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TTC 10 Months Plus, Supporting each other & Staying Positive :) This thread will be the BFP one!

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victoria401 · 07/09/2014 09:24

This is a thread for ladies who have been ttc longer than 10 months who have started the ball rolling with tests and treatments. We are all here to support each other though these darker days to the baby shaped light at the end of the tunnel!

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Ladyboluna · 01/12/2014 16:34

Congratulations Notta, especially after this very long journey! Smile

shandrexx · 01/12/2014 19:10

Thanx for ur msgs ladies. I did a beta test today. Negative! Tears All over again!do u guys think i must go back on my clomids? Gynae perscribed 3x 50mg perdayShock

xBlueberry88x · 01/12/2014 19:35

shan If they think thas what will work then do it, its normal procedure to up the dose if its not working. And surely its worth it to get your bfp

m33r · 01/12/2014 20:37

notta AMAZING!!!! CONGRATULTIONS!

Still pop in here to see how you're all doing and this is BRILLIANT news! So pleased for you notta! FlowersFlowersFlowers

Sparrowlegs248 · 01/12/2014 21:49

travellinglemon I know how you feel, I had pretty much given up all hope. Wasn't testing, symptom spotting, targeting ovation or anything! For several months. We have been averaging DTD 4 - 6 times per month recently. I stayed away from these boards as felt so cheated overtime a newbie got a BFP! and it just ramped up my level of crazy. But it can happen so chin up! x

Hi m33r Its grand to see some of the 'old' names lurking about. :-)

m33r · 01/12/2014 22:20

travelling it can happen. It took us 20 months and all the tests etc too. I was 10 days away from my ivf appt. I'm 24+4.

notta just thrilled for you x

lildottie · 01/12/2014 23:39

congratulations notta that's amazing! so happy for you. Thanks

lady I had a separate appt booked for dildocam. its basically a long probe, the put a cindim and lube on and gently "insert" it. the move it side to side a bit to look at ovaries. they could see 2-3 folicles growing on my first then a definite dominant one on second (had 2 as I ov late so was too early in my cycle on cd14). not painful at all and not really all that uncomfortable. worst but was she used so much lube but I wasn't given anything to clean up with so I left feeling rather sticky!

shandrexx · 02/12/2014 06:20

Thanx blueberry. Ill have a chat with my hubby 2night. Hope u all have a good day xxlast 2 weeks of workGrin

babydream15 · 02/12/2014 06:43

Wow this thread is going strong! I've been away for awhile and now have loads to catch up. Hasn't anyone invented an easy trick to get us pregnant while I was away??
victoria I went to see a doctor to request an iui this month but very disappointingly she ordered fresh sets of my blood test and dh's SA. She said we can aim for it next month. I told her that we won't be together at the magic time for next three cycles. She calmed replied to come back in three months. Wtf? In frustration and anger, DH and I found a last minute deal and went to sunny holidayWow this thread is going strong! Sorry I've been away on holidays and then 2ww started last week so I've been obsessed reading signs in my body! victoria I didn't get to have the iui(unfortunately with his child too). I'm half way through 2ww. I'm tired of this déjà vu. I'm pretty sure my AF is on the way, I can just feel it. :( it's great news you got the date. I know how frustrating it is when people say "relax". I recently talked to a mum who conceived a boy after 1st cycle of ivf. I wanted to get info about the clinic. She said it's invasive and stressful. She advised me to relax, maybe it's taking me longer than usual. She meant well but I couldn't keep a straight face. :( Anyway good luck to you. Hope all of us get a bpf for Xmas!!

babydream15 · 02/12/2014 06:53

I'm not sure what just happened up there. Sorry about the messy message. Brushing teeth and typing on an iPhone with sleepy head is a disaster. I wish I can use "pregnancy brain" as an excuse. Good day!

onelifeonechance · 02/12/2014 07:50

Notta!! Huge congrats!! Woop woop!! Fantastic news! Grin So pleased for you, enjoy!

This thread is on a roll, keep the faith ladies, miracles do happen Smile

xBlueberry88x · 02/12/2014 10:05

Ahhhhh shaking

TTC 10 Months Plus, Supporting each other & Staying Positive :) This thread will be the BFP one!
GingerbreadHead · 02/12/2014 10:33

Oh my god this thread is on a roll!!!!
Congrats Notta!! Fantastic news for you, so happy you got your BFP. I have to say I also noticed that DHs 'goods' stayed inside for longer the month I conceived too....also did legs in the air for ages too.

Ummm... Blue ....is that what I think it is???????????!!!!!!!!

Ladyboluna · 02/12/2014 10:34

blue that definitely looks like a bfp to me even without my glasses on Grin congratulations!

xBlueberry88x · 02/12/2014 10:42

yesss Ginger it is lol

Metalhead · 02/12/2014 10:53

Woohoo, two BFPs in a row! Congratulations blue, your symptoms did sound very promising! Grin

GingerbreadHead · 02/12/2014 10:56

Yey Blue!!!! Congratulations!!!! I'm so so happy for you, so glad the clomid worked for you! Brilliant news!!! How does DH feel??

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victoria401 · 02/12/2014 10:57

I told you this thread would be the BFP one! Lol! Fantastic news. Gives us all hope that 20 months plus isn't the end, its the beginning! Couple more months and this thread will close coz we'll all be clutching our BFP sticks! Wooooooooo!

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xBlueberry88x · 02/12/2014 11:00

Thanks ladies

Ginger Hes very quiet it took a lot of persuading to get him to ttc and after 20 months I think he got comfortable was to much to hope he would be ecstatic lol

I cant wait to see you all get your bfps.

Im not sure what to do next

Landy10 · 02/12/2014 11:04

Blue - amazing! Well done! Congratulations! Clomid really does do the job.

Sparrowlegs248 · 02/12/2014 11:32

Yey blue fabulous stuff!!! How do you feel? I didn't think i had any symptoms but wasn't really watching for them. I feel a bit 'windy' in the tummy and keep burping! Slight nausea but that might just be nerves. :-)

xBlueberry88x · 02/12/2014 12:40

Notta Ive been crampy for a few days, creamy cm since ovulation and mega hunger lol. But now I feel kinda weird im trying not to worry and just be happy

onelifeonechance · 02/12/2014 13:06

Yes Blue! Congrats!!! This thread is most definitely on a roll!!! Grin

Mamama31 · 02/12/2014 13:40

Congrats Blue!!!! that is amazing there has been so much good news! Who's next???? Keep them coming ladies :)

Metalhead · 02/12/2014 17:36

So ladies, I had my hysteroscopy this morning. Everything went well and I got back home around 3pm. The results were a bit of a surprise however: turns out I didn't have any adhesions after all! The obstruction that the consultant saw on the ultrasound was just some sort of bulge in the cervical canal, but he said everything looked fine in there, and he also flushed through my tubes and they seemed to be working too. So, we've been given the go ahead to continue ttc straight away, which is good news, though I'm a bit Hmm as to why my periods have been so weird and we haven't conceived yet if everything is ok. Back to the drawing board I guess!

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