10/10 babies - pumpkin smugglers form an orderly queue

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Here we are - pull up a beanbag and help yourselves to mini eggs!

I can't believe I'm actually writing this but unfortunately we went for our scan today to find that the baby had died at around 9 weeks. It came as a complete shock as I've had no bleeding or cramps and I'm still having random bouts of retching and getting bigger. I'm going into hospital on Wednesday to have an operation because it could take weeks to let nature take its course. Tomorrow is DTs birthday and I couldn't do it then.

I wish all of you the best of luck and I hope that none of you have to go through this.

So so sorry louey. Wishing you all the strength you need to get through this. So sorry.

louey, cry, I am so so so sorry, that's just appalling news, not a lot I can say really. I really hope you and OH find lots of support in each other and your family and friends - and on here too, or wherever you need it. I hope the operation is as bearable as possible. I have tears in my eyes thinking of you right now, I am just so dreadfully sorry.

I hope in good time you are back on these antenatal club threads soon (should that be what you wish for).

My very best regards,
Abi xxx

louey. How awful. Fingers crossed for your op. i'll be thinking of you x x xx x

louey I'm so very very sorry to hear your news. It's just terrible. I'll be thinking of you. Take care of yourself.
xxxx

Oh louey I am so sorry to hear your news. I'll be thinking of you on Wednesday. Love and hugs and shared tears
xx

Oh Louey i feel for you, will be thinking of you on wednesday xx

louey I'm so so sorry, I'll be thinking of you on Wednesday, take care of yourself.

Louey I am so sorry to hear your news. Will be thinking of you on wednesday. I have had the procedure myself if you want to ask anything, but understand if not. What a horrible shock for you both xxx

Louey So sorry to hear your news. I hope you have lots of loving support around you at this time. x

louey so sorry to read this and takes a lot to share such tragedy. Thinking of you.

Thank you all for your messages. Can't sleep so I'm randomly surfing MN. Can't stop crying at the moment but need to hold it together today for DTs. DH is being fantastic but is struggling too which makes me feel better in a weird way - it's not just me feeling bad. He told the ILs last night and lost it on the phone.

Will be TTC again as soon as we are able too - hope we don't have to wait too long. Ironically I gave all my remaining OPKs and HPTs to my sister at the weekend. Will have to go and buy some
more now. I will pop back and see how you are all getting on (my surrogate babies until I can have another one LOL) but please can someone take me off the due date list.

Lots of love to you all (not very MN I know but hey) Louey x

(((((louey)))))) am so sorry. Look after yourself & dh and good luck with the dts birthday.

Louey, I am so very sory. Thinking of you. x

Good luck for the future louey, we'll be crossing fingers for you.

So sorry louey Take care and be kind to yourself. The very best of luck for your future and ttc. X

Oh I am so sorry to hear your dreadful news louey. What a terrible thing to happen. Thinking of you lots. x

louey, you'll be back soon, I am sure. Best of luck that it happens fast and easy. Take special care of yourself. x

Updated list:
Meanbeansmum - PG#4,DS(8), DS(5), DD(2), age 29, EDD 29th Sept
IlooklikeGrotbagstoday - PG#2, DS(2 1/2), age 31, EDD 1st Oct
LadyThompson - PG#2, DD(14months), age 37, EDD 1st Oct
EffieB - PG#4, 2mc, DS(17months), age 37, EDD 1st Oct
Redheadgal - PG#1, aged 30, EDD 1st Oct
Picc - PG#2, DS(11 months), age 35, EDD 2nd Oct
MrsMarc - PG#1, aged 27, EDD 4th Oct
dontstopmenow - PG#2, DS(3), age 35, EDD 4th Oct
Nattiecake - PG#1, age 24, EDD 4th Oct
AbFab - PG#1, age 35, EDD 4th Oct
Wateraddict - PG#1, age 32, EDD 4th Oct
Emskaboo - PG#2, age 34, EDD 4th to the 14th Oct
Dippingbackin - PG#3, DD(7), DS(6), age 35, EDD 5th Oct
MummyWilliams - PG#4, DD(8), DS(6), age 38, EDD 5th Oct
Loobyboo - PG#4, 1mc DD1(6), DD2(4), age 32, EDD 6th Oct
SeaShells - PG#4, 2MC DS(15mths) EDD 7th Oct
JenniMoo - PG#1, age 28, EDD 7th Oct
Tyson86 - PG#3 after MC, DS(19 months), age 24, EDD 7th Oct
Constantly - PG#2, age 30, EDD 9th Oct
Blimeyoriley - PG#3, DD(9mths), age 32, EDD 10th Oct
Ivy - PG#1, age 31, EDD 10th Oct
tiredfeet - PG#1, age 28, EDD 10th Oct
bloomingbex - PG#1, age 29, EDD 10th Oct
MummyLovesSadie - PG#5 3x mc 1xdd(2), age 40, EDD 10th Oct
Abigailsparty - PG#2, DD(2), age 34, EDD 10th Oct
Lulabell - PG#1, age 24, EDD 11th Oct
TheBreastmilksOnMe - PG#2, DS(17mths), age 26, EDD 12th Oct
Sandramac - PG#1, age 31, EDD 13th Oct
Vikks - PG#1, age 32, EDD 13th Oct
NinthWave - PG#5, age 29, 3MC, DS(2), EDD 13th Oct
Elsa123 - PG#2 after mc, age 32, EDD 14 Oct 10
tinywelsh - PG#1, age 27, EDD 14th Oct
Norfolkbumpkin - PG#2, DD(2.5), age 37, EDD 15th Oct
Hairymelons - PG#2, age 31, DS(20 months), EDD 16th Oct
Salander - PG#1, age 30, EDD 16th Oct
lilmissmummy - PG#4, DS(8) DD(5) MC (Oct09) age 30, EDD 17th Oct
clarechick - PG#1, age 35, EDD 17th Oct
FrenchLimeBlossom - PG#1, age 33, EDD 17th Oct
pookey - PG#3, DS(4.5) DD(2.5), age 31, EDD 19th Oct
tattycoram - PG#2 DS(3), age 38, EDD 19th Oct
Thirdtimer - PG#3 DDs x 2 (4.5 & 2), age 32, EEDD 19th Oct
Nymphadora - PG#3 DD1(10), DD2(8), age 31, EDD 20th Oct
samanthab123 - PG#3, DD's x 2 (11 & 9) age 37, EDD 20th Oct
SilverSky - PG#1, age 34, EDD 21/22 Oct
Xavielli - PG#3, DS(5), DD(3), age 24, EDD 22nd Oct
Sarahlou8 - PG#3, DD1(11), DS2(9), age 37, EDD 23rd Oct
MrsSenior - PG#1 EDD ~23rd Oct
Hermya321 - PG#1 age 26, EDD 24th Oct
Maclaren - PG#3 - DS (22M) DS 5.5, Age 32, EDD 25th Oct
BUnderTheBonnet - PG#2, DD(3), age 28, EDD 27th Oct
Floozietoozie - PG2, DS (3), age 39, EDD 29th Oct
ILGH - PG#5 age 40, DSx3 6,5 and 19 months, EDD 30th Oct
Pinkali37 - PG#2 EDD unsure
MartiniMummy - PG#2 - DS (11 months), age 31, EDD 2nd Nov

How is everyone today?

I'm slightly seething at the rather large individual at work who told me that I should be watching what I'm eating. At the time I was eating vegetable soup!

On the other hand, at least when my tummy does expand I'll have a valid excuse. Blokes eh!

louey I am so very sorry to hear your news. It must have been a terrible shock. I hope you manage to get through the twins birthday today, and I will be thinking of you tomorrow. Sending you lots of hugs and virtual support and wishing you all the best for the future xxx

Elsa123 I'm entertaining my in laws and trying to take my mind off tomorrow's scan!

Hermya its always the way isn't it! And can you imagine the reaction if you said something similar back?!!!

Hi Ladies, first timer here...hope okay if I join...?

Have just spent a really enjoyable hour with a cup of (mint) tea and a kipling fancy (or 3) reading all your news. What a supportive friendly group you are..such lovely words all through.

I am tentatively posting this with all my fingers and toes crossed, as since LMP 5th Jan it's been a bit of a rollercoaster to say the least! Have spent far too much time in EPU already, being the proud owner of a cyst on my left ovary that is still bigger than my little pippy. A bit scary to say the least...has meant 2 scans already though so good to see some progress in the middle of my belly too! Has also meant scary pains so I wanted to share the above in case anyone else has been experiencing symptoms. They say that it should not have an impact (fingers crossed).

I work in a mad mad finance job so my bump has already been racking up the airmiles - wondering when to tell work as cannot imagine the reaction! Thinking will wait at least till after the nuchal.

Due 12th Oct and still getting used to all the acronyms, but would be honoured to be added to the list! x

Louey I'm so dreadfully sorry to hear your news. I do know what you are going through. When you are ready please do come & join this thread. Everyone on it has had a mc & you will be welcomed with open arms. ThePFJ has joined us & has settled in very well.

Hi VMTB, I guess it's not long to your NT scan?

Hermya well done for not chucking the soup at him. Grrrr.

shieldbug, I find the sweaty betty yoga pants really good for this stage of pregnancy. They don't fall down!

Well, I am going to be HUUUUGE! What to do? The only time I don't feel sick or have reflux is when I'm sleeping or eating - well the eating helps for 10 minutes then it all starts up again. Never mind ay? At least I know weightwatchers works.