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I can't wait to hear how your birth was Hunny and Becca.
Mine felt like ages but was in fact less than 7 hours from when my waters started trickling at home to the actual birth.
My waters went around 2pm on Sat and we had a bit of a mad panic getting the kids off to a friends as my in laws were a 2 hour drive away (they actually live 5min drive away but as luck would have it, had gone out).
Once I got the kids to a friends we made our way to hospital where the contractions were coming in slowly. I would have preferred to stay at home but the MW wanted to check me over to confirm if it was indeed my waters.
We got to hospital and things started progressing (more frequent contractions and had a show) and the monitoring had confirmed my waters had gone (by this point it was really come down - sorry if TMI). I was only 2-3cm dilated but as my last birth was so quick they wanted to keep me in. Thankfully they were really busy so allowed us to go for food and a walk. We were planning to walk to the Heath after a quick pizza and suddenly things got a bit tougher. A dash to M&S and we back in the ward. No labour rooms available so I was put in the post natal ward which when you are contracting every 1-2 min with just a tens machine and no privacy it was not ideal. DH was great at keeping me calm as I was ready to cry!
I finally got a room in the birth centre and the MW's were brilliant. They coached me through the contractions making my body work for me. They didn't even examine me (just checked baby's HR) and let me dictate what I wanted to do. I had just over 20min of pushing and Tristan Benjamin was born. Of course by this point I was lugging in the gas and air and had ripped the tens machine off.
I did tear a bit and I am not sure what was more painful, pushing or being 'tidied' up after.
And there you have it. We had instant skin to skin and he has bf (though our latch is still a bit iffy, having someone come over today to hopefully get it right) and we are home.
Good luck to everyone who has yet to give birth and look forward to hearing more birth stories.