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Dla part 10

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Patientlywaitingx2 · 13/03/2023 14:59

Called up today and the wait gets pushed back further and further has anyone been awarded recently

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ASDMummy78 · 20/03/2023 13:55

Hi everyone!
forms scanned 20/12 still waiting for a decision.. I really want to call and see if it’s with a DM yet but I hate feeling like I’m bothering them 😞😞 I last called Thursday and they said not with DM just yet …

CheesePlease33 · 20/03/2023 14:04

@AnxietyMumma is yours a renewal?? If so, what date does it end?

My renewal is due to end next Tuesday and don't know whether to call and chase today?

Hayhoarematthews · 20/03/2023 14:46

Ladies who have filled out renewals it's my first time doing a renewal not due to end untill July. Question 34 is this for mobility or for care needs

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Boymom10 · 20/03/2023 14:58

@Hayhoarematthews I think it for all needs I wrote my son needs support with all care needs all of the time and it constant. As he needs the same level of care all of the time..
does that make sense?

Hayhoarematthews · 20/03/2023 15:01

I did think itnwas for that but was unsure because it was by the mobility part thank you

AnxietyMumma · 20/03/2023 15:13

@CheesePlease33 no mines a new claim, not a renewal

From what I've seen renewals are being done close to end date. Some actually on the day

WouldJudasLeaveIt · 20/03/2023 15:16

What is the time frame for a renewal rather than a new claim, I mean how long before it runs out are you advised to do it? My son’s award runs out in December but I rang and told them he should be on a higher rate and they sent the forms out, would this be treated as a new claim or a renewal does anyone know?

CheesePlease33 · 20/03/2023 15:32

Just rang regarding my renewal and still not with a DM yet :(

Patientlywaitingx2 · 20/03/2023 15:51

I called this morning and wasn't with a dm and just called back and it's with one now 🤞

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ASDMummy78 · 20/03/2023 15:56

@Patientlywaitingx2 im calling now, seeing you called twice in one day gave me courage 😂 I always get so anxious about calling up I don’t know why as we have the right to check on the progress right?? Or am I just telling myself that to make me feel better haha

Patientlywaitingx2 · 20/03/2023 15:58

ASDMummy78 · 20/03/2023 15:56

@Patientlywaitingx2 im calling now, seeing you called twice in one day gave me courage 😂 I always get so anxious about calling up I don’t know why as we have the right to check on the progress right?? Or am I just telling myself that to make me feel better haha

I just said I I rang this morning and the phone got cut off mid call. I had a feeling it would be today so I I rang back up. Nobody has ever been funny with me or moaned. I just say I'm calling to see if my son's claim has gone to a decision maker yet. X

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ASDMummy78 · 20/03/2023 16:00

@Patientlywaitingx2 I’m glad yours has gone to a DM, it’s such a long nerve wrecking wait isn’t it!! I’m on hold now I’ll probably be here a while, but I’m keeping my fingers crossed 🤞🏼

Patientlywaitingx2 · 20/03/2023 16:01

ASDMummy78 · 20/03/2023 16:00

@Patientlywaitingx2 I’m glad yours has gone to a DM, it’s such a long nerve wrecking wait isn’t it!! I’m on hold now I’ll probably be here a while, but I’m keeping my fingers crossed 🤞🏼

9am I rang and they answered it within 2 mins was waiting 36 mins then xx

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ASDMummy78 · 20/03/2023 16:34

@Patientlywaitingx2 i just spoke to them! My sons been awarded HRC! I’m so happy for him!!!

Patientlywaitingx2 · 20/03/2023 16:45

ASDMummy78 · 20/03/2023 16:34

@Patientlywaitingx2 i just spoke to them! My sons been awarded HRC! I’m so happy for him!!!

Oh so happy for you. It's worth ringing twice in 1 day 🤣 you can relax now x

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Boymom10 · 20/03/2023 17:01

@CheesePlease33 I’m not going to bother them as my dates the same as you… Il ring Thursday.

Supermom92 · 20/03/2023 17:14

ASDMummy78 · 20/03/2023 16:34

@Patientlywaitingx2 i just spoke to them! My sons been awarded HRC! I’m so happy for him!!!

That's wonderfully news . Can ask when was your scan date I'm impatiently waiting and anxious x

Patientlywaitingx2 · 20/03/2023 17:32

Supermom92 · 20/03/2023 17:14

That's wonderfully news . Can ask when was your scan date I'm impatiently waiting and anxious x

Mine is 19/12. Mines gone to dm today

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Mumofthree1987 · 20/03/2023 17:36

Been quietly stalking the last few threads...

Scan date 05/01 for my sons claim

Does anyone know if there's a correlation between receiving the "we are still looking at your child's claim" text message and the claim going to a DM?

I know I probably still have a good few weeks to wait!

TIA

AnxietyMumma · 20/03/2023 18:09

Yes @Patientlywaitingx2 !!!! I'm So glad yours is now with the DM. I tried calling back earlier but the bloke I spoke to told me I called wrong department for an update (I didnt). So I didn't bother again. Will call 9am tomorrow

@ASDMummy78 I'm so glad you've got your sons award now!! What evidence did you send in? I'm going into mega panic it will be a decline after being the 1% form that had to go higher to be signed off

ASDMummy78 · 20/03/2023 18:49

@Supermom92 scan date was 20/12! I hope you hear soon! Xx

@AnxietyMumma i sent in a supporting letter from our home start volunteer, a supporting letter from our family support practitioner, audiology report, ASQ questionnaire and speech and language referral. I hope you hear soon! Xx

AnxietyMumma · 20/03/2023 19:17

@ASDMummy78 ah a fair amount then. I think I've overloaded them with info 🤣. ASD and ADHD waiting list letters, draft EHCP. Blue badge report as it was from an independent assessor. OT acceptance letter. Behavioural plan, care plan both from school and a covering letter that I wrote x

Cacb15 · 20/03/2023 20:03

My scan date is 21/12 looks like it could be worth giving them a ring tomorrow? I really don't know if it will be accepted but fingers crossed x

ToughMum · 20/03/2023 20:26

Reading some of the responses. I think by ringing them you speed the process up to a DM. They really do sound like they are snowed under. If i dont hear by end of next - week 13 I will ring for an update. The waiting is a killer. Even more than filling the form! Lol.

Supermom92 · 20/03/2023 21:56

I'm week 13 Friday I think scan date 23/12 i put allot of info on the form with how she is at home etc she doesn't sleep , speech and language report school wrote in too , referral letters , a questionnaire that the school filled out and myself . and her appointment just come through to see a mental health nurse , she's not that bad in school she's disruptive and can be distracted easily also , I don't get why she is different at home it's been so so hard lately , I struggle to handle situations because I feel I make them worse when I tell her off for things (it does make her react more and make things worse ) she's been saying she wants to kill herself and it's heartbreaking to hear I just don't no what to do anymore it's just so hard x

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