Oh My Dear God In Heaven - What have we done!!

[Twinkie]

Ok - I am being dramatic but have every reason to be - have realised after bit of prodding an poking that I can't find my threads to my IUD!!!

Had a bit of a bleed last weekend and heavy pains etc was weird as never happened in between periods before but just thought was one of those things!!

Well since then have had sex 4 times (sorry to be so intimate here!!) and now am terrified that I am up the DUFF!!!!

Last period started 7th of this month and finished on the 13th - what are the odds - can someone please tell me???

It would not be the biggest disaster in the world - DP and I are happy together and have spoken about children and he would love them and I yearn for a baby sometimes but now with facing the reality that it could actually happen I am terrified??

Now I don't want to go and have anew one fitted until I know if an pregnant or not but that means just waiting till my period is due and abstaining!!

Hey - I knew I shouldn't have gone to those meet ups!!

Its surprisingly quiet from his end - am having a panic now!!

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Just had to spell it out for him - now just waiting for his reply'

Yes good point though if he isn't terribly correct peppering his answer with enough love and carefully chosen words he will be in huge amounts of trouble for ever and ever and ever not just the next 8 months.

Can't believe you told him over email - TWINKIE!!!!

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Fantastic Twinkie!!
He's just trying to remember how to type through blind panic!

didn't you want to see his face when you told him? To see his reaction?

Oh please call him, please! I do hope and expect that he is just being careful composing his reply or is away from his desk.

Congratulations

Congratulations

Here is my first smilie - just for you

But he asked!!!

He is probably ignoring me - sitting in a panic - gone to throw up in loo or have a big poo - or he is in a meeting till 1pm and I will be a nervous wreck by the time he gets back to me - no I didn't want to see his face!!

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He's probably out buying armfuls of flowers to shower you with at lunchtime! (I hope)

Ha ha - not holding breath for flowers - lucky not holding breath for his reply would be bloody dead by now!!!

Am getting crosser by the second - wish I had just told him to wait until tonight but he would have guessed if I had said that - oooohhhh gggggrrrrr - he is probably crying or somethign the utter moron!! (that is the father of my baby I am talking about )

Twinkie, he has probably fainted and is having a liedown in the first aid room

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He said he can't jump up and down or cry cause he at work - seems like he is sorta happy though - not sure - god now I feel awful - he has gone on for ages about how much he woullove kids and is so sweet to any that we know and to DD and adores babies and now he is all cagey!!

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Poor wee soul! He's shocked/ecstatic/frightened and overwhelmed all rolled into one and can't express it coz he's at work and he's a bloke.

Can he take a halfday? Or can you go meet him for lunch?

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Twinkie, my dp's reaction was 'Oh shit': followed very quickly by 'I'll have to get a bigger car'.

EH????????

Remember, Men Are Very Odd.

Hey, I drank coffee steadily throughout two pregnancies, as it happens.

His actually just glad his bits work - and I am being serious - his words were after all they have been through it is nice to find out that everything is in working order - god now I am sitting her crying into my keyboard and the empty desk next to me was filled YESTERDAY by a lovely quiet irishman who is looking at me like I am mad!!

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