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DLA Wait times part 20… (2023)

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Mummyrach13 · 13/11/2023 19:17

Following on from part 19 as it’s about to become full.

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Laniewith3boys · 17/11/2023 16:51

Has anyone received a text starting with “a decision has been made” that’s been a good outcome once the letter arrives?? Iv finally received a text but it’s the dreaded a decision was made instead of we have decided your child qualifies so I’m assuming it’s a decline :( I’m so disappointed but il try to appeal once I receive the letter. Wishing everyone still waiting for good outcomes.

Keddie · 17/11/2023 16:53

@Laniewith3boys I am not sure? What was your scan date? I am on hold now 1hr 20mins scan date 13/7 told it went to a DM on Monday xx

Clairexdx · 17/11/2023 16:59

@Keddie you are a day before me! I’m 14/7 went to dm on weds. I called today and still no decision:( Iv seen a few end of July early aug awards now :/ x

Keddie · 17/11/2023 17:02

@Clairexdx Same here its so frustrating. I dont want to spend another weekend stressing over it tbh. gonna see if they answer before 5.30 and i get cut off xx

Sskanf · 17/11/2023 17:02

@Keddie gd luck fingers crossed u get some gd news
Not sure how their working the date order out as I've seen awards from end of july

Ollysmomma · 17/11/2023 17:05

Scan date 18/7

I’m currently sat on hold only 25 mins in…Hope I can get through before 5.30!

Just reading through the thread for everyone’s updates;

Congrats with all the awards this week, lovely to hear you’ve finally heard back!

Looks likely I’ll get told to call back the end of the month too! I sent some extra evidence so want to check if it’s been added.

I’ll let you know how I get on! Xx

Laniewith3boys · 17/11/2023 17:06

@Keddie my scan date was 13/7/23 and was told it was with case manager on Tuesday Iv just received that text about ten minutes ago I’m gutted I definitely think it’s a decline though some people are saying they don’t send texts if it’s a decline they only send letters so I have no idea!!! I will just have to wait for my letter and go from there but feel so disappointed :(

Keddie · 17/11/2023 17:07

@Laniewith3boys I am fully expecting a decline for my daughter. the lack of contact is awful xx

Boymum910 · 17/11/2023 17:09

Scan date 20/7 called today and the man said I should have a decision next Thursday which will be 18 weeks

Mummyrach13 · 17/11/2023 17:11

@Laniewith3boys I’ve only ever known those texts to be a decline from being on the threads but I really hope that’s not the case for you! It’s gut wrenching. Give them a call Monday and if you need to do a MR then defo do! X

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Pumpkins3 · 17/11/2023 17:20

Declined. Absolute crushed. I don’t even know what to say. He rushed through the reasons why and I wrote down what I could. Going to do a MR as there are points the DM made that I disagree with entirely. Just trying to sort tea and hold it together. All that waiting for absolutely nothing 😔 x

Keddie · 17/11/2023 17:29

Just spoke to Cliff (top bloke to be honest) I am still with a DM he has marked it as urgent to be looked at this weekend and to have a text sent to me. Honestly lovely guy i feel very lucky not to get an ass at this time on a Friday! But still another weekend and no idea whatsoever. Working away Mon/Tues next week so cant call will hope for the ultimate text xx

crazytimes20 · 17/11/2023 17:33

So sorry to see the declines today. It really is not fair at all. Congrats to those who have been awarded. I'm actually dreading it now. I was okay for so long but now I'm seeing dates near mine be awarded I'm worrying.
Scan date - 25/7
Last txt - 23/10
Yorkshire.

Keddie · 17/11/2023 17:35

@Pumpkins3 I am so sorry to hear this 😥Do your MR and get what you deserve, it will go to a brand new DM takes roughly 2 weeks. Call them and do it over the phone it will speed up the process. Just be ready with your responses to each point. I would do this asap waiting for the letter will delay you. Also FYI anyone reading this new evidence is taking up to 8 weeks to be scanned on!! My mate Cliff told me x

Jude82 · 17/11/2023 17:37

@Krys83 @Mumofepilepsy Thankyou all of you 😊 hope you both hear really soon, it’s awful waiting and so not fair when dates aren’t being awarded in the right order. It’s just wrong. @Sskanf Thankyou. I am still trying to let it sink in that it’s over! I’m so relieved I can let go of this stress now. Well until 2026 anyway…🫣

CHS100288 · 17/11/2023 17:39

1hr 40 mins on hold and I got cut off at 17.36! 😩

Pumpkins3 · 17/11/2023 18:23

Keddie · 17/11/2023 17:35

@Pumpkins3 I am so sorry to hear this 😥Do your MR and get what you deserve, it will go to a brand new DM takes roughly 2 weeks. Call them and do it over the phone it will speed up the process. Just be ready with your responses to each point. I would do this asap waiting for the letter will delay you. Also FYI anyone reading this new evidence is taking up to 8 weeks to be scanned on!! My mate Cliff told me x

Thank you @Keddie Honestly feels like some sort of joke really. I mean as if any of us would be applying for the fun of it. Our lives are stressful enough as it is without having to fight for every single bit of support 😩

Just trying to piece together what he said but he rushed through it so fast and I’m worried I’ve missed some of it 😬 x

Rebeccanew · 17/11/2023 18:30

Omg do I see awards @Jude82 @Sskanf ? Omg! Wait is over we’ll done and we’ll deserved ❤️💕 xxxxxxxx

@Keddie any news hun xxxxxxx

Tammam1702 · 17/11/2023 18:32

I’m expecting a decline too not even ringing coz I got a feeling that’s the reason no news. I agree tho, waiting anxiously for 17 plus weeks and filling in the form for the sake of it… obviously wouldn’t put all the effort in for nothing. Congrats on all the awards. Our babies should be getting what they all deserve x

MangoPepsiLover · 17/11/2023 18:37

I am not going to ring again and will wait for the letter

I tried today and kept getting cut off, I'm getting frustrated and upset by it. I know it's a decline.

Onwards and upwards, I'll increase my hours at work to get that extra money DD needs, I shouldn't have to and she will not cope with more time away from me - although the Childminder she goes to is lovely - but it is what it is

Jude82 · 17/11/2023 18:52

@Rebeccanew I know right 😃 ❤️ sooo happy right now! I am opening a savings account online now ready for the back pay while I prioritise what to him get first. Relief and joy don’t come close to explaining this feeling. I am so invested in everyone’s journey on here so I do feel sick and anxious for everyone still waiting or declined though. I believe nobody would put themselves through this process unless they genuinely had to and their child deserved the help so to see any decline is awful.

Jude82 · 17/11/2023 18:55

@Pumpkins3 Im so sorry 😢 Let yourself be upset and then get that fight back and go for MR. You know what your child deserves. Sending love ❤️

Rebeccanew · 17/11/2023 20:10

@Pumpkins3 please tell me yours was t declined! Heartily sorry if it was! But you get back at it and fight do a MR rack as much evidence as possible! And get what your little one deserves xxxxxx

@Jude82 aww I’m happy to hear this I really am ❤️ xxxxx

everyone in whatever decision I’d decline then get your MRs put straight in get what your little one deserves ❤️

Alybird77 · 17/11/2023 20:37

SarahHmumof3 · 16/11/2023 12:58

Have all scan dates 14/7 heard anything yet ?
I still haven’t heard anything and I can never get through to talk to someone

Same scan date as me. I am still waiting

Mumma3girls · 17/11/2023 20:59

to those who have had awards- how long did it take for you to get your back payment after receiving the text?
thanks