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DLA wait times part 32

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Emma2345 · 23/02/2024 17:06

New thread as this 1 is nearing the end now

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ThemysteriousH · 26/02/2024 14:59

@sjm100 it makes no sense! She told me there’s no point ringing until the end of March, so disheartened 😔

Mellieg11 · 26/02/2024 15:00

ThemysteriousH · 26/02/2024 14:46

Scanned 3/11/23 just been told it’ll be around the first week of April and I’m the queue for the DM. I’m fuming.

im 3/11 too called this morning to be told mid march. they dont know what on earth they are on about clearly. Watching this thread is making me realise this

Mumtoothree30 · 26/02/2024 15:05

Same scan date as me 3/11. Im currently trying to get though so I'll see what they say

Mommy2boys30 · 26/02/2024 15:07

SL93 · 26/02/2024 11:45

Just called this morning on a hunt for my son’s birth certificate. Apparently things have only been scanned up to Jan 10th as of today x

I sent my claim it got received 5/2 and was scanned on that day received my first letter last week, so unsure they told you that.

Mothertothreeboys · 26/02/2024 15:09

ThemysteriousH · 26/02/2024 14:46

Scanned 3/11/23 just been told it’ll be around the first week of April and I’m the queue for the DM. I’m fuming.

Aw gosh no way that’s over the 20 week it’s so stressful I thought all times I were coming down apparently not xx

MrsW12 · 26/02/2024 15:11

Debs243 · 26/02/2024 14:09

Got my first text this morning so 2 letters one text scan date 15/11 x

Exactly the same here x

he1620 · 26/02/2024 15:13

Just phoned up to find out my daughter was awarded! Scan date was 30/10. Fingers crossed everyone gets their answers soon!x

Mellieg11 · 26/02/2024 15:15

oh that's great news finally the wait is over

Mothertothreeboys · 26/02/2024 15:16

Mumtoothree30 · 26/02/2024 15:05

Same scan date as me 3/11. Im currently trying to get though so I'll see what they say

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Telling us scan dates 3/11 all different beginning - mid march now April it’s a joke xx

1slamkh · 26/02/2024 15:23

Mothertothreeboys · 26/02/2024 15:16

Telling us scan dates 3/11 all different beginning - mid march now April it’s a joke xx

It depends on what holding pile you’re in, as some DM get through their piles quicker as opposed to other DMs. Hence why some mid Nov dates have been awarded, whereas others who have an early Nov date haven’t.

Mumtoothree30 · 26/02/2024 15:30

Had a nice lady for once. She said the time frame to go to a decision maker is 16-17 weeks so should go to dm this week.. And should have a decision within 2 weeks

Mothertothreeboys · 26/02/2024 15:34

1slamkh · 26/02/2024 15:23

It depends on what holding pile you’re in, as some DM get through their piles quicker as opposed to other DMs. Hence why some mid Nov dates have been awarded, whereas others who have an early Nov date haven’t.

How would I find what holding pile am in please? When phoned this morning I said I was calling for a update she said it’s not with any one yet there still doing October dates lol 😂

MrsRawl · 26/02/2024 15:34

Anxiouslywaitingmum · 26/02/2024 14:11

@MadHouse24 @MrsRawl My son is the same as your children.
Have they been diagnosed with anything?
After a long 6 year fight my son was diagnosed with ODD last year. A hard fight as he masks at school, he's very clever and knows where to and where not to be himself.

My sons been diagnosed with Selective Mutism ( an anxiety disorder ) and that can very closely go hand in hand with autism/adhd ( I also queried ODD ) as like yours, my son is super clever. Because he masks at school the senco there is being very difficult with us, she seems to think because he’s had the SM diagnosis then he doesn’t need anything else, even though last week when I went on a training course with SALT she agreed that she thinks he needs referring for further assessment, and our GP won’t help as they said school should be dealing with it all. It’s resulted in me making a complaint to school and I’m not waiting for an appointment with school senco again. Everything’s a battle when I feel it shouldn’t have to be, I don’t want my son diagnosed with conditions he doesn’t have, but I also know mums instinct is best and me and his dad have said since he was 2 we feel there’s something further. So difficult when they mask so well at school. Because of my sons SM he’s completely mute at school so that’s why I’m having a battle, I’d love someone to be a fly on the wall in our house after school. Just so they understood my battle from them until about 11pm every night

1slamkh · 26/02/2024 15:46

Mothertothreeboys · 26/02/2024 15:34

How would I find what holding pile am in please? When phoned this morning I said I was calling for a update she said it’s not with any one yet there still doing October dates lol 😂

You can’t. You just need to go off by what dates they’re telling you. Like I’ve been told 16 weeks, whereas someone else has been told 18 weeks. I’m assuming the pile I’m in is getting wizzed through, as opposed to the other person and what pile they are in. It’s just all about sheer luck I guess.

Anxiouslywaitingmum · 26/02/2024 15:52

MrsRawl · 26/02/2024 15:34

My sons been diagnosed with Selective Mutism ( an anxiety disorder ) and that can very closely go hand in hand with autism/adhd ( I also queried ODD ) as like yours, my son is super clever. Because he masks at school the senco there is being very difficult with us, she seems to think because he’s had the SM diagnosis then he doesn’t need anything else, even though last week when I went on a training course with SALT she agreed that she thinks he needs referring for further assessment, and our GP won’t help as they said school should be dealing with it all. It’s resulted in me making a complaint to school and I’m not waiting for an appointment with school senco again. Everything’s a battle when I feel it shouldn’t have to be, I don’t want my son diagnosed with conditions he doesn’t have, but I also know mums instinct is best and me and his dad have said since he was 2 we feel there’s something further. So difficult when they mask so well at school. Because of my sons SM he’s completely mute at school so that’s why I’m having a battle, I’d love someone to be a fly on the wall in our house after school. Just so they understood my battle from them until about 11pm every night

@MrsRawl I've pm'd you xx

Mothertothreeboys · 26/02/2024 15:53

1slamkh · 26/02/2024 15:46

You can’t. You just need to go off by what dates they’re telling you. Like I’ve been told 16 weeks, whereas someone else has been told 18 weeks. I’m assuming the pile I’m in is getting wizzed through, as opposed to the other person and what pile they are in. It’s just all about sheer luck I guess.

O ok am with you thankyou

xxAmy · 26/02/2024 15:59

mummyof3girlsx · 26/02/2024 14:18

Ok well I got through after an hour and 15 mins.. to a lady who sounded like she wanted to be in bed, she said hasn’t gone to a decision maker yet probably looking at another 6 weeks!!!! I am DEFO 100% sure they just say whatever they want to get you off the phone because I spoke to 3 seperate people last week who was really nice and all told me it would be going to DM by Friday last week.. I give up 🙈 @bonz2023 @STEPH691 @xxAmy

SIX !!!! Honestly ring tomorrow! Some of them call handlers are awful and I think it’s the ones that work from home that are awful!! Call at 9am xxx

MummyCaz123 · 26/02/2024 16:00

Hi, I've been following for a while. My scan date is 30/10. I phoned on Thursday and I was told it's taking between 18 and 20 weeks. The lady I spoke to also said to start checking my bank account beginning to middle of March as payment will arrive in my bank before I receive a letter, that's assuming that my son is awarded. This waiting is horrible isn't it x

Berosey54432 · 26/02/2024 16:03

If awarded does the back pay start from your scan date for DLA and UC disabled child & caters element? Thanks.

Marie156 · 26/02/2024 16:05

Berosey54432 · 26/02/2024 16:03

If awarded does the back pay start from your scan date for DLA and UC disabled child & caters element? Thanks.

Yes it does

Marie156 · 26/02/2024 16:07

Berosey54432 · 26/02/2024 16:03

If awarded does the back pay start from your scan date for DLA and UC disabled child & caters element? Thanks.

If you mean backpay for disabled and carers element then yes if you mean backpay for dla, that starts from the date you called for the forms unless you were late sending them back, if you were late then yes it's awarded from scan date

ThemysteriousH · 26/02/2024 16:07

I still feel so deflated after the phone call, can’t believe it’s going to be at least another month when it’s been 17 weeks. Going to try and forget about it for a month now (if that’s possible!) and anything sooner is a bonus.

Cookieam · 26/02/2024 16:27

That's what I'm going to do .
Scan date 27/10 .
Coming on here and seeing November's dates being awarded is so disheartening ,calling up you get different answers each time .
It feels my life is on hold ,I darent leave my phone incase someone calls.
Checking my bank wondering if my son's being awarded .
It's going to be what it's going to be so just going to try and put it out of my head as I'm on 18 weeks and counting .

RainsbowandBunnies · 26/02/2024 16:30

Hey just to give some hope I was told no point calling til March, was told beginning, middle and end... awarded middle Feb, ignore! Some just get a kick out of giving people anxiety
Also asked for a text numerous times, they noted down but never got 1
I'm still checking in for your updates @bonz2023 and @mummyof3girlsx ❤️

XxNatty1xX · 26/02/2024 16:33

Amyz123mummyto3 · 26/02/2024 09:34

@mummyof3girlsx @XxNatty1xX he's been awarded middle rate care on Friday thank god its over with and they paid back pay from 26th October so missed out on a month because forms were late but now all done yay hope u hear news soon too xx

Ahh brilliant!! Great news!! 👏👏 I called today the woman wasn’t helpful at all! Just said it will be sorted at 16 weeks I said I’m 16 weeks on Wednesday and she said it will be sorted soon then! 🤦🏻‍♀️ didn’t mention if it was with a decision maker or anything. I’ll call them again Friday if I haven’t heard anything. 🤞🏼🤞🏼 xx

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