kep1979 · 03/06/2015 10:13

marys congratulations!! Does that make you due in January then?

redredwine4 · 03/06/2015 12:27

carrot- got everything still crossed for a bfp for you over the next few days

CarrotPuff · 03/06/2015 12:40

Thanks red. I'll be testing on Friday again if still no AF. She's not here yet. No idea what my body is doing Confused

butterflygirl1515 · 03/06/2015 17:35

Hi,

I posted on here recently about starting to TTC after miscarriage at wk 12. My worries about this first cycle being different to normal were unfounded as I had ovulation signs and positive ovulation kit test on day 16 (today). Which is my usual ovulation day. So have DTD today and will again tomorow. Then to keep my fingers crossed. I cant help but feel excited which is great as have until very recently felt rather subdued about trying again after what happened before.

Congrats to those on here who have gotten BFP's and best of luck to everyone who are TTC.

keys27 · 03/06/2015 18:37

hibutterfly I was same gestation as you hun. Very supportive group on here I wish you all the luck in the world.

Roll on friday ladies really hoping you get a bfp xx

DisneyMillie · 04/06/2015 07:15

Really glad things are looking up for you butterfly.

Any solid smiley yet red. Cd15 now and still nothing for me. I'm a little resigned to having a short luteal phase (if any) again this month. Very annoying.

redredwine4 · 04/06/2015 09:13

Sounds promising butterfly!

No solid here disney either. CD17 but that's my solid day pre-mmc so pretty gutted....