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Anyone else 4dpo?

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Faybelline · 28/04/2015 12:09

Today I'm 4 days past ovulation- I think. So that makes me due AF 8th May.

I'm 27, and first month ttc #1.

Just wondered if anyone else was in the same boat?

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NeverShutsUp · 30/05/2015 10:53

vod- vap! I clearly just made a new word joining vap and lod together!

Achm · 30/05/2015 11:28

Whoops, sorry! Blush

Achm · 30/05/2015 12:39

Doggy update... Apart try they didn't want to dtd on the first date!!

Vap0 · 30/05/2015 13:21

Ahaha! That makes me feel a bit better that it isn't just plain sailing for dogs too! Grin

Vap0 · 30/05/2015 16:05

Just been asked again why I'm not drinking and a suspicious look when I said I was driving! This is absolutely driving me nuts! I'm sick of it!

NeverShutsUp · 30/05/2015 16:10

It won't be long vap and just think of it as preparing you for when you do get your BFP but don't want to share yours news with the world! Any symptoms anyone?
AF achm? Or still in with a shot?

Haha at the dog! May take a while after all Grin

Vap0 · 30/05/2015 20:30

2 more people asked me at this party today why I wasn't drinking. When we got in the car to go home I burst into tears. I have had enough of this. What difference does it make to everyone whether I'm drinking or not?! The other people who were driving weren't harassed like me!

It is not like me to cry so hopefully that is a good thing.

NeverShutsUp · 31/05/2015 08:50

Fingers crossed the crying is just homones for good reason like you said!

No need to get down about it. And the nights done now, just think of a phrase to say to people in response! But I hope it stops happening or at least by the next time your out its for a good reason so you can ignore them all!

We saw the MIL yesterday and felt like I was lying! As we were talking about going for a few drinks in a few month at a big family gathering. Thankfully no secret keeping by then!

Vap0 · 31/05/2015 11:23

achm have you tested again? Or has af arrived?

I tested again this morning 10dpo and still bfn. Will see what happens next week.

I hope you've had a good start to your hols lod

Yep, never at least the night is over now and by next weekend I'll know either way, although do have 2 nights entertaining customers tues and wed, I'll be better at that though as will drink coke and ask them to make it look like the rum and coke I'll be ordering for my colleagues.

Been really tired again, not sure if it's a result of a crazy stressful and long week or a symptom or feeling down or just laziness? Slept for 12hrs last night and 11hrs fri night.

Other than that sore boobs are still there. I noticed that last month the sore boobs went away 2 days before af arrived so if they don't hurt by Tuesday I'll know she's on her way.

NeverShutsUp · 31/05/2015 15:01

That all sounds really positive vap, with being doing it so long you should have lot to reflect on how it "normally" feels. And you might even know by Tuesday/Wednesday! So that could make the drinks even easier to avoid.
That was me last week so tired and I couldn't decide if it was a symptom of pregnancy or over worked!

Any news achm?

It seems so quiet here now! I hope you all get BFP soon.

Achm · 31/05/2015 18:25

Nothing yet, but no one get excited, feel very AFy. Been a bit stressed with work so I think that's holding it off!

Vap0 · 31/05/2015 18:54

Did you test again?
Aren't you a few days late already?
Fingers crossed for you still!
Will you test again or just wait for af?
I've had the most stressful week in months last week too so really hoping that doesn't mess with my af and delay it! Bring it forward yes! But not delay it!

It is far too quiet on here now isn't it!

achm how about which ever one of us has af 1st starts a new thread titled cd1 come and join us!

Achm · 31/05/2015 20:05

Haha sounds like a plan!
According to my app (which averages out my cycle for the past 2 yrs ish) I was due on Fri. But I know it's coming, you know when you just know? Angry
Wish it would just hurry up now though!
I'm feeling more positive about next cycle though as I don't think we did enough last month to make sure, didn't even dtd every other day, missed about three days before ov, then dtd day of and day after. DH won't know what's hit him in June!!

Achm · 31/05/2015 20:06

Bets on how many times lod poas on hols!?

Vap0 · 31/05/2015 20:30

I bet lod tests 2 times
Any other bets?

I can't wait to test again tomorrow morning! Grin

It's official! It's not the not drinking I have a problem with it's the comments and funny looks, we went to the pub today after a bit of a walk into town and dp had 3 or 4 pints and I was happy not drinking, in fact I even suggested going.

Vap0 · 31/05/2015 20:31

I love that we all have an app for our cycles! Haha! Can you imagine how difficult all of this would have been a few years ago!?

Vap0 · 31/05/2015 20:32

Im away for 3 nights or more importantly 3 mornings and am taking 4 tests with me. 1 for each day and a spare in case I get a bfp and need a 2nd opinion! Grin

Achm · 31/05/2015 21:04

Hahah Vap that sounds very well prepared!!
I'm fighting the urge to test again, trying to focus on June, getting healthier and loosing some weight!!

Vap0 · 01/06/2015 07:13

11dpo bfn.
It's looking like this isn't my month Sad
Af due at 14dpo so will keep testing in the mornings until af arrives and by Thursday I think I'll need to stock up on more ic's for month 21.
How long is this going to take?????

NeverShutsUp · 01/06/2015 09:06

Please don't give up hope vap, 11dpo is still early!

Also think of this as cycle 2 as this is only the second one you've ovulated in and it should be this month if not soon! You've got rid of the depo and that took long enough I am sure it won't take long now.

Any sign of AF achm can't believe you've held off so long.

Vap0 · 01/06/2015 09:28

I know it's only officially cycle 2 which makes it even more crap Sad
achm you must have af or tested by now? Any updates?

Achm · 01/06/2015 13:17

Oh no nothing yet! But I know AF is coming I just know it! If it hadn't arrived by Weds I'll test again but otherwise it'll just make me sad! I'll be 6 days late on Weds. But I'm betting on today.

Vap please don't be too down, just think your baby will come exactly when it's ready and will be perfect. However long you've got to wait, you've already got 20 months of waiting done and dusted so there is less waiting left to do! Stay positive and do things to make yourself happy whilst you're waiting. Cycle two for me now and maybe it's c2 out of 20?? I've got all my waiting still to do xxx

NeverShutsUp · 02/06/2015 06:49

Any news? Anybody POAS?

Keep up the spirits vap it is all going in the right direction and still time this month ! How's the boobs?

Charms85 · 02/06/2015 07:08

Hello ladies!!

I know it's been a while I've been trying to keep myself busy to make the time go fast!!

Anyone got BFP since I've been away?

I'm 8 weeks tomorrow and it's dragging!!! Not really suffering from sickness just waves and tiredness kicked in yesterday!

Good luck to you allSmileSmile

Vap0 · 02/06/2015 07:39

12dpo bfn