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lizzie9442 · 21/08/2009 16:21

Thought I would start a new thread for may. Just got bfp and I am really excited. I think I'm due 30th April/1st May but there are so many people on April already. Heres hoping for a healthy pregnancy. I will just wait for lots more of you to join me. xxxx

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slipperthief · 19/09/2009 21:22

Hugs to you there pamelat, crying eating a cream scone really does paint a sad picture.

JeMeSouviens · 19/09/2009 21:49

Sorry for those that have lost their little ones. I had a m/c in July, the baby would have been due 10 March. Happily I am pregnant again. I have a 2y+3m DS already and know he is going to be an excellent big brother.

I have added myself to the list, due 20 May.

lizzie9442 - 22 EDD 30 April #4
ChalkeyB - 31, EDD 01 May, #1
FarahS - 25, EDD 01 May #1
brightredballoon - 32, EDD 03 May, #3
ForcesSweetheart - 36, EDD 03 May, #2
Butterscotch - 34, EDD 4th May #2
Bettymamma - 32, EDD 04 May?, #2
littleowls - 31 EDD 05 May #1
newmomma - 31, EDD 05/06 May, #2
AlexW - ??, EDD 6th May #2
Stinax - 30, EDD 06 May, #2
slipperthief - 33, EDD 06 May, #2
Jan9ne - 37 EDD 07 May #2
kaystar - 33, EDD 07 May, #1
sweetkitty - 34, EDD 08 May, #4
memorylapse -37 EDD 08 May #5
DorotheaPlenticlew - 35, EDD 08 May, #2
Asprire2Iron - 31, EDD 08 May, #2
Sassles - 30 EDD 08 May, #1
LuckyC - 35, EDD 09 May, #1
sarahlou8 - 36, EDD 10 May, #3
carikube8 - 36, EDD 10 May, #2
Sheepgomeep - ??, EDD 10th May, #4
hobnobfanatic -37, EDD 12 May, #2
samandsophsmam ??, EDD 12 May, #3
pamelat - 31, EDD 12th May, #2
gils - ??, EDD 12th May, #2
CharmButterfly ??, EDD 14th May #1
mich5lle - 31 EDD 14 May, #1
Carbie - ??, EDD 15th May, #1
meanbeansmum - ?? EDD 15 May, #4
katnkittens - ??, EDD 15th May, #4
LittleOneMum - 36 - EDD 15 May, #2
minniemummy - EDD 15 May, #3
FinalFurlong - EDD 16th May #2
TwentiethCentureHeffa - 25, EDD 17th May #2
JamesAndTheGiantBanana - 27, EDD 17th May #2
Divvy - 38, EDD 18th May, #6
HarryJoesMummy 31, EDD 18th May, #2
pigleychez - 28, EDD 19th May, #2
Kaylo - 24, EDD 20th May, #3
Bessie123 - 20th May, #2
VivClicquot - 32, 20th May, #1
JeMeSouviens - 36, 20th May, 2
Suey2 - 39, EDD 21st May, #2
hophophippidtyhop - 37,EDD 21st May, #2
argento - 25, EDD 22nd May, #1
babytum1 - 25, EDD 22nd May, #1
Spirael - 27, EDD 24th May, #1
MamaKaty - 24, EDD 28th May, #1

TwentiethCenturyHeffa · 19/09/2009 21:57

Pamelat - I'm so sorry, that's very sad

We've told a few people but I really worry about telling too many - we told loads of people last time but I'm more paranoid about it this time.

suey2 · 19/09/2009 22:14

I totally get that, pamelat. I am going to see my dying dad next week to say my goodbyes: mum and I have agreed not to tell him I'm pg: just too cruel. I'm really sad for my kids that they'll never get to know him.

HarryJoesMummy · 19/09/2009 22:36

pamelat and suey2 -

dorothea - sorry if I misled you - I wasn't suggesting that running around after a toddler was any problem for the pregnancy. I hope not anyway! I just find it funny when I was so ultra (OTT) careful with DS1, and with this one, I keep forgetting and doing so much more and everything so far seems fine. Just shows me that I really could have managed to carry those shopping bags when pg with DS1 after all....

Told parents, sis and BIL today - they are all thrilled . MIL and her DP to tell tomorrow, and then DH's brother - and then that's it until had the first scan [determined-to-keep-my-mouth-shut emoticon].

Meanbeansmum · 19/09/2009 23:13

Mummytoeli, so glad all was ok for u hunni. I had my baseline bloods back today. HCG 344 and progesterone 5.6 (10 is the minimum progesterone level needed to sustain a pg). My spotting has stopped, this is too cruel. I am ok though, more bloods tomorrow.

I hope all mums and bumps are ok.xxx

sweetkitty · 19/09/2009 23:18

meanbean - just left you a message on the TTC#4 thread, so sorry to hear this

suey/pamelet - I lost my lovely MIL 2 months ago and am totally gutted still cannot believe it. To make matters that wee bit worse my mother has been downright nasty to me and I have cut all ties with her too

welcome newbies cannot keep up with everyone, I think we will all breathe a sigh of relief when the magic 12 weeks comes round.

JamesAndTheGiantBanana · 19/09/2009 23:37

Welcome to the new folks.

Suey2 I hope you find the strength you need to get through the next few months. I lost my mum a few years back and it was hard enough without being pregnant too.

Quite a bit of sadness on this thread at the moment, let's hope that's the last of it and we can all look forward to smooth happy healthy pregnancies.

I'm crying at the drop of a hat too here. I've had a rotten cold the past couple of days, and I sneezed earlier, bit my tongue and burst into melodramatic tears! which thankfully isn't usually like me.

I have been weeing like a racehorse today, about every hour! and I have a third coldsore (surefire pregnancy sign for me, when I was pg with ds1 I had six in a row) So much for looking radiant in pregnancy! Anyone else looking like a spotty pale exhausted mess at the moment or is that just me???? I look like Uncle Fester in a wig!

JamesAndTheGiantBanana · 19/09/2009 23:43

meanbeansmum, x-post, didn't mean to sound dismissive of your news. Sorry to hear that, I hope you get a final answer one way or another so you can move on from this experience. It must be horrible being in limbo, and I know there are several ladies on the thread in the same boat.

charmbutterfly · 20/09/2009 02:45

HELLO LADIES!

I am having a bit of a fit today!!

Had a urinalysis done and i have 15mg/dL of ketones in my urine and i am panicking!! Is that good, bad or indifferent??

Spirael · 20/09/2009 07:12

Morning everyone.

Well, took another test this morning to see what state I'm at here, and it's BFN. So, looks like I did MC over the past few days.

Ah well... Back to conception for me! Bye everyone, hope everything turns out better for the rest of you.

lizzie9442 - 22 EDD 30 April #4
ChalkeyB - 31, EDD 01 May, #1
FarahS - 25, EDD 01 May #1
brightredballoon - 32, EDD 03 May, #3
ForcesSweetheart - 36, EDD 03 May, #2
Butterscotch - 34, EDD 4th May #2
Bettymamma - 32, EDD 04 May?, #2
littleowls - 31 EDD 05 May #1
newmomma - 31, EDD 05/06 May, #2
AlexW - ??, EDD 6th May #2
Stinax - 30, EDD 06 May, #2
slipperthief - 33, EDD 06 May, #2
Jan9ne - 37 EDD 07 May #2
kaystar - 33, EDD 07 May, #1
sweetkitty - 34, EDD 08 May, #4
memorylapse -37 EDD 08 May #5
DorotheaPlenticlew - 35, EDD 08 May, #2
Asprire2Iron - 31, EDD 08 May, #2
Sassles - 30 EDD 08 May, #1
LuckyC - 35, EDD 09 May, #1
sarahlou8 - 36, EDD 10 May, #3
carikube8 - 36, EDD 10 May, #2
Sheepgomeep - ??, EDD 10th May, #4
hobnobfanatic -37, EDD 12 May, #2
samandsophsmam ??, EDD 12 May, #3
pamelat - 31, EDD 12th May, #2
gils - ??, EDD 12th May, #2
CharmButterfly ??, EDD 14th May #1
mich5lle - 31 EDD 14 May, #1
Carbie - ??, EDD 15th May, #1
meanbeansmum - ?? EDD 15 May, #4
katnkittens - ??, EDD 15th May, #4
LittleOneMum - 36 - EDD 15 May, #2
minniemummy - EDD 15 May, #3
FinalFurlong - EDD 16th May #2
TwentiethCentureHeffa - 25, EDD 17th May #2
JamesAndTheGiantBanana - 27, EDD 17th May #2
Divvy - 38, EDD 18th May, #6
HarryJoesMummy 31, EDD 18th May, #2
pigleychez - 28, EDD 19th May, #2
Kaylo - 24, EDD 20th May, #3
Bessie123 - 20th May, #2
VivClicquot - 32, 20th May, #1
JeMeSouviens - 36, 20th May, 2
Suey2 - 39, EDD 21st May, #2
hophophippidtyhop - 37,EDD 21st May, #2
argento - 25, EDD 22nd May, #1
babytum1 - 25, EDD 22nd May, #1
MamaKaty - 24, EDD 28th May, #1

suey2 · 20/09/2009 07:12

Thanks guys. Tbh, it will be a blessing when he goes: he's been ill for a long time and now wants to go. Ma signed the dnr last week.

How sad, sweet kitty. I've been gobsmacked at the behaviour of some parents on here, too. My folks have always been over the moon and v supportive.

Hollyoaks · 20/09/2009 08:06

Hi all, can I join? Just has a bfp over the weekend so I should just squeeze on the end.

So sorry to hear the sad news on the thread (only read the last page), good luck to all those in limbo and positive thoughts to all those who have suffered a loss in their family. I've been there and its awful though it does get better in time.

Hollyoaks · 20/09/2009 08:08

izzie9442 - 22 EDD 30 April #4
ChalkeyB - 31, EDD 01 May, #1
FarahS - 25, EDD 01 May #1
brightredballoon - 32, EDD 03 May, #3
ForcesSweetheart - 36, EDD 03 May, #2
Butterscotch - 34, EDD 4th May #2
Bettymamma - 32, EDD 04 May?, #2
littleowls - 31 EDD 05 May #1
newmomma - 31, EDD 05/06 May, #2
AlexW - ??, EDD 6th May #2
Stinax - 30, EDD 06 May, #2
slipperthief - 33, EDD 06 May, #2
Jan9ne - 37 EDD 07 May #2
kaystar - 33, EDD 07 May, #1
sweetkitty - 34, EDD 08 May, #4
memorylapse -37 EDD 08 May #5
DorotheaPlenticlew - 35, EDD 08 May, #2
Asprire2Iron - 31, EDD 08 May, #2
Sassles - 30 EDD 08 May, #1
LuckyC - 35, EDD 09 May, #1
sarahlou8 - 36, EDD 10 May, #3
carikube8 - 36, EDD 10 May, #2
Sheepgomeep - ??, EDD 10th May, #4
hobnobfanatic -37, EDD 12 May, #2
samandsophsmam ??, EDD 12 May, #3
pamelat - 31, EDD 12th May, #2
gils - ??, EDD 12th May, #2
CharmButterfly ??, EDD 14th May #1
mich5lle - 31 EDD 14 May, #1
Carbie - ??, EDD 15th May, #1
meanbeansmum - ?? EDD 15 May, #4
katnkittens - ??, EDD 15th May, #4
LittleOneMum - 36 - EDD 15 May, #2
minniemummy - EDD 15 May, #3
FinalFurlong - EDD 16th May #2
TwentiethCentureHeffa - 25, EDD 17th May #2
JamesAndTheGiantBanana - 27, EDD 17th May #2
Divvy - 38, EDD 18th May, #6
HarryJoesMummy 31, EDD 18th May, #2
pigleychez - 28, EDD 19th May, #2
Kaylo - 24, EDD 20th May, #3
Bessie123 - 20th May, #2
VivClicquot - 32, 20th May, #1
JeMeSouviens - 36, 20th May, 2
Suey2 - 39, EDD 21st May, #2
hophophippidtyhop - 37,EDD 21st May, #2
argento - 25, EDD 22nd May, #1
babytum1 - 25, EDD 22nd May, #1
Holyoaks - 27, EDD 26th May #2
MamaKaty - 24, EDD 28th May, #1

I've updated the list, hi kaylo nice to see/read a familiar face.

lizzie9442 · 20/09/2009 08:33

lizzie9442 - 23 EDD 30 April #4
ChalkeyB - 31, EDD 01 May, #1
FarahS - 25, EDD 01 May #1
brightredballoon - 32, EDD 03 May, #3
ForcesSweetheart - 36, EDD 03 May, #2
Butterscotch - 34, EDD 4th May #2
Bettymamma - 32, EDD 04 May?, #2
littleowls - 31 EDD 05 May #1
newmomma - 31, EDD 05/06 May, #2
AlexW - ??, EDD 6th May #2
Stinax - 30, EDD 06 May, #2
slipperthief - 33, EDD 06 May, #2
Jan9ne - 37 EDD 07 May #2
kaystar - 33, EDD 07 May, #1
sweetkitty - 34, EDD 08 May, #4
memorylapse -37 EDD 08 May #5
DorotheaPlenticlew - 35, EDD 08 May, #2
Asprire2Iron - 31, EDD 08 May, #2
Sassles - 30 EDD 08 May, #1
LuckyC - 35, EDD 09 May, #1
sarahlou8 - 36, EDD 10 May, #3
carikube8 - 36, EDD 10 May, #2
Sheepgomeep - ??, EDD 10th May, #4
hobnobfanatic -37, EDD 12 May, #2
samandsophsmam ??, EDD 12 May, #3
pamelat - 31, EDD 12th May, #2
gils - ??, EDD 12th May, #2
CharmButterfly ??, EDD 14th May #1
mich5lle - 31 EDD 14 May, #1
Carbie - ??, EDD 15th May, #1
meanbeansmum - ?? EDD 15 May, #4
katnkittens - ??, EDD 15th May, #4
LittleOneMum - 36 - EDD 15 May, #2
minniemummy - EDD 15 May, #3
FinalFurlong - EDD 16th May #2
TwentiethCentureHeffa - 25, EDD 17th May #2
JamesAndTheGiantBanana - 27, EDD 17th May #2
Divvy - 38, EDD 18th May, #6
HarryJoesMummy 31, EDD 18th May, #2
pigleychez - 28, EDD 19th May, #2
Kaylo - 24, EDD 20th May, #3
Bessie123 - 20th May, #2
VivClicquot - 32, 20th May, #1
JeMeSouviens - 36, 20th May, 2
Suey2 - 39, EDD 21st May, #2
hophophippidtyhop - 37,EDD 21st May, #2
argento - 25, EDD 22nd May, #1
babytum1 - 25, EDD 22nd May, #1
Holyoaks - 27, EDD 26th May #2
MamaKaty - 24, EDD 28th May, #1

OP posts:
pigleychez · 20/09/2009 09:40

Welcome to Hollyoaks

Sorry you are leaving us Spirael

So sad that people arent being supportive. My family have been happy, PIL alittle shocked as I dont think they expected it just yet.
Lovely BIL and girlfriend sent us a card yesterday saying Congratulations for making us an Aunt and Uncle again. Bless them.. They did the same when we told them about DD.

TwentiethCenturyHeffa · 20/09/2009 09:57

meanbeansmum and spirael - so sorry about your news

Hollyoaks - welcome to the thread!

Re family: my sister and BIL were incredibly chuffed and very sweet. They dote on DD so it's lovely - I'm very close to their children as well (and DD adores her cousins). PIL were pleased but MIL is already convinced it's a boy - apparently she had a dream telling her so. Except she had that last time, apparently with numerous other signs that I was absolutely, definitely, having a boy (was a girl) so I'm not going to count on her vision! Negative reactions are so sad - why not just be happy?

sweetkitty · 20/09/2009 11:02

I do feel very sad about my lack of family now especially when I see other DC with their grandparents, I cannot cope with the negative reactions whilst I am feeling so rough and praying this LO makes it.

Will tell my SIL next week when I see her, she is lovely but she is an hour away and having her own traumas with her teenage DD.
My brother will probably say "not again" and moan about ahving to buy more Xmas presents and that we will need a bigger house or something.

My mother told me last time that it would be for the best if I had a mc as 3 DC would be expensive and no one has big families these days and I was stupid so am not telling her this time.

My Dad will say oh congratulations and then start to talk about his rose bushes or something. he is one of these people who doesn't really care what you are talking about just wants to talk about himself asap

MIL and PIL are both dead and we have other old aunts who don't really bother with us. So that's my family really, maybe one of the reasons DP and I wanted 4 children, we love a big noisy house children coming and going etc.

welcome hollyoaks this thread is fair filling up now, I think it will be better once we have all had our scans know all is well and we start chatting about prams and cots etc

schipo · 20/09/2009 12:15

Hello! It seems that I'm about 7 weeks pregnant, due date, acc to my calculations, May 13th. This is my first so it's all new and exciting and a little bit frightening, not least because I'm 39. So far so good anyway. No sickness yet but I do v have sore boobs, a few cramps and I'm visiting the loo often. I am wondering how i'm going to tell my mum who lives hundreds of miles away that she's going to be a grandmother after all this time.

Also struggling with some of the acronyms used on this site - dd/dh/ds etc.?? Is there a glossary somewhere?

Anyway, best wishes and lots of love to everyone. I've added myself below:

lizzie9442 - 23 EDD 30 April #4
ChalkeyB - 31, EDD 01 May, #1
FarahS - 25, EDD 01 May #1
brightredballoon - 32, EDD 03 May, #3
ForcesSweetheart - 36, EDD 03 May, #2
Butterscotch - 34, EDD 4th May #2
Bettymamma - 32, EDD 04 May?, #2
littleowls - 31 EDD 05 May #1
newmomma - 31, EDD 05/06 May, #2
AlexW - ??, EDD 6th May #2
Stinax - 30, EDD 06 May, #2
slipperthief - 33, EDD 06 May, #2
Jan9ne - 37 EDD 07 May #2
kaystar - 33, EDD 07 May, #1
sweetkitty - 34, EDD 08 May, #4
memorylapse -37 EDD 08 May #5
DorotheaPlenticlew - 35, EDD 08 May, #2
Asprire2Iron - 31, EDD 08 May, #2
Sassles - 30 EDD 08 May, #1
LuckyC - 35, EDD 09 May, #1
sarahlou8 - 36, EDD 10 May, #3
carikube8 - 36, EDD 10 May, #2
Sheepgomeep - ??, EDD 10th May, #4
hobnobfanatic -37, EDD 12 May, #2
samandsophsmam ??, EDD 12 May, #3
pamelat - 31, EDD 12th May, #2
gils - ??, EDD 12th May, #2
Schipo - 39, EDD 13th May, #1
CharmButterfly ??, EDD 14th May #1
mich5lle - 31 EDD 14 May, #1
Carbie - ??, EDD 15th May, #1
meanbeansmum - ?? EDD 15 May, #4
katnkittens - ??, EDD 15th May, #4
LittleOneMum - 36 - EDD 15 May, #2
minniemummy - EDD 15 May, #3
FinalFurlong - EDD 16th May #2
TwentiethCentureHeffa - 25, EDD 17th May #2
JamesAndTheGiantBanana - 27, EDD 17th May #2
Divvy - 38, EDD 18th May, #6
HarryJoesMummy 31, EDD 18th May, #2
pigleychez - 28, EDD 19th May, #2
Kaylo - 24, EDD 20th May, #3
Bessie123 - 20th May, #2
VivClicquot - 32, 20th May, #1
JeMeSouviens - 36, 20th May, 2
Suey2 - 39, EDD 21st May, #2
hophophippidtyhop - 37,EDD 21st May, #2
argento - 25, EDD 22nd May, #1
babytum1 - 25, EDD 22nd May, #1
Holyoaks - 27, EDD 26th May #2
MamaKaty - 24, EDD 28th May, #1

sweetkitty · 20/09/2009 12:23

Welcome and congratulations schipo you have come to the right place but be warned Mumsnet is very addictive, once they suck you in you can never leave I have been here since Jan 2004, abbreviations are here mumsnet lingo

Now what to have for lunch stomach is rumbling but cannot think of anything I want to eat.

pamelat · 20/09/2009 12:25

Hello and welcome There is a glossary, if you click on acronyms and abbreviations, its written in blue on the line called "Talk".

I struggled with them too. In the end it just makes typing much quicker though.

Although think I need to re-visit myself as dont know what bfp is.

JamesAndTheGiantBanana · 20/09/2009 12:30

Welcome to the thread hollyoaks and schipo! Schipo, here's a link to the acronyms and abbreviations used on mumsnet, but dh/ds/dd etc is just dear husband, dear son, dear daughter. Congratulations on your pregnancy, don't be afraid to tell your mum, I bet she'll be over the moon for you! My mum had me at 38, think I was a bit of an accident but it all worked out fine.

Spirael, best of luck trying again hon, hope it happens for you very soon. x

Trying to get the energy together to take my toddler somewhere today as he's bored and destroying the house, but full of a cold. I just wanna snuggle under a duvet and rest. Bleurgh.

JamesAndTheGiantBanana · 20/09/2009 12:59

keep x-posting with everyone! think I must be a very slow typer or something... lol

samandsophsmam · 20/09/2009 13:20

Only been away for a few days and come back to pages and pages! TBH I am struggling to keep up but don't want to leave you all.

Sorry to hear all the news and loss of loved ones.

I feel so stressed out- not even sure why! Am not coping very well with the 12 hour shifts two little children and pregnancy.
We told just the family last night. FIL says oh you will have to gve up work! Why will I? I only do two 12 hour shifts a week. DH looks after them and I love my job Am I being selfish?

Got my first scan date- 2nd November seems like eternity away!

samandsophsmam · 20/09/2009 13:21

And also can i justify buying myself a new pram for what is probably my last child?

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