Dla part 10

[Patientlywaitingx2]

Called up today and the wait gets pushed back further and further has anyone been awarded recently

@Supermom92 what is she in the process of getting diagnosed for? She obviously masking at school and keeping it in then exploding when she gets home. The best thing to do is to pick your battles with her and think if it’s worth causing the uproar it will cause, that’s what I do with my son when he’s like that, my eldest son has made comments like that before aswell and it is very upsetting, I knew that he didn’t know what he was saying and was just saying it when he was having his angry moments but obviously if there’s a self harm concern then bring it up with her consultants

Wonder if we get a text today seen people awarded same day

@Supermom92 I'd say definitely masking at school home is her safe space where she can let her emotions out my son is 5 he is suspected asd or ADHD not yet diagnosed and he tells us multiple times a day he's so sad it makes it more difficult because while I know he's saying it in the moment because he isn't getting what he wants his dad takes it to heart his dad has asd and ADHD my daughter was diagnosed with asd November and she has started to get aggressive she doesn't like her brother (5) in her space she will try to grab hit and sit gritting her teeth and has recently started hitting herself on the head when she is overwhelmed it's not nice to see but for a 4year old dainty little dot she's strong both myself and her dad are short and quite stocky and both our children are strong our son can push against his dad and physically move him so both of them are only going to get stronger and that's a little frightening when they both have aggressive outburst ....sorry I'm just rambling

In shock just rang up and he has been awarded hrc backdated to dec In shock went to dm yday dinner and decision was made yday

Ah fantastic :) x

Thabk you dani006 Really thought it was a decline. How do I go about uc can anyone help me thank you x

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Do what it says in the pic, then write on your journal and say just to confirm you've made changes to a child as they've been award dla from (insert award date) state you are requesting the disabled child and carers element to be backdated from the dla claim, the reason for the delay is that you've told them as soon as you've found out yourself from dla.

It will save time, if you don't write the reason why it's delayed in telling them, they will ask after waiting then you will wait again for them to send to DM, it just cuts the middle out.

I do apologise my child drew on the print out I made lol xx

I've replied to the post with what you need to do, but it didn't tag you sorry x

Today is a good day!! I have just received a backdated payment all the way from September when I first asked for the forms but never received them… I can’t stop crying! I have no idea if he’s MRC or HRC but I am so relieved the wait is over… I honestly cannot stop crying and I’m not even sure what I’m crying over, my son deserves this so much ❤️ Scan date is 19/12!

Ah fantastic ❤️
I cried to the woman on the phone when she told me. I think it's such a fight for any sort of help and just knowing something has been done (as it should be) is very overwhelming xx

Same as me mine went to dm yday as well. Ring up I did and just asked had it been looked at and she told me all the details and dates over the phone I was nearly crying to her said thank you a million times

Thank you very much xx

Thanks everybody ❤️

I also read somewhere it’s best to write in your journal and state you want it backdated, is this right? As sometimes they can be sneaky and not do it without you asking!

Yes! Read the post I put on, it's a couple below this now. Definitely do that or it causes delays xx

My scan date is 22/12/22 received another txt today saying still being looked at hopefully not long for a decision now 😬😬

My scan was 19th dec. They have back dated it till the date on the form x

Patientlywaitingx2 have you been awarded now? Only 3 days in front if me so hopefully I might hear this week.

Just been trying to call them to find out rates etc for an HOUR 🤦🏻‍♀️ Have had to give up because I need to pick my son up from nursery soon!

@Dani006 Sorry I didn’t read it properly to begin with! Thanks for the screenshot it’s super helpful x

@Patientlywaitingx2 massive congratulations, I am so happy the wait is finally over for you and your son has got what he deserves

I'm currently on hold hoping they can give me an answer today x

@L0ts massive congratulations on your award x

Yes it went to dm yday and was awarded yday x

Aw thank you fingers crossed for you they have you positive news xx

Congratulations on your award 👏

50 minutes on hold. The check still hasn't been completed. Trust me to be that 1% they check. Requested to receive a text although now guaranteed

I received a text today too and I'm 21-12