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TTC 10 Months Plus, Supporting each other & Staying Positive :) This thread will be the BFP one!

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victoria401 · 07/09/2014 09:24

This is a thread for ladies who have been ttc longer than 10 months who have started the ball rolling with tests and treatments. We are all here to support each other though these darker days to the baby shaped light at the end of the tunnel!

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victoria401 · 04/12/2014 21:21

Omg just looked up preseed, I didn't know it was the best part of twenty quid! Expected it to be much less! Not sure whether to order it with my mil's Xmas pressie in case I've 'caught' this month! Chances of that?! Cwtched up to dh earlier and said "do you think we made a baby last night?" He said "no I really think we didn't". Oh he's soooooo positive!

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lildottie · 04/12/2014 21:53

aww vic i hope he's right! Yes preseed is a bit expensive, but i didnt use the amount it suggested - i found it way too much. I think it lasted us about 2 cycles per tube, but we tended not to use it at the very start of the month.

Ladyboluna · 04/12/2014 22:24

We're on a roll this month... we've DTD on day 5, 7 and 9. Not had a high on CBFM yet though but FF thinks I should (on average) be getting into the fertile time now.

And yeah, preseed was expensive but I'm getting desperate now, really hoping for a Christmas BFP. As the song goes - I don't care about the presents, underneath the Christmas tree... (I hope that gets in all your heads because Mariah Carey has got a lot to answer for as it's been stuck in my head all day!) lol

victoria401 · 05/12/2014 06:48

Omg! Just reading this and Mariah Carey is on the radio right now! I read those lines as she sang them! Freaky or what?!

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TheTravellingLemon · 05/12/2014 09:00

Let's hope we all get Xmas BFPs!

I went to the GP yesterday and it was actually okay. I saw a locum who was nice, but just wanted to get me out so she signed me up for a blood test (21 day) and a scan pretty sharpish. I feel much better in myself today and ready to start on another cycle.

I've always quite like the idea of acupuncture. I'm not sure why, but it really appeals to me. Mariah Carey on the other hand Grin

xBlueberry88x · 05/12/2014 09:04

ladies try conceive plus its a bit cheaper and its what we used the last to cycles!

You may laugh but my mum collected lots of crystals and gems that are meant to help with fertility and they are all next to my bed.

Ladyboluna · 05/12/2014 16:59

Blue I wouldn't laugh at all, I think there's nothing strange about new-age and folklore beliefs (in my eyes they should be seen at least to be as credible as prayer which for some reason is more socially acceptable?). As sentimental as it sounds I think it's important to take into account any spiritual comfort (if you know what I mean).

I'll look into conceive plus when preseed runs out, never thought to shop around really just remembered hearing preseed mentioned a lot.

cooperG · 05/12/2014 19:23

So I went to visit my gp today, with the intention of asking him to prescribe progesterone as I was (and maybe still am...) convinced it's too low. Ended up telling him all that's happened the last 20 months or so (he initially referred me) and crying a bit. Confused
BUT, he was so lovely and positive and made me feel better. Went into my hospital file and told me my last day 21 results the prog level was 45 which apparently is good and that even if my amh levels were low (I haven't had that test), it wouldn't affect my fertility right NOW. So even though nothing's changed, I feel better Smile
Have a good weekend ladies, I'm spreading the positive vibes Flowers

lildottie · 05/12/2014 19:45

glad you feel better cooper. why didn't they do amh with day 21? so annoying how its done so differently over the country!

just had my first "bad" meal in weeks. heading north to see family and stopped at nandos for dinner! stuffed now!

victoria401 · 05/12/2014 21:03

Nothing wrong with the odd treat lil :-)

Glad you're feeling better about it Cooper

Talking of amh, I didn't get mine done until I turned down treatment in Oct and the doc said she'd do it to 'see much time I had left'!

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lildottie · 05/12/2014 21:05

oh Vic! nothing like kicking a gal when she's down!! results were good though if I remember correctly?

victoria401 · 05/12/2014 21:52

23ish, alright for my age.

Need to dtd tonight but dh whingeing. Got a positive opk this morning, left it on top of the loo for him to see too. I'm waiting in bed and he's watching 'not going out' downstairs, sigh...

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lildottie · 05/12/2014 22:00

time to get creative Vic, or go all mental on his ass and remind him how babies are made. didn't he say he thought you'd made a baby the other night? tell him it's far more likely tonight!

victoria401 · 05/12/2014 22:21

He said it was unlikely the other night :-( now he's gone on his computer game!

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lildottie · 05/12/2014 22:46

Vic you need to have it out with him. remind him what you're going to have to go through because he can't drag himself off his computer to be intimate with you. sorry, I'm angry for you. I'd kick my dh to kingdom come if he did that to me.

lildottie · 05/12/2014 22:47

but failing that just vent here and stay away from the mulled wine OK!

xBlueberry88x · 05/12/2014 22:51

vicky put some sexy clothes on and get on him while hes playing his game lol

WestCountryLondonGirl · 06/12/2014 02:00

Hello ladies, I've been lurking here since the start of the thread, hadn't trusted myself to post, but I've been ttc for 16 months and just got my BFP so thought I'd share my story....

Came off the pill end of July 13, first few cycles were 44 days plus, followed by a couple of 31 day ones...thought things may have been settling down, though had only ever got one positive opk/ post-ov temp rise in those whole few months...then I was thrown a horrendous 145 day cycle, during which time after several trips to the docs, was finally given blood tests and diagnosed with hypothyroidism and told to take Levothyroxine in July. An us scan had also picked up possible PCOs. At around the same time I started taking agnus castus and finally ovulated at the end of the mega cycle. My cycles since July have been sensible 31ish days and my TSH levels had gone down to just over 2 in September. Ever since end of June, cycles indicates ov through temps and this was confirmed by progesterone test in Sept! However, by this time, as we'd reached the year mark, DH had a sperm analysis, which came back as 5 million swimmers, had it redone the following week to find only 3 million. We were pretty devastated, but got referred to FC and had our first consultation last month. The consultant referred me for an HSG and DH to the urologist and to have a scan. I was fully prepared to have to be avoiding alcohol this month due to the pre-HSG antibiotics and DH had just booked his urology appointment when we found out! Against the odds it can happen!

Oh, and we may have experienced a victoria-esque cock up- the consultant noticed the first sperm sample wasn't analysed for over 2 hours, so wondering if the bad news from the first test made him too stressed for the second?

victoria401 · 06/12/2014 08:17

Morning girls. Thanks for sharing your story westcountry, saw your bfp on the December bus! Its been a good month for some of the old timers. Must be something on the air! You really must have been lurking a long time if you remember my dh's disaster sa! Luckily I, if not we, have put that behind us as best I can. Occasionally it rears its head and I get angry at those 'infertile' 4 months....

'warmed myself up' for dh last night so when he came to bed I just made him stick it in and it was all over in 60secs. I hope that's not the shag we conceive on and I have to remember it! All over for another few weeks I told him, don't worry we don't need to do it any more this month. So here we go again. 1dpo....

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victoria401 · 06/12/2014 21:49

Just been baby bombed again :-( A friend who had actually been suffering from secondary infertility for well over a year. Of course I'm pleased for her and she's a fab mum but I was secretly enjoying not being the only one. How awful of me.

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Ladyboluna · 06/12/2014 23:39

Got a "high" reading on CBFM this morning. Trying to feel optimistic about this month. I'm dreading Christmas - isn't that awful? New baby in the family so we've got to go to their house. I feel like all my relatives that are my age and all my friends are either having babies or talking about each other having babies. Making me feel like my life has stopped or doesn't count.

TheTravellingLemon · 07/12/2014 19:10

Not at all Victoria ThanksWine

I had four in one week. And I was on holiday. And I'd just got AF. I had to send DH and DS down to the pool for a couple of hours so I could weep and beg mumsnet to help me Blush

lildottie · 07/12/2014 19:43

I found out about sils pg the day before AF was due in front of her family and ours when they knew wed been ttc for a year. I couldn't get out of there quick enough and cried the whole way home. the baby is now 16wks oldSad

victoria401 · 07/12/2014 19:52

Just been baby bombed again! My ex bf has been tagged by one of my workmates (who introduced us way back in 2002, he was deleted from my list). He has a new baby. Weird feeling when someone you've slept with fathers a child with someone else.....

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LarnyLou · 07/12/2014 19:57

Hi everyone,
I'm new to this, but have been TTC for 12 months now, had the implant before but I've now booked an appointment to see my GP to get myself checked out. Although I do feel different this cycle but could just be reading into everything a little too much?

I know what you mean Ladyboluna - I've had several of my friends and a family member find out that they're pregnant and I'm over the moon for them but also a little jealous!! :S x