Hi all,
Me and Joseph came home from hospital yesterday, we're both great, had a fantastic labour (although it didn't really seem it at the time) lol.
After losing my plug on Friday afternoon I started getting achey period pains and they gradually got stronger through the night and by about 3am I was sure that it was defo labour. I then stayed at home until about 11.30am until I decided I could do with some gas and air. I was 4cm when we arrived at the hospital and I wanted to use the birthing pool but the boiler was broken so they had to fill it up using the kettle so it wasn't ready until I was 9cm and almost ready to push. Once I got in the pool it was sooooo much better, I was much more relaxed and felt much more in control. It was totally amazing seeing him being born in the water too, he literally shot out of me, one second there was just a head poking out and then the next second there was my baby in front of me. Best moment of my life!!!
I managed to escape with no stitches too .
Joseph is totally perfect and I'm head over heals in love with him! we tried breast feeding but I've got inverted nipples and Joseph is a bit of a lazy boy so wasn't working very hard so after he'd still not had a proper feed after 24 hours we had to admit defeat and give him a bottle. My milk is comin in at the mo so gonna keep tryin to breastfeed, hopefully he might get the hang of it once he doesn't have to work so hard for it, failing that I'll express some.
My ex didn't make it to the birth, didn't even respond to my texts when I told him he was a Dad but last night I sent him a totally adorable pic and he text this morning apologising and he's gonna come and see him today
Hope everybody else is well and good luck to anybody about to drop x