Thank you @KeepGoingThomas
I asked camhs for a supporting letter just before Xmas and his consultant wrote that he supports us requesting a motability vehicle as ds is a high risk to other people.
I do have a bit of evidence, just not loads like when he was younger, ds doesn’t see many people now he’s older, i have about 20 printed emails from his school documenting some really severe behaviour, always violent episodes where his friends / teachers are injured. I also asked school for a supporting letter they just haven’t got back to me yet (no surprise!)
I then have his ehcp,
I have a letter from last taxi driver documenting ds needs,
also I got an email from council transport manager stating ds had challenging behaviours and no one wants to work with him, said about his need for crelling harness restraint and him having no road awareness, no general danger awareness. That he likes to run off and taxi staff find him exhausting etc. and that it’s safest option for parents to take him.
May just go for it, I’ll be fuming if they downgrade him though (that’s my worry) he’s always been on HRC / LRM.
He still has night care needs and I do have it documented he still has sleep issues but he takes 2 sleep meds so don’t want them to try it on. Honestly I hate dla and how much stress they cause parents 🤣