dla part 11

[megan345]

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@Nicole12345 let me know how you get on @upthewallmumof3 you should be hearing back really soon I should imagine! I'd call and chase them up it has to at least be with a dm now xx

Hi I've been watching for a while now my scan date was 16/2 I really thought my son had no hope of being accepted as he has no diagnosis nothing from school as he is not allowed to go so it was literally just me writing what our life is like anyway I got a call on Friday as the dm wanted me to go through with her what are days and nights are like at the end of the call she let me know that she would be awarding HRC and LRM I have no idea how long it will take for me to get the letter or any back pay but just wanted to say don't give up even if you think you don't have enough evidence.

@Mumto2sengirlsxx I'll be honest I haven't got the energy to try today, had a hard night with my dd she's been awake all night with her anxiety so haven't had any sleep 😩 but it's reassuring to know @Mummyof2setsofgirlytwins that you have the same date and have been awarded 😘
@Nicole12345 let us know how u get on if u get thru today xxxx

@Mumto2sengirlsxx @upthewallmumof3 its finally with a DM! Horay!! hopefully hear soon xx

@Nicole12345 oh amazing news!!!!!! So happy for u xxxx

@upthewallmumof3 yours has probably already got a decision I’d have thought 🤞 keep checking your bank as most people receive a payment before a letter in the post xx

@Mummyof2setsofgirlytwins aww thank you for your reassurance there so glad you got the results you wanted!! @upthewallmumof3 aww bless you sweetie hope your okay!! I'm the same I'm to anxious to call incase I get told bad news @Nicole12345 that's fab!!! I'm not going to bother calling incase I get told different but hope you get results really soon!! Xx

I have had a text message today, I am just coming up to 10 weeks so a while for me to go 😞

Scan date around 20th Feb and got another text today saying they're still looking at it and to not call. I'm getting a bit antsy now more in case they call as I hate phone calls! And everyone always calls when I'm at work to add to the stress

I didn’t send much evidence in, only a letter from doctor stating about anxiety, being on waiting list for asd assessment and awaiting dyslexia assessment, a letter from senco, letter from counsellor and a letter on my daughters phone about her mental health, so I’m not holding out much hope! It’s hard as the wait is so long for professionals!

@Nicole12345 I bit the bullet and called mines not with a dm yet and they said I'm looking more like the 1st week of June for it to be with a dm -_-

@Mumto2sengirlsxx 😩 was ur scan date the 16.02 like mine xxxx

@upthewallmumof3 yep hun xx

@Mumto2sengirlsxx from todays posts it looks like they are up to our date so u never know xxxx fingers crossed it's this week xxxx

@upthewallmumof3 that's what I said to my partner it would make no sense for June because 2 people have theirs with the dm today with the same scan dates I'm really hoping so I'll keep people updated anyway xx

@Mumto2sengirlsxx like we've said before it seems no one has the right answer their end but I'm positive we r at the end now xxx deffo, and I'll keep u updated too xxx

@upthewallmumof3 I know hun xx thank you xx

@Mumto2sengirlsxx 😘😘 try not too stress too much lovely xxxx

@Mumto2sengirlsxx surely yours will be with a DM in the next day or so too! I tried to find out when mine went to the DM so other people could gauge there’s but she said it didn’t say on the system when it went to the DM xx

@Mumto2sengirlsxx I'm just going to wait, others comments were they have had a text to say it's with the DM then the text to say awarded in the same day ....... I'm hoping it's deffo this week 🙏🏻 xxxx

@Nicole12345 its Oka its just frustrating they can go over the timescale but we're not allowed to do that! Hypocritical system I've actually got Pip myself and I have to say my process and waiting etc was a lot better than this dla... @upthewallmumof3 I hope its this week but im not holding out much hope! Fingers crossed for us all soon 🙏 ☺️ xx

@Mumto2sengirlsxx i know what you mean it’s a whole nightmare isn’t it! I dunno if I feel any better now sitting around waiting knowing it’s with a DM 🤦🏼‍♀️ like I feel it’s causing me more worry. Quicker it’s all over the better. I do think yours should be with them in the next day or so though xx
@upthewallmumof3 yeah when I called last week I requested a txt but I haven’t received one to say it’s with the DM so not holding my breath for one with the outcome xx

@Nicole12345 yeah I can understand you have a lot more anxiety now, when you opt in for the text do they text when it with a dm? I've never heard that before only that they send you the decision? Nor sure how it works tbh hope the wait is over for you soon hun!! Xx

@Mumto2sengirlsxx no idea was just going off what @upthewallmumof3 wrote. I’ve heard of message to say you’ve been awarded but not heard of letting you know it’s with a DM. But then again they do do things all differently don’t they 🤷‍♀️
yeah like how long is to long to wait once it’s with them before I should get a decision? Honestly once this is over with I will breath a massive sigh of relief xx

@Nicole12345 it shouldn't be to long now for you depends on how big the dms pile is and how far down it you are, hopefully you'll know by tomorrow xx