Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 14)

[Collie2]

If you are TTC after Miscarriage (or waiting to start trying again), this is the place to be. This thread is full of lots of lovely ladies on the post MC rollercoster and is full of support and advice from people who have been through it, and know what you are going through.
Jump on board and join in the for some laughter, crying or even the odd ranting (whatever you need). There?s lots of , (caffeine free of course ) and chocolate, and more importantly, friendly ?ears?.

The thread moves fast so bob in and out as you please. Don?t be afraid to ask anything ? nothing is ever TMI!!!

If you want to join the stats, just add yourself to the list:

WTTC = waiting to TTC
UCL = usual cycle length
WFT cycle = what the f*uck cycle (cycle after mc but before first AF)
For more accronyms see here

Good luck to all ? The last one was a lucky thread for lots of people so here's hoping for lots more healthy, sticky BFPs by the end of the thread

This is the previous thread

Stats to follow.

chloe I'm sorry you feel down, but cep is spot on with everything she has said. I was convinced it was your month last month, right from the start. Was [shocked] and [gutted] at your bfn. In fact have wondered if it just failed.... ?? So sorry sweetie, you are just lovely and deserve it so much. Don't feel bad for being sad at bfp's even I have dent that way in occassions, and I was very aware how it might make people with recent bfns feel, when I posted. I'm stckibg around until you get yours, so you had best get one quick! xxxx

Yay to harassed made up for you hun. Are you going to join the freak out room? I could do with some hand holding!

cep I know it's silly but I'm happy to stay where I am for now. Haven't hot any clearblue digis and relucant to buy more as have lads of cheapies at home!!

Thanks collie that means a lot.

((((HUG)))) chloe xxxx

ps sorry for shite selling and typos! Was in the loos!!

no worries, there's also the nov 2011 thread in antenatal a few in there had m/c's around the same time as us so know what it's like. i hope you enjoy your lads

(((())))) for Chloe - sorry you're feeling sad and for doing a "me, me, me" post. I think it's perfectly normal to feel sad when someone else gets a bfp. You want to be happy for them, but there's that little niggle.

I've just my very close friend who's due at the same time I would have been.

Collie will have a look at the freak out thread. Scary!!

harrassed Don't be daft, believe me, when I get my BFP I will most def be doing a 'me me me' post!! This thread is for our ups as well as our downs and I am really am pleased at all the ups today.

Congratulations harrassed!

Chloe can we be down together? I'm not sure why but in the last few hours I've started to feel really teary. I can't put my finger on why, it's prob just hormones / baby talk at the library this morning / the fact that no one in rl asks how I am anymore. It's like no one remembers apart from my friend who mc last year, plus ive got that wedding to get thru tomorrow, I really don't feel up to it. Sorry for ranting :(

My little gloomy corner is welcoming you with open arms this afternoon meliesmum It comes fully equipped with tissues, warm shoulders to lean on and great big hugs and understanding.

Ok I know I should probably wait but I've already waited 8 cycles for this so I'm going to move me now and enjoy it as long as it lasts!

Congratulations to the other bfps floating around out there

To those of you feeling and wondering when your turn will come, big big (((hugs))). I know that feeling all too well and it's not good, but keep the faith, it's a long and rocky road but you will get there xx

Friday's List

Shorty ttc#2 cycle 1, ucl 30 cd58
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 CD39
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD36
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 CD32
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#2, UCL 28 or 31, CD32
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 1, UCL35-40,CD31
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD25
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD24
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 CD 24
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD 20
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, UCLrandom CD18
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD16
meliesmummy ttc#2 cycle 1 UCL28 CD14
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD14
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL29 CD9
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 cd8
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 7 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD7
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd6
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD3
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
vegasmum ttc#1 wttc ucl? cd? WTF
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF
securegal, TTC#1 MC#1 March 2011, WTF, UCL 28

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 BFP 18/2/11
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 BFP 18/03/2011

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

Thanks izzy and congratulations

chloe I'll bring the chocolates and cake to the misery party! (and - let's drown our sorrows!)

CONGRATULATIONS CONGRATULATIONS CONGRATULATIONS!!!

congratulations to Harrassed too

whoop whoop for Izzy too!!! Congratulations!!!! Soooo please for you!!! I'm thnking the SMEP might actually work!!

mels (((hugs))) for you too. Sorry that your having a testy day, your mc was not that long ago though sweetie so it's v natural.

I'm back in the loos my secret hideaway, so just a quick post! roll on 5 o'clock!

Just popping in to see how melie is doing? Do you need another ?

I have a night planned in front of the TV, bawling my eyes out no doubt with a few laughs in between and counting my lucky stars for what I have.

I'm feeling a bit better thanks chloe. Had a nice afternoon, we walked to the hospital to meet dh after physio and we all went to the park. Saw a family with the pram I wanted tho :( .

I guess my high cervix didn't mean anything, my opk was negative today so that's our chances used up for this month so I'm on the 2ww, please help me through it, get your fish ready!

Ps everything ok blackkat?

sorry you ladies have been feeling a bit low today, hope things pick up for you.

i'm feeling rather stressed tonight, ds decided tonight I was going to have to use the naughty step about a billion times while i was trying to cook dinner...argh.

blackkat how's your dad?

collie how's your nan?

Just a wee note to say congratulations to collie, Banana and Harassed great news ,

lili take care and oli good luck

to everyone else

mels did you get plenty of swi in? I hope the preconcive (I can only remember your made up name for it) helpped!!! Your afternoon sounds lovely, and that pram (or a better updated version ) will be yours one day soon!!

cep nan is ok thanks, although not been to visit since weds. She has emphazemia so is constantly on oxygen, so it's less the fall and more the impact it's had on her breathing they're concerned about. But she's improving. Will be seeing her again tomorrow.

at your ds and the naughty stair!

Have bought 2 cb digis after izzy's bfp. Although on relooking. At FR sticks am wondering how faint my lines are.

Are you waiting until the morning to use the digis collie? we kind of followed smep, altho we started a day early and wont manage tomorrow night (I just cant bring myself to dtd in my parents house, my mum will be the one making the bed, ewwww!) The conceive plus claims have been tested, results in 2 (long) weeks!

Hi ladies,

cep Sorry you are having a bad day. Hope tomorrow is brighter.

Congrats Collie (again!), and harrassed.

Hope you are ok LILI and oli.

Another faint line this morning, this time within the time frame. My best friend (who lives with us) did confirm I am not seeing things :) Still don't think its official yet. Am very very tired though, took a 2 hour nap and ready for bed!

mel no there's something that just seems wrong about dtd in the parents house isn't there.

collie are you going to use one tomorrow??

banana yay for the confirmation line.

Thanks everyone for the lovely congrats and messages. Is this really real? I don?t think I can actually believe it is??!!! Just keeping thinking I?ll wake up tomorrow, or the next, and the test will say -ive instead. When can I stop stressing about it being a chemical pg? I?m 14dpo and AF due Sunday [freaked out emotiocon] ? we so need one of these!!

Waves to Izzy BIG congrats again lovely!!! And congratulations to wiw too xx

knitter pink velvet Yay for the scans, so glad to hear there have been lots of happy bouncy beans today!

Oh bollocks, took all that time to say hello in the t'other thread and i post in in the wrong place!! Doh!!

Yes mels cep waiting for morning for the digi text. fx!!!

Mels i think the SMEP has shown good results for a lot of people who did it. Quite a few who who moved on to the common room have had a bfp. I've been rattling with suppliments for a month too, drinking grapefuit and pom juice and eating brazil nuts. God knows if any of it makes any difference mind! I hope your 2ww goes quickly, try and relax now and there's little symptom spotting in the first week at least! x

Yay for banana my fain lines are slightly stringer too!!!

Pg brain kicking in already collie?! I've been eating brazil nuts but can't stand grapefruit juice, I stopped taking epo because I'm sure it was aggravating my cervical erosion, it might still have had an effect though, I took it for a few weeks. No cough syrup either, dont like the idea of taking drugs I dont actually need.