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TTC for the first time - anyone else?

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innersanctum · 28/09/2014 17:15

Hi all. I'm a newbie to Mumsnet. TTC for the first time - it's all new!

DH and I have decided to 'take the plunge' and TTC#1. I'm 27 and DH is 31.

It's our first month of trying.

Anyone else just starting out? Would be great to hear from anyone in the same boat and share along the way.

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innersanctum · 12/10/2014 18:19

Welcome Kirstywa1! Most of us are all of our first cycle of TTC. We've just got great news from Alis with a BFP!

All this OVing business is a complete minefield. DTD was so straightforward before TTC, eh?

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Kirstywa1 · 12/10/2014 18:36

Definitely innersanctum! I have spent so much of my adult life trying not to conceive - TTC seems almost an impossible thing!!

Great news for the others with their BFP Grin

DogOnALeash · 12/10/2014 18:40

Eeeek Alis congrats!!!

I'm 2 days late according to Ovia, 2 BFN's last week - couldn't help myself Blush but I don't want to test again yet... I feel something going on with my body, it's not quite same as AF but she's such a bitchslap I'm sure she's just messing with me.

Awww the puppies!! I have two little Westies and they are adorable, kinda regretting getting them both neutered as would probably have done really well using one as a stud as his coat and temperament is absolutely perfect. Suffering from Ringworm in this house, I'm keeping my distance as medication isn't suitable for preggers ladies Confused

innersanctum · 12/10/2014 18:52

I'm also worried AF is toying with me. Cramps and very sore boobies. Could be PMS. Could be preggers. The wait is agonising! Think I'm going to wait til Saturday to test (as long as AF doesnt turn up)

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Kirstywa1 · 12/10/2014 18:57

I think my body is playing tricks on me, i have had cramping and fluttering (not horrendous just odd) on and off for a few days although not due AF until 22nd and my nipples are very sore! I have a feeling I am going to drive myself mad - thinking I am then getting really disappointed when AF arrives!

Alisvolatpropiis · 12/10/2014 19:01

I used clear blue double pack with a normal test and a digital one, the digital one puts me at 2-3 weeks so 4-5 in doctor speak. But my last period was nearly 7 weeks ago so not 100%. I'm not good at working this stuff out Blush

I haven't told anyone in real life except my DH so it's nice to share!

DogOnALeash · 12/10/2014 19:03

I think this is 2WW symptom spotting going into overdrive - seriously this is only cycle one and I'm already going insane!! I keep telling myself AF is going to come any minute now so I'm not hugely disappointed when she does.

I am a firm believer that this everything we see/feel is completely and utterly psychological and when we do get a BFP we will have no symptoms whatsoever lol

Gillian1980 · 12/10/2014 19:07

I also drive myself mad symptom spotting but I don't share that with my DH as I think he'll think I'm crazy!

When I have an absolute, no doubt bfp I'll tell him :)

innersanctum · 12/10/2014 19:07

Alis really great to share your news. It's what we're all working for! Smile

I hope you'll keep us update on here!

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innersanctum · 12/10/2014 19:09

I've been getting DH involved in symptom-spotting by flashing my boobs at him, asking 'do they look different to you?' He says not. Don't think he minds either! Wink

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DogOnALeash · 12/10/2014 19:11

Hahaha I've done that to DH too, he's always willing to do a change in size feel Wink I wonder why?

He's getting all excited and I think he just wants to know whether he's got another month of good sex coming up or not lmao

innersanctum · 12/10/2014 19:13

Hahaha. I have a sneaking suspicion my DH is hoping for a bfn too. At least for a couple of months. Wink

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DogOnALeash · 12/10/2014 20:24

Ladies!!!! Am I being crazy or is there a line that could possibly show up if I use fmu.....added the pic in black and white cos it totally shows up that way!! It's a real squinter...or am I insane?

DogOnALeash · 12/10/2014 20:24

Ladies!!!! Am I being crazy or is there a line that could possibly show up if I use fmu.....added the pic in black and white cos it totally shows up that way!! It's a real squinter...or am I insane?

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TTC for the first time - anyone else?
DogOnALeash · 12/10/2014 20:25

Oops soz for the double message, didn't do the images properly on the first one

Gillian1980 · 12/10/2014 20:42

I can definitely see a line, especially in the b&w pic.
I reckon it'll show up darker with FMU. X

Alisvolatpropiis · 12/10/2014 20:45

I can see a line!

Mumwannabe82 · 12/10/2014 20:59

I can see a line too Smile

DogOnALeash · 12/10/2014 21:09

Ahh this is madness, I wasn't even going to test but then something told me to.

We will se again tomorrow/day after when I can go get more tests and use with fmu Grin

Mumwannabe82 · 12/10/2014 21:38

Ooh good luck and please keep us posted xx

Blimeygirl · 12/10/2014 21:53

Oh my goodness this thread is getting rather exciting and sounding positive! My boobs are very sore but they are pretty weird at the best of times so defo don't think I am but would be rather exciting! Trying to get dh excited about it and failing miserably!

So so happy for those getting bfps! X

Blimeygirl · 12/10/2014 21:57

Oh and Dogonalead I defo see one on the black and white one! Eeek so exciting! X

DogOnALeash · 13/10/2014 13:17

Hi Ladies how's everyone doing today? Don't count yourself out Blimey I did and well so far I'm still getting faint BFP's

I went out this morning and got 3 more tests, 2 with red ink cos for the life of me I cannot see the blue ink on Clearblue!!! And I got a digi one to take just to make sure WinkWink

Took one this avo as I'm really terrible at waiting and got another faint bfp, it's far easier to see in real life than in the pic...

If this is true puts my EDD at June 24th Shock

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Blimeygirl · 13/10/2014 13:32

How many days post ovulation did you test dogonaleash? Just curious as to when I can test but won't be for a while!

DogOnALeash · 13/10/2014 14:20

Ohh umm now you're asking the question.....I think it's about 14/15dpo If I did actually Ov on the day I thought I did.

I have a 32day cycle and I think I Ov'd on 28/29th Sept...ohh that means I possibly conceived on my birthday :D thats nice

How many dpo are you blimey?

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