Hello again everyone, thank you all for the lovely welcome back! 
Sorry to hear of the horrendous nights and illness of both mums and babies.
I agree that cosleeping ROCKS. 10 months ago I wouldn't have dreamed I would ever say that!
larle you made me laugh about the bed! As usual lots going in here and already I am behind on everyone's midnight news.
Last couple of nights have been much better. Still needs resettling about every 1-2 hours (usually because he is up and trying to climb out of the cot) but reasonably quick. And this morning he didn't wake for the final time until - wait for it - 5:30!!!! What a sleep in, another hour and a half on the usual!
Commiserations for colds and chicken pox.