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Anyone else 4dpo?

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Faybelline · 28/04/2015 12:09

Today I'm 4 days past ovulation- I think. So that makes me due AF 8th May.

I'm 27, and first month ttc #1.

Just wondered if anyone else was in the same boat?

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NeverShutsUp · 02/06/2015 07:40

Hey charms Smile nice to hear from you again. We wondered where you had gone.

Got my BFP last week so your about three weeks ahead of me

Timw often does drag!

NeverShutsUp · 02/06/2015 07:40

Still not over vap

Vap0 · 02/06/2015 07:51

Cycles this year have ranged from 26-30 days so af will arrive anytime from tomorrow to Sunday. I'm going out this weekend even if af doesn't turn up, need to get my mind off all this.

Hi charms nice to hear from you, I'm pleased all is going well for you.

Charms85 · 02/06/2015 10:21

Congrats Never! How you feeling?

I don't get notifications anymore?

Vap it's still not over until the witch comes! My lines were so faint at the beginning you could hardly see them!!

Vap0 · 03/06/2015 07:42

13dpo bfn
Af due any time now and will be late if not arrived by Sunday

Vap0 · 03/06/2015 07:50

fay any news from you?
achm af? Tested?
lod if you check in - hope you're having a great holiday
never what's your due date? Do you have ds or dd already?

NeverShutsUp · 03/06/2015 14:00

Sorry this morning was my crazy morning but all the hard work etc done! Phew!

Oh no vap re the 13dpo. There's still hope. If not you best have the biggest drink going this weekend. Do you still have sore boobs?
EDD 4th feb but haven't bothered getting in touch with mw etc yet as too early. Often get scans here at 8 weeks but not all the time (seems hit and miss depending on which mw you get). I have 2 DDs so I think this one will be a third DD!

Thanks charms not doing too bad got sickness every morning but only if I rug out of bed! So nowhere near as bad as with my other two at this stage that had me throwing up after most meals!

Any news achm

It seems quiet without lod!

Vap0 · 03/06/2015 16:58

Started spotting this afternoon. I spotted for 2 days last month before properly starting AF. Still have sore boobs but that also happened last month until the day before AF so I'm out. Expect AF to come with full force either tonight or tomorrow or at the very latest, friday. They say spotting doesn't count as day 1 though so still waiting for cd1 to start.

achm any news? You must be almost a week late now if AF hasn't arrived....

Next fertile window is Sunday 14th - Friday 19th... March baby???

Out on the booze again this weekend now. I'm really disappointed, I'd love more than anything to not be able to drink for another 9 months...

No more not drinking for me! It's not helping my mental state! Continue as usual until BFP! I wouldn't wish the month I've had on anyone!

Come back lod and tell us your dates! It's either your turn or mine next month and I'd put money on it being you, I'm not very good at this conception lark.

Vap0 · 03/06/2015 17:03

Entertaining clients again tonight! I'm going for it full throttle! Large cobras and rum all night!!! Sod the hangover and being dead on my feet tomorrow! I deserve it!

LastOneDancing · 03/06/2015 20:09

Yo yo yo POASers!
Found some sporadic dodgy turkish wifi to say hello!

So Vaps has declared herself out Sad
Achm - is still awaiting AF?
Charms popped by I see! Glad she's doing well.
Never hope you're feeling fine too.
And I'm due on any moment. Had a bit of cramp the last two days so imminent. Probably while sunbathing in my best white bikini with pineapples on.

Good job as I got wasted on Sunday as the ILs stayed in with LLOD and DH and I went out to celebrate our 2nd anniversary. It was such a good night, almost worth the buggered up month and no BFP Grin I got a bit rock and roll after 3 big vodkas and threw my flip flops in the villa pool - DH (also tipsy) had to fish them out with the big net. I found it all hilarious Confused

Completely forgot to bring any sticks as I was out of my mind by the time we left for the airport, so can't even do one for fun!

Achm · 03/06/2015 21:06

Humph. Couldn't resist poas last night, thought it made sense as I'm so late, but BFN. Sad
Now I'm 6 days late. Will be a week tomorrow. Feel completely horrible. I've now had 4 yes 4 bfn's but don't feel close to AF. So confused and unsettled. I'm certain I'm not preg as that many tests can't be wrong, but seriously pissed off that the next cycle hadn't even started yet!! Feel like an obsessive paranoid blocked up whale.
Sorry no positivity from me tonight. But lod you did make me smile with your flip flops!! Think I need to get that drunk!
Never glad the sickness isn't too bad, and baby will arrive just before Val day!
Vap onward and upward to June, if my body can stop being a plonker and just get on with things!

I complained to DH that I was feeling rubbish, his advice? Try to stop thinking about it!! Yeah right!!!

Vap0 · 04/06/2015 01:36

lod
lod
lod
How I've missed you! Come home soon!

Sorry never and charms don't mean to be rude!

Hope you're having an amazing time on holiday!!!

lod let's get on this for the race to the march baby! Not been home since Monday at 7.30am but have already told dp he needs to buck up his ideas for next month! He has seen the blubbering mess I've been this month (normally as hard as a rock) and can't do this indefinitely, 21 months is more than, more than enough, for any human!!!! This needs to happen soon!!!

So I keep arranging to go out with work colleagues (we all live in different parts of the country) and the night out planned next is Brighton in 2 weeks. So rather than pay for my hotel room and lose it I cancelled and cant get a room any more. We are now planning another night out where i really want to go but will mean a £120-£150 outlay at least within the next week or so which I can't face losing if we become pregnant. I don't know why I keep torturing myself for the what if - I mean, it's not like it's been a particularly fruitful venture this getting pregnant lark!!! I'm missing out on life since trying to get pregnant (so basically 2 years) where I haven't agreed to any fun activity. I can't face the idea of paying so much money out in the hope that I won't be able to take part in the activity.

All this Ttc is destroying me! I feel so bad for the people who I read about where it takes 5 years....or more.....! Coming up to 2 years in and I'm falling apart. Never being home is making it so hard too. I wish I could just be at home a little more often than i am! I'm so sick of hotel beds! Sad

Sorry, I'm on YET another downer!

I'll try to pick myself up again in time for tomorrow...

NeverShutsUp · 04/06/2015 14:23

lod sounds like your having a lovely time, I didn't laugh at all about you and your flip flops Grin we all miss you!

achm sounds very stressful for you! I hope something happens soon not the limbo you want to be in when ttc! And I never thought about due date like that! I'll probably go over though so it may be a Valentine's day birthday!

vap don't worry I can understand you wanting LOD and also feeling down. I wish so much that you would finally get your BFP this has been a long road for you and it just has to happen soon! I think you've done amazing to stick at it so long. I hope your plans for june work out!
Any POAS today? Or AF?

Achm · 04/06/2015 16:55

AF!!!! Thank god, I think my rant worked, finally on day one!! Three March babies for us then ladies!!

Vap0 · 04/06/2015 19:21

achm finally!! That must be a record for being late!! Welcome to the next cycle Grin

Vap0 · 04/06/2015 19:26

never I haven't poas again, still spotting. And it's brown (sorry tmi). AF really should start tomorrow.... If not started properly by tomorrow morning I'll test again maybe? Not really worth wasting a test probably but now I'm annoyed I didn't test this morning now AF isn't officially here. I was a little preoccupied trying to manage my hangover and get ready in time. Massive cramps this afternoon and sore boobs still. Hurry up AF! My app has now shifted all of my dates around and has now decided AF isn't due until saturday???

NeverShutsUp · 04/06/2015 19:46

I hope this is your lucky cycle achm and a much shorter one this time Grin

I hope it's just spotting that's implantation bleeding not AF vap I also hope you are feeling much better today! That app sounds crazy i bet you want to just know or move on. Not to be in limbo. Tww is awful or in achms case 3ww!!!

Achm · 04/06/2015 20:47

Thanks, can't believe I'm so relieved! Thought I'd be sad but just knowing one way or the other is so much better!
My cycles look like this...

Anyone else 4dpo?
Achm · 04/06/2015 20:48

Lucky day this month is now the 18th. DH has a week to prepare himself!!

Achm · 04/06/2015 20:51

Vap fingers crossed for implantation! Let us know if you poas tomorrow!

Vap0 · 04/06/2015 21:43

I think it's way too late for implantation. If af isn't here with full force In the morning I'll test.

NeverShutsUp · 05/06/2015 06:33

Can't believe your cycles alter that much achm ive always been 27/28 days! Up until april it was always 28!

I hope AF had held off this morning vap

Vap0 · 05/06/2015 08:11

AF is officially here now. My app has rejigged the dates again.
Fertile window 14-19 June
I expect a positive opk on 18 June and then ovulation on 19 June.
AF now due 3 July.

So, what dates would you say are the best for dtd? I'm thinking 17,18,19.

NeverShutsUp · 05/06/2015 09:53

Boo that May was not the month but I am glad you are both onto new cycles!

What about 15 then 17,18,19. Covers a good base then?

lod when ever you next get internet how are you getting on?

LastOneDancing · 05/06/2015 10:36

Morning all!

LLOD has been a screaming mess this morning so I've snuck out while he is asleep to swig Turkish gin, neat, from the bottle MN.

I know it sounds daft but glad AF has arrived for you two, so you can start cracking on with a new cycle.

AF due tomorrow here. I've been a bit mardy so will hopefully be back to my holiday best once it arrives! It's a shorter not being able to mess with my contraception to make sure the witch stays away though - I miss that!

Been thinking about your predicament Vaps and IF you can afford it I'd book the hotel - you can eithrr still go and stay sober, sell your place to someone else or offset it against the fact that - Hurrah! - you're pregnant.
But before that, any chance of paying a slightly higher rate so you can cancel if need be? I know a lot of places will do that.

I wonder how Fay is getting on? I think she was virtually on the same calendar as me.

Missing you all lots xx