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DLA wait times… part 22 (2023)

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Mummyrach13 · 24/11/2023 18:39

Following on from part 21 as it is about to become full! 😊

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Mumof3specialkids · 01/12/2023 09:13

Is anyone on here still on old style benefits?
im not on UC, I receive income support and child tax credits.
what I wanted to ask to anyone being awarded….has anyone managed to get them to backdate it more than only 1 month instead of back to the claim date like they should?
any help would be much appreciated.

Looloo12332 · 01/12/2023 09:18

@Mumof3specialkids they should backdate from start of claim when u called for a letter.They did with me last year for my son and I'm old style benefits

Mumof3specialkids · 01/12/2023 09:31

@Looloo12332 Thank you so much. I’ve done the change of circumstances online and stated it needs to be backdated because my son would of been receiving it 20 odd weeks ago if it weren’t for DWP huge timescales and he needs and deserves that money….but think I will give them a call today just to make sure.
Thanks so much for your help x

Looloo12332 · 01/12/2023 09:32

My sons was backdated by about 20 weeks wothoit me asking!He deffo deserves it

crazytimes20 · 01/12/2023 09:38

My boy has been awarded!!! 🎉 I am so happy for him. And I am also glad it's over with for a few years. @roki my decision was made yesterday so I would phone if I was you. I send you all the luck!!! I hope it's good news Hun. Keep me posted. And thank you to everyone else that helped. This thread has been a god send x

MangoPepsiLover · 01/12/2023 09:38

crazytimes20 · 01/12/2023 09:38

My boy has been awarded!!! 🎉 I am so happy for him. And I am also glad it's over with for a few years. @roki my decision was made yesterday so I would phone if I was you. I send you all the luck!!! I hope it's good news Hun. Keep me posted. And thank you to everyone else that helped. This thread has been a god send x

@crazytimes20 Congratulations

TheRBC · 01/12/2023 09:45

@crazytimes20 Congratulations!!

roki · 01/12/2023 09:48

@crazytimes20 am so happyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy yayyyyyyy . welldone . i was rooting for you. let me call aswell

Lauren2121 · 01/12/2023 09:50

@Mariannec okay Thankyou so much, it’ll be 18 weeks 11th December really hoping I find out because Christmas x

crazytimes20 · 01/12/2023 09:51

@roki thank you 😊 let me know what they say when you call. I have everything crossed for you

crazytimes20 · 01/12/2023 09:52

@TheRBC @MangoPepsiLover thank you 😊

Mariannec · 01/12/2023 09:55

@Lauren2121 my DS application will also be 18 weeks on 11th dec. I also have another application that will be 18 weeks on the 6th December. I’ll keep updating any progress on here. X

Mammyzzzzz · 01/12/2023 10:06

Scan date 27/7
Called yesterday and its been with D/M since Tuesday so hopefully not too long I've a feeling it will be declined wish they would hurry up I can't concentrate at min.

Loumumoftwo · 01/12/2023 10:17

Hi,
scan date 02/08
I called this morning to give additional info over the phone and was told our application is currently in the holding que to go to DM and she told me that it’s currently taking 17.5 weeks to go to DM.
Just incase this helps anyone.

JJO15 · 01/12/2023 10:20

scan date 1/8
so will be 18 weeks next week. I was going to wait until next week to call but I’m ringing now to see if there’s any progress because I’m impatient 🤦🏻‍♀️😂 will let you know what they say x

MangoPepsiLover · 01/12/2023 10:21

Mammyzzzzz · 01/12/2023 10:06

Scan date 27/7
Called yesterday and its been with D/M since Tuesday so hopefully not too long I've a feeling it will be declined wish they would hurry up I can't concentrate at min.

@Mammyzzzzz I had that feeling in the last weeks, its hard to keep positive and actually I prefer to prepare for the worst but I'm sure it'll be ok.

We're all here if you do need to do MR

Mammyzzzzz · 01/12/2023 10:30

Thank you very much.this last week I feel like I don't know what am doing and feel on edge can they message over weekend if my daughter is awarded.

SleepyMamma02 · 01/12/2023 10:38

Hi all.
Ive been following this thread since august time but never commented. I just wanted to update and say I called this morning and was told I was awardees yesterday, HRC, for my 4 year old son (my scan date was 28/07).
I’ve seen people stressing about lack of evidence sent, or their children’s age, and other factors, and I just wanted to try and instill some hope. My son is currently waiting diagnosis for ASD, and is attending speech therapy. There’s not a lot of doctor involvement atm as they’re reluctant to be involved until his diagnosis, so all I sent off extra was his speech therapist report, report from school and his waiting list letter.

Try to keep hope, I know how hard it is to think the worst, but I have my fingers crossed for you all and your little ones.

MilaMom · 01/12/2023 11:10

SleepyMamma02 · 01/12/2023 10:38

Hi all.
Ive been following this thread since august time but never commented. I just wanted to update and say I called this morning and was told I was awardees yesterday, HRC, for my 4 year old son (my scan date was 28/07).
I’ve seen people stressing about lack of evidence sent, or their children’s age, and other factors, and I just wanted to try and instill some hope. My son is currently waiting diagnosis for ASD, and is attending speech therapy. There’s not a lot of doctor involvement atm as they’re reluctant to be involved until his diagnosis, so all I sent off extra was his speech therapist report, report from school and his waiting list letter.

Try to keep hope, I know how hard it is to think the worst, but I have my fingers crossed for you all and your little ones.

It does makes me feel good.
My scan date is 26/07 and I'm started to lose my hope.
Im really happy for you and your outcome is amazing!
My boy is 9, he is deaf of one ear and is being assessed for autism.
Hopefully he will get a positive outcome too.

SleepyMamma02 · 01/12/2023 11:14

@MilaMom Honestly, I was all aboard the “I’m going to get declined, there’s dates ahead of me that have heard, I sent no evidence, did I fill the forms right?” train. It gets worse as the time goes on, and you definitely start to eat, sleep and breathe it and think the worst.
Dont give up hope! You’re doing this for your child, who 100% deserves this, you have got this!! It’s easy to fall into the negative, but I fully have my fingers crossed for you with wishing you all of the luck in the world.
And Thankyou so much! X

JJO15 · 01/12/2023 11:37

Just got through to quite a nice man, he said it’s with a decision maker and should be done at any time either today or by next week 🤞
scan date 1/8

cocoapple · 01/12/2023 11:39

I called this morning, scan date is 14/8 was told it’s looking like the 3rd week in January😫 That would be 22 weeks😫

Rebeccanew · 01/12/2023 11:40

@Hardingcl anf @Tmxx let me know how yous get on with uc xxxxxx

JJO15 · 01/12/2023 11:42

@cocoapple Maybe they’re airing on the side of caution as it may fall over the Christmas period? I hope you get something sooner x

cocoapple · 01/12/2023 11:43

@JJO15 Possibly! Just going to leave it now and see what happens, good luck, hope you hear soon x