Hello - I'm here - been hovering for last couple of days thinking about posting, but then thinking must keep clear!!
First of all, congratulations Klou, so happy for you - hope all goes well with you
As for me, not quite sure what is going on. Have had spotting since Friday pm, which turned to more like light bleeding on sat and sun and today. But nowhere near what I would expect from AF. [TMI, I know!] My temp was still up this am, but not quite as high as it has been, but it was about 45 mins earlier than I normally take it. My AF pains have stopped, but feel incredibily bloated/colicky (don't normally feel bloated around AF time). My boobs were enormous last week, but have shrunk again now. And finally have been feeling pretty nauseous from time to time since middle of last week. And I'm exhausted. So as you can tell, I'm pretty confused!
I caved in and did a first response test at 6am on Sunday morning, but it BPN.
But then I wasn't really awake, so may not have done it completely properly, also only due tomorrow at the earliest, could even not be til Thursday so may have been too early. But if I was getting pg signs, you would think the HCG level would be high enough.
Help me girls! Up and until the light red bleeding, I was so convinced this was going to work, but as my boobs have shrunk again, most of the other symptoms (high temps, tiredness, nausea) could be put down to this hot weather. I also had such a ridiculously heavy AF last month, that perhaps it is not unusual to have a really light one this time around.
Anyway, I'll keep you updated, but I'm not feeeling too hopeful anymore and think I should just accept that it is not going to happen at the moment. DH is off a week on Sunday, so I'll have 4 months to lose the 2-3 stone that I seem to have put on since we got married and had DD
, so we can start trying again in November.
As you said RuthLouise, now I've missed the 2 year gap, I think more than 3 years is probably better and if miraculously we conceive in November, that will make it 3.5 year gap.
Blimey, gone on a bit long - I'll let you know how the next couple of days pan out, but don't bank on me bolstering our BPF rate this month!
Hope everyone else is doing well