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Hoping for a May BFP?

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curiousgeorgie · 01/04/2012 10:37

Had a search for a may BFP thread and couldn't see one (please correct me if there is!) so thought I'd start one..

curiousgeorgie - TTC #2 - Testing April 29th

Anyone with me?

OP posts:
suzydelarosa · 07/05/2012 15:08

winkle - some flaky person once told me that capricorns were the 'black sheep' of the zodiac! :) nuts! Seriously, good luck for next month!

jaquelinehyde · 07/05/2012 15:23

Suzy sorry AF got you as well but please don't give up. Just keep shagging and you never know what might happen.

Another Aquarius here and we are quite clearly the superior zodiac sign Wink

Christelle2207 · 07/05/2012 16:48

So sorry winkle and pick. Here's to a June BFP!

Great news crafty- what other symptoms do you have?

LittleMissSnowShine · 07/05/2012 17:22

Sorry suzy - don't give up hope on getting a BFP yet, maybe you and DH can talk to the Dr and discuss your options, maybe there's something they can do to help?

Rue - Hmm, if low alcohol Tesco cider makes me posh then you can call me Duchess Grin cos I've def drunk plenty of that cider lol

I'm an Aquarius / Pisces cusp! Plenty of us airy aquarius types on here anyway Grin

I'm fed up with my super long cycle - I know today is only CD34 and it's not completely out of the ordinary for my cycles to be 35 days long but if AF is going to come along this month then I wish she'd just flippin get here! A 2WW is one thing but this cycle really feels like the longest EVER!!

wishfulthinking1 · 07/05/2012 17:35

Pah- not being preggo is rubbish!!

Snow shine- im probably being really dumb but are you not still in the game? Isnt it still possible? (or does having a bfn, even though no AF, mean you're out) sorry- this business is so bloody complicated!! And winkle, until AF actually gets here can you be absolutely sure? (hope I'm not being insensitive- I just thought that until AF turned up then anything could happen?)

We need some good news (crafty girl aside its all rather doom and gloom!)
Ok, who wants to talk about my wedding?!?! :-) haha- I'm only joking, I shan't bore you all senseless- its just nice to have something positive to focus on.

Also, if snowshine's value cider makes her a duchess then my value special brew/ white lightening snakebite that I used to have at uni and definitely not now makes me royalty surely!!!
X

CraftyGirly · 07/05/2012 17:40

christelle last week (around implantation) I had constant indigestion for about a week but that went away and hasn't returned, atm I am just having some mild cramping but nothing as bad as AF stylee. I still can't quite believe it, keep having to check the pic of the test I took on my phone to make sure I wasn't imagining it!
I hope you dont mind if I stick around for a while, I'd love to see how you all get on and I'll miss you guys! hopefully there will be lots more BFPs to come :)

jaquelinehyde · 07/05/2012 19:06

You must stick around Crafty, I think everyone should regardless of result you're in for the whole month. Them's the rules Grin

When is the wedding wishful?

LittleMissSnowShine · 07/05/2012 19:37

Yes, talk to us about weddings wishful!

Techincally yes im still in the game since i'm on cd34 and (im estimating) on 12 dpo with no sign of AF and i've had a BFP. However i've also subsequently had 2 BFNs and im a bit crampy this evening so im not hopeful. But im not ready to join June thread yet in case theres still a chance and im also not testing again til this time next week (tho I suspect AF will be along well before that)

Yes, we def need some more good news on here stat!!

reallycross · 07/05/2012 19:47

Hi
Please can you add me? I have a bfp and will be expecting January 12th... I'm 42, and this will be my first after 10 years of trying! Fingers crossed....

toobreathless · 07/05/2012 19:50

Definitely up for wedding chatter :) When is it wishful? Theme? Colours? Ooooh exciting!

I'm still in, CD8 (I think!) here. Will be testing very late May.

Feeling a teensy bit sad after seeing lots of Forget-me-nots out, it's almost 2 years now since I had the ectopic. They were in bloom at the time & always remind me. We are very lucky to have DD.

winkle so sorry. Hope you are having a relaxing evening?

everythinghappensforareason · 07/05/2012 19:51

Congratulations Crafty + Really

  • Sorry for everyone caught by AF :( But happy SWI for next month :)

I'm 2DPO now, i hate this tww part!!!

toobreathless · 07/05/2012 19:52

reallycross congratulations!! & welcome! You might want to head over to antenatal clubs & find one for January 2012. Or, stick around here & be our lucky mascot!

scubastevie · 07/05/2012 20:18

Love a bit of wedding chat pls!!
Least I am back at work tomo which may keep my mind off things temporarily... RIBS I am tempted to test Friday instead of sat. Help me stay strong?! But I will be worried on Fri waiting for AF to turn up or not :(

RIBS · 07/05/2012 20:29

Sorry its a no go 4 this month Suzy. Better luck 4 June bfp.

I saw a documentary thing a few months ago on conception n watching the egg n sperm meet, everythings gotta b just just the right conditions. I think it is just down 2 sheer luck.

Stay strong scuba, or ill test 2, I'm easily led! I just don't wanna c another bloody Bfn. Cm has reduced 2day, boobs not as sore. Have spots. I think af is looming. Nuts.

myocardialinfarction · 07/05/2012 20:37

Hi ladies,

I had to post, this is driving me nuts: AF was due yesterday, no sign of her yet. Did the deed at all the right times last month, and have had pregnancy symptoms since 7 dpo at least--terrible seasickness, exhaustion, spots, frequent urination, sore boobs, the whole shebang. The only thing I haven't got is a positive test. Am rather embarrassed to admit that I have taken four tests and all have come back negative. I know I just need to wait another week before I retest but this is driving me nuts.

winkle2 · 07/05/2012 20:38

Thanks Suzy!

Def out for a may BFP, roll on June :)

Wow congrats reallycross! After 10 years. Makes my 8 months seem pitiful.

Hello to everyone!

RightUpMyRue · 07/05/2012 20:41

Was it "The great Sperm Race" on 4Ondemand RIBS?

I well recommend all of you watching that. It's brill.

lou143 · 07/05/2012 20:42

Hi girls been busy sitting my friends 2 girls as she has a newbie and so have been off!
Sorry to hear about the BFN and the AF's it makes me want to cry out of sheer frustration for you all.
But congrats to those with BFP its insporation for us al and a special congrats to REally cross what fab new for you!
I have been baby dancing every day since last message so hoping to make 21st may before testing or being got by the AF!
Good luck girls and chin up to all that have been got and PMA for a 14/2/13 baby :-) xx

scubastevie · 07/05/2012 21:22

myocard that's bizarre - you're still in thou, a few people have said how they knew of people who had to wait a week after AF was due to get bfp. Fx.

RIBS Nooo that is crap :( dont give up yet! I suppose because this is my first month of trying I just want to POAS!! I still have all the symptoms, will be so baffled if not pg.

Will try to catch the great sperm race Rue sounds good.

wishfulthinking1 · 07/05/2012 21:24

What's that? Wedding chat you say? We're getting hitched at the end of July - I thought it wound be v. Exciting if we conceived first month of trying because then I'd be about 12 weeks at the wedding and I could tell mum and dad the day after the wedding. To be honest, I've not made it a secret that I really want kids and most of my friends (all of my close girlfriends) have children and I thought if we were updiffed already it would prevent any is she / isn't she speculation which I'm not looking forward to- especially if it takes us a while to concieve. I think people expect it to happen straight away hell, even I thought it would happen straight away!!

It's only going to be a small wedding- just friends and close family in the day then a big party and ginormous chocolate cake in the evening. I can't wait- getting married/ having a family- its all so exciting!! X

Have we got anyone testing over the next couple of days?
X

winkle2 · 07/05/2012 21:35

Wishful - everyone knows how much I want kids. 1 year after our wedding and still no BFP! It's hard...

myocardialinfarction · 07/05/2012 21:47

Scuba, I know! Last time (MC at 6 weeks) I tested day after AF was due and got a BFP. I had had sore boobs since 7dpo but no other symptoms. This time, symptoms up the wazoo but no BFP. Will just have to wait, I guess, but a BFP would make it a lot easier to stay off the fags and booze.

wishfulthinking1 · 07/05/2012 21:49

Oh winkle, it is hard. Has anyone made any comments? I wish I'd have played down my urgency for a family- I feel because I've been so openly excited about it I've put extra pressure on ourselves.

I know you've only upped the ante from January but if you've been trying for a year is it now time to see a dr? Xx

winkle2 · 07/05/2012 21:59

Had 9 people in the space of a week ask me if I was pregnant last month! Inculding my mum and 2 sisters. Have told every one how annoying it is and not to ask me! That seems to have got them to back off.

We havent been trying a year as we only started thinking about it seriously in August so it's been 8 months. We put it off cause we had a holiday planned - wished we hadn't waited cause I could have had my baby by now :(

Gonna give it 3 more months then we'll go to the doctors.

suzydelarosa · 07/05/2012 22:13

So AF didn't come after all, just a tiny bit of spotting and tonight - OMG I just did a Superdrug test and got a very faint BFP line - it's small but it's def there! Holy moly - if that's right then one of the brave radiated sperm made it to my very very old egg! dear god!

I will report tomorrow; will do second test at morning when HCG more concentrated. Cannae believe it!

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