Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 14)

[Collie2]

If you are TTC after Miscarriage (or waiting to start trying again), this is the place to be. This thread is full of lots of lovely ladies on the post MC rollercoster and is full of support and advice from people who have been through it, and know what you are going through.
Jump on board and join in the for some laughter, crying or even the odd ranting (whatever you need). There?s lots of , (caffeine free of course ) and chocolate, and more importantly, friendly ?ears?.

The thread moves fast so bob in and out as you please. Don?t be afraid to ask anything ? nothing is ever TMI!!!

If you want to join the stats, just add yourself to the list:

WTTC = waiting to TTC
UCL = usual cycle length
WFT cycle = what the f*uck cycle (cycle after mc but before first AF)
For more accronyms see here

Good luck to all ? The last one was a lucky thread for lots of people so here's hoping for lots more healthy, sticky BFPs by the end of the thread

This is the previous thread

Stats to follow.

Hi jkk, welcome. Pull up a cushion and get comfy x

Chloe yes she knows about the mc, around the time she was great but I think I'm expected to be 'over it', she also knows we're trying again so maybe she just thinks I am. It's 4 weeks today since I found out I was mc, it's gone by so quickly. I should be 15 weeks now :(

wow melies thats harsh it knocks u back when something like that happens as you think you are doing ok and then you get kicked back down to earth, my sil is 24 wks pg and its hard to look at her even worse now they moved gouse to the next street, but it was pretty bad monday as my sil rang to say she'd got a bfp and it was my babys due date shes been ttc for 2 yrs so its good news but it would have been nice if she'd waited 1 more day, on the up side af is here so i finally know where i am
welcome jkk xxx

Hello everyone, i'm still here thanks collie. I have got a water infection at the moment so more antibiotics. It never stops. Still no af though last did a test on wed, i'm pulling my hair out a bit now. X

Well it's been nearly 7 months for me and I'm still not 'over it' doesn't help that my friend who must be about 18 weeks now is coming round tomorrow, no doubt wearing something to show off her little bump I hate being of friends it makes me feel a bit like a spoilt brat.

Afternoon Ladies - hope everyone is looking forward to the weekend

Welcome Jkk, sorry for your loss, I'm a fellow newbie just settling in.

Melies I have exactly the same problem...fine with babies but really struggling with ladies with big PG bellies. There is a woman at work who told me she was pg (quite far along) the morning after I got my first BFP, so at the time I thought I'd be catching up with her soon, so is now a constant reminder that I'm not . Sorry it's upsetting you too Layla

Harrassed have you been and bought a test yet?

Chloe I've read your other thread, sorry you're not getting much help from the hospital. My clomid experience has been random but not actually had any mid cycle spotting although I have heard it can be a symptom. I know you've struggled to get through to them but think you really need to push your consultant. Sorry I can't remember but have they confirmed that the dose they have given you is working, do they know you ovulate on it?

Hi Shorty think we're in the same boat, desperately waiting for AF to arrive - never wanted it to arrive so much before!

chloe you aren't a spoilt brat, none of us are, we just really want something and it's really hard when you see other people that have it.

laylas that sounds like it'll be hard for you, I hope you manage to get through it without too many 'moments' like mine today.

Hope your anti b's kick in soon so you feel better shorty

I just did an opk, I'm only day 7 so it was negative (not even a trace of a line) but I have no idea what's going on in there this month so figured I'd start early. It's tough going back to using them, I was hoping I was finished with all that when I got pg :(

Its horrible isn't it skitoo, have you been waiting long. I'm hoping the reason it hasn't come is i'm preg but the longer i'm waiting the less I think this is the case. X

Shorty 9 veeeerrrry long weeks, its really stopping me from moving on . How about you? I really hoped I was PG too, most unlikely, not for want of trying but have had a couple of BFN's.

Oh bless you, its really hard to have any closure on what has happened isn't it. This is the one thing my dh doesn't understand he has come to terms with it but doesn't understand that it is still on my mind everyday. Have you spoken to the doctor? Did they give you any advice? I have had a few bfn too. X

Skitoo, i'm on week 7 now. Sorry you find yourself here vegas. I had been trying for 9 months when had mc in jan and I thought I wasn't in a rush but seemed more in a rush with every month that passed. X

Skitoo, i'm on week 7 now. Sorry you find yourself here vegas. I had been trying for 9 months when had mc in jan and I thought I wasn't in a rush but seemed more in a rush with every month that passed. X

Yes, in a strange way in my head I'm still in the mc stage and can't move on until af arrives and I can start clomid and ttc again. My DH is trying to understand, probably because I sound like a broken record! Been back to FC, they gave me provera to start af but it hasn't worked, will be back in touch with them next week if still nothing.

Sorry you're the same Vegas, time feels like it's standing still doesn't it.

I think it really does vary but I was told 6 weeks on average.

Welcome jkklpu sorry for your loss. It's so very raw for you so I hope you're doing ok and being very kind to yourself.

Chloe sorry I can't help with your clomid questions. Sounds like you eventually got though at the hospital though. Thought the first reply to your thread was a little scare mongering!! Glad it's nothing to worry about but it could be AF gearing up. If you don't mind though I'm still gonna keep my fx for you x

melie ff isn't as complicated ad it looks once you get used to it, although I am still undecided as to wether doing it every morning at 6am even on a weekend is worth it as it's not helpped me much so far and opks seem to work for me. But I suppose it will help in the long term if I don't get a bfp. I agree it would be difficult on nights.

Sorry about your pg friends friend. I think I am the same - better around babies than pg women, although sooo broody now, can't walk past baby clothes without yelping ' I want one'

melies and chloe snap on the spot front. I have a blooming mountain on my chin!

harassed I agree with chloe test tomorrow as long as a bfn won't upset you too much, but then on the bright side you can drown your sorrows with don't forget to update us tomorrow.

Hi shorty glad you are still here. Sorry your unwell and still waiting for AF. Really hope it's bcs you are pg!

skitoo I can't believe you've been waiting 9 weeks for your AF. So sorry. I understand how hard it must be to move on, it took minwme 5 1/2 weeks and it felt like an age!

vagas as I said, my AF took 5 1/2 weeks

Been out all day with DH doing sone retail therapy and he's taking me out for posh meal tonight so won't be about. Didn't have the last night do will treat myself tonight!
Right, better go and get my glad-rags on

Vegas some of the other ladies on here might be more knowledgable than me but I was told 6 weeks from mc and have also read that you need 20 clear days from stopping bleeding before you will get af. I think someone on this thread kindly posted some useful links on the subject - will see if I can find them again.

just popping back quicky to check on cep been v quiet today, hope you're ok and morning sickness not too bad.

Hi to blackkat too.

vagas 4-6 weeks from first day of mc bleeding.

I'm on phone so could someone do today's stats?

Have a lovely evening collie, it sounds wonderful!

Vegas I am having af 3 weeks since the medical management - I believe that I'm very unusual though!

everything ok Cep?

Okay, this is my first list and im on my phone so sorry if I mess it up!

Friday's List

Shorty ttc#2 cycle 1, ucl 30 cd51
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 CD32
LILI80 TTC #2 Cycle 1 UCL 34 CD32
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD31
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 6 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD30
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD29
oli TTC#2 M/C#1 FEB 2011 UCL 30-31 CD27
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD25
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 CD25
Ninunina TTC#1 post MC1: Feb 11, WTF, UCL 28-35 CD25
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 1, UCL35-40,CD24
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd24
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 CD22
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD18
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD17
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 CD 17
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD 13
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, UCLrandom CD11
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD9
meliesmummy ttc#2 cycle 1 UCL28 CD7
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD7
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 UCL 28/29 days WTF cd?

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 28
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
vegasmum ttc#1 wttc ucl? cd? WTF
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 BFP 18/2/11
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

Is that ok?

www.pregnancyloss.info/waitingforaf.htm
HTH re next AF vegas I was told by my EPU nurse to head to the GP if I had no AF after six weeks (I have PCOS and irregular cycles tho) ((hugs))

to everyone - making tea!
xx

mel think Harassed and Skitoo had added themselves since then.
ninu do you want to graduate to the BFP list? Don't want to do it for you.

Friday's list

Shorty ttc#2 cycle 1, ucl 30 cd51
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 CD32
LILI80 TTC #2 Cycle 1 UCL 34 CD32
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 6 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD30
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD29
oli TTC#2 M/C#1 FEB 2011 UCL 30-31 CD27
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD25
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 CD25
Ninunina TTC#1 post MC1: Feb 11, WTF, UCL 28-35 CD25
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#2, UCL 28 or 31, CD25
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 1, UCL35-40,CD24
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd24
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 CD22
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD18
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD17
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 CD 17
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD 13
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, UCLrandom CD11
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD9
meliesmummy ttc#2 wtf cycle, UCL28 CD7
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD7
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL29 CD2
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 UCL 28/29 days WTF cd?
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
vegasmum ttc#1 wttc ucl? cd? WTF
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 BFP 18/2/11
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

See! I knew I would mess it up somehow, but at least I can say I tried...