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DLA wait times part 32

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Emma2345 · 23/02/2024 17:06

New thread as this 1 is nearing the end now

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mumtumok · 29/02/2024 16:00

How long at MRs taking ? I got a text saying 4 weeks but god knows that won’t be true

LancsMcG · 29/02/2024 16:03

mumtumok · 29/02/2024 16:00

How long at MRs taking ? I got a text saying 4 weeks but god knows that won’t be true

@mumtumok I was told 6-8 weeks, but the letter I got yesterday said 11 weeks

MrsW12 · 29/02/2024 16:15

Anxiouslywaitingmum · 29/02/2024 15:09

I'm absolutely dreading it! I keep checking the website just incase they've uploaded it early.
I even laid in bed last night thinking, what if they've forgotten it's a leap year.
I actually feel sick with the worry.
We are massively out of catchment for the school I really want. Midnight can't come quick enough x

It’s horrible isn’t it. My eldests come through at about midnight. The school I want isn’t in our catchment area either really but they are better for SEND than the one my eldest goes to. We don’t have a diagnosis yet, but I added some notes to the application 🤞🏻. I will appeal this time if we don’t get in (I didn’t bother with my other as she’s adaptable) wine for me tonight methinks with a screaming baby and a difficult 3 year old on the go too! X

my5to1 · 29/02/2024 16:21

@MrsW12 @Anxiouslywaitingmum i feel you both, roll on tomorrow the nerves this evening are unreal 🤞🏻 to us all keep us updated !

KaylaOG · 29/02/2024 16:27

EasygoinyAmy · 29/02/2024 11:47

Scan date 16/11.

Just got off the phone after being on the phone for what felt like a lifetime. She was so lovely said that it’s in a holding pile should be with a DM any day should hear something by the 15th of March. Anyone else with a similar scan date?

I’m 13/11 and they also said to me the next 2 weeks 🤞

Bubbles132 · 29/02/2024 16:39

Is there a difference between a decision maker and a case manager

bonz2023 · 29/02/2024 16:58

Kmc2303 · 29/02/2024 14:42

I've had a missed call from DWP today whilst working!! What a nightmare anyone else had a call today?

Did you call up for the forms?

STEPH691 · 29/02/2024 17:12

@Bubbles132 they do the same job I think xxx

Kmc2303 · 29/02/2024 17:22

bonz2023 · 29/02/2024 16:58

Did you call up for the forms?

Yes I did beginning of October and they received 6th November.

Mumzieof1 · 29/02/2024 18:23

Jonesy0102 · 29/02/2024 15:46

I saw someone was declined on MR a they fought on to tribunal but they upped the award before it got that far so fight on

That's what I'm hoping will happen. I'll prepare for a tribunal but hoping they change their mind and award before then. She has her ASD assessment in 2 weeks so the outcome of that will help as that was one of the points I was declined originally, that she didn't have a diagnosis, yet they say they just go on care needs. Nonsense the whole system.

Busylittlebebe · 29/02/2024 20:09

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EasygoinyAmy · 29/02/2024 20:34

@Busylittlebebe my heart goes out to you. I have no advice as to what to say. When I telephoned this morning I just explained that I was feeling incredibly anxious and just needed to know where we were I also needed to inform them of a couple of updates. In the end we just want the very best for our children. I’ll be crossing my fingers and toes that you get the outcome your daughter deserves ❤️

xxAmy · 29/02/2024 20:56

Kmc2303 · 29/02/2024 17:22

Yes I did beginning of October and they received 6th November.

did they leave you a voice Mail?
they seem to be ringing quite a few people. I never had this with my younger boys claim so I’m nervous for the call xxx

Busylittlebebe · 29/02/2024 21:16

Thank you, I hope so too she deserves the world. I may be brave and ring tomorrow x

Star2386 · 29/02/2024 22:56

I just done a renewal for my soon was due to run out end of march I got it back today so you will hear a week or 2 before it’s due to run out

Anxiouslywaitingmum · 01/03/2024 00:11

my5to1 · 29/02/2024 16:21

@MrsW12 @Anxiouslywaitingmum i feel you both, roll on tomorrow the nerves this evening are unreal 🤞🏻 to us all keep us updated !

We got the secondary school we wanted.
I am sooooo happy!!! X

MrsW12 · 01/03/2024 01:11

Anxiouslywaitingmum · 01/03/2024 00:11

We got the secondary school we wanted.
I am sooooo happy!!! X

So did we!!! My heart is pounding so much!! I actually can’t believe stayed asleep until now! I woke up and saw it was 1am and couldn’t believe my eyes! I’m so so pleased for you. Congratulations lovely 🥳 x

MrsW12 · 01/03/2024 01:12

I was so dazed and anxious that I didn’t see the offer in the email. I had to go through the long process of logging into the portal to see the outcome 🙄 x

Laurenvik · 01/03/2024 06:05

I'm 4th October scan date.
I'm so worried I'm gonna get declined.
Its like 22 weeks now

Anxiouslywaitingmum · 01/03/2024 06:17

MrsW12 · 01/03/2024 01:11

So did we!!! My heart is pounding so much!! I actually can’t believe stayed asleep until now! I woke up and saw it was 1am and couldn’t believe my eyes! I’m so so pleased for you. Congratulations lovely 🥳 x

So happy for you too!! The next step into getting our babies the support they need xx

Katelouise05 · 01/03/2024 06:43

GreenDonkey · 28/02/2024 08:46

Scan date 01-11 .. I’ve just received a text to say my son qualifies! No more lurking for me! Good luck everyone 🙏 stay sane out there xx

I was awarded the same day as you but haven't had a payment yet. Have you received yours?

GreenDonkey · 01/03/2024 06:50

Katelouise05 · 01/03/2024 06:43

I was awarded the same day as you but haven't had a payment yet. Have you received yours?

No nothing yet! It will be next week for sure 👏🏼

Kmc2303 · 01/03/2024 06:51

xxAmy · 29/02/2024 20:56

did they leave you a voice Mail?
they seem to be ringing quite a few people. I never had this with my younger boys claim so I’m nervous for the call xxx

No they didn't, when I called the lady said they will call up to 3 times. Nope our middle son also has dla never had this or the long wait. Lol.

Katelouise05 · 01/03/2024 06:51

GreenDonkey · 01/03/2024 06:50

No nothing yet! It will be next week for sure 👏🏼

Thanks so much, I was worrying I had wrote my bank details wrong. I'm sure o double checked but just worrying about everything x

GreenDonkey · 01/03/2024 06:53

Katelouise05 · 01/03/2024 06:51

Thanks so much, I was worrying I had wrote my bank details wrong. I'm sure o double checked but just worrying about everything x

I think it can take up to 3 working days?! Don’t quote me though. Don’t forget to ask for the disability and carer elements to be added and backdated to your UC claim too! X

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