lulabel - but if you go overdue, isn't it theoratically possible you won't yet even be out of hospital by then?? That sucks. Is there any way you could get a Doctor's/midwife note to explain how it just won't work which will make trailfinders see sense?
Whenever I've had difficulties with consumer things, I always ring 'consumer direct' (don't have the number, but should be easy to find in search engine). They tell you what your legal rights are and what to do next. It's free (bar the cost of the call) as it's run by the govt. Don't give up on that deposit!! They would probably tell you to write a letter to head office, but they will tell you what laws etc to quote. Whenever they've help me construct letters etc in the past, it's always worked, so don't think you'll never get that deposit back.
I can't think of a less romantic honeymoon than one a few days after giving birth, all those hormones going around your body, still bleeding, new baby crying at all hours, with a long flight/jet lag etc etc. But, on another note, I have now started dreaming of a holiday to Tokyo and the Great Barrier Reef...mmm, yes, I'd quite like to be there right now (assuming I was feeling human that is)...great choice of location, would have been very envious one of these days I'll manage to tread further than Europe (the furthest I've ever managed is Italy as I'm not great at flying)