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2014 will bring me a BFP!

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DulcetMoans · 28/12/2013 00:12

I seem to remember there was a year thread when I first joined for 2013 but that didn't go my way. I can't see a 2014 one but I am determined to get my BFP in 2014 and hoping positive mental attitude will help.

Thought if see if anyone wants to join with 2014 goal to get upduffed rather than a monthly bus - some of us just need a longer term strategy!

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JennyOfOldstones · 03/03/2014 15:02

Everyone has been quiet lately!! I have just ov'd I think, not charting any more but it is usually around cd13/14 so we managed to dtd on cd11 and 13 then dp was out two nights in a row so we have given up now. It has been impossible to keep it up for us gwen we are going for timing rather than quantity these days!! I might get some opks for next month just to shake things up a bit, the 'relaxed' approach is no more successful for us than when I was obsessing so might as well obsess again!!

victoria401 · 03/03/2014 16:46

Too late to join?

Im 33 and DH is 35. We have been ttc since Dec 2012 and have just started having fertility tests. I've had cd21 and have cd2-5 on Wednesday. DH is waiting patiently for a date for his SA.

I'm on day 1 after a very cruel Feb of thinking I was preg. I had a few signs I thought might have been symptoms and was sure it had finally happened! Also I had reflexology this month and last. My very usual 28-29 day cycles turned into a 32 day and I tested BFN yesterday. Mother of af's started today and I even had to come home from work from painful cramps! I could see stars!

2013 wasn't our year, 2014?

m33r · 03/03/2014 18:54

Hi victoria. Of course not too late! Welcome aboard. Hope the fertility tests go well. How long do you have to wait for DH test?

I'm usually not a symptom spotter having been devastated more than a few times in the last 15 months but today I had a very noticeable wave of nausea as well as cramps yesterday. Am really tired and think my bbs are quite sore. I know how I sound... Been here a hundred times but I have really noticed...

I'm on 8-10dpo (got pos opk on both fri and Saturday). Usually got 16 day lp. Cross everything ... And sorry for the crazy

gwenabee85 · 03/03/2014 20:16

Well fx jenny and m33! And of course not too late to join victoria, welcome :) hopefully 2014 will be the one for all of us, good that you've got the tests started

victoria401 · 03/03/2014 22:24

Hi m33r DH was put on approx 3 week waiting list about a wk and half ago. Then apparently after he drops off his pot there is another few weeks before the Dr tells you the results! I just want to know! DH is dreading it, but I remind him how little he has to do compared to me!

m33r · 03/03/2014 22:30

victoria he should have to do it twice. The readings can differ quite a bit. Good luck!

victoria401 · 04/03/2014 10:20

I won't break the news to him that he might need to do it twice! He's freaked out enough about doing in once!

gwenabee85 · 08/03/2014 09:17

Morning all :) I'm now 5dpo and got loads of creamy cm (sorry) I know it's too early to be a symptom but going loopy all the same.. m33, how are you doing?

sykadelic · 09/03/2014 01:14

Had my rod out yesterday (implanon BC rod). We're not TTC just yet, I want to try and lose some of the weight I've gained while being on it for 4.5 years.

I'm also going to take the opportunity to monitor my ovulation and all that to see how regular I am.

One thing that concerns my husband about TTC is the pressure to do it on a certain day or days. So maybe if I figure out my pattern I can make it less of a pressure on him to perform.

I'm pretty nervous about getting my period and dealing with all that "stuff" again but hopefully this is the start of something good!

sykadelic · 05/04/2014 20:07

There's been no posts on here for almost a month so I'll post.

I ordered this yesterday: www.amazon.com/Ovulation-Prediction-Strips-Pregnancy-Test/dp/B0026995KO/ref=sr_1_1?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1396724299&sr=1-1&keywords=wondfo

I also received some baby formula and coupons in the mail the other day and that enabled me to talk to my husband about WHEN we're going to try (roughly) but in my oh so subtle way "I'm going to give this stuff away because it expires in Feb 2015 but this one expires in Dec 2015 and I think we'll have a baby by then.................. right?" haha. He's so onto me :P

cooperG · 19/06/2014 22:09

I lost this post and just came across it again! (Have name changed) - how is everyone? Still around? Any bfps? :)

sykadelic · 20/06/2014 01:29

I'm still around and nope! We're putting trying on hold while I normalise (coming off implanon) and save a pit more so we're less stressed out!

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