Due May 2009. Bring On The Second Trimester!!! Woo!! Hoo!!

[divedaisy]

Here you go gals! Over to you all now!

Hello - I am Clare and due on the 6th May with mine and my husband's first. All lovely at first scan and 20 week scan on 15th Dec.

Very exciting!!

Jools - thinking of you, really hoping this is just one of those unexplained things. Sorry you have to go through this. I wish it was easy for everyone. xxx

Wow just caught up.

Jools I am thinking of you xxxxxx

Jools, let us know when you can. xxx

Oh Jools how scary and awful for you, I'm so sorry . Let us know what they say. (hugs)

Jools I'm sure we are all thinking of you and sending positive thoughts your way.

Thinking of you Jools.

jools thinking of you.. how terrifying for you and dh big squeezey hugs xx

Just got in and caught up

Jools what a horrible experience. Thinking about you and hoping it's not as bad as you fear xx

Thanks for the positive thoughts everyone.

Unfortunately it obviously wasn't meant to be - internal exam confirms cervix wide open and nothing left, so all that remains is a scan sometime tomorrow to check for "retained products of conception" - horrible term and I can close the door on the last 3 months and try to move on.

Today was terrifying - had never experienced that much blood before. I shall still cheer you on from the sidelines ladies and look out for some lovely news in May next year Hopefully the rest of you are all past the danger point, as my EDD was 29/05 and I was only ten days off the end of the first trimester - nearly made it !

I'm sure the tears will arrive in time but I feel strangely OK at the moment - as if a weight has been lifted from me. Maybe on some level I knew things weren't right ?

Anyway, I'm waffling - could someone please take me off the list.

wishing you all happy and healthy pregnancies xx

I'm so, so sorry Jools1. Make sure you give yourself plenty of time to heal, both emotionally and physically. I've had 2 early miscarriages and people try and encourage you to move on quickly. You do whatever you need to remember this little one, and give you and your DH some space to grieve.

I'll be saying a little prayer for you this evening and thinking of you.

Oh Jools I'm so, so sorry - what an awful experience. I'm glad you are handling it so well right now, but you're right you shouldn't be suprised if the tears come at some point. I have to say that when I had my first m/c (much earlier than you so not quite the same) I had had this nagging feeling that something wasn't right and so wasn't at all suprised when it happened. When I then got pregnant with DD1 right after, I felt totally different, somehow just KNEW all was well right from the beginning, so maybe somehow you did know. Fingers crossed the same will happen for you if you choose to try again.

Take great care of yourself, our thoughts are with you xxxxx

Jools I am so so sorry, I know that I only know you from here but as we were so close in dates I felt a bit of an affinity with you in some way. You have been so lovely to talk to, I hope to see you popping up on other threads soon.

I can only echo what llareggub says about giving yourselves some time and space and tlc.

Thinking of you xx

oh Jools I'm so sorry Take all the time you need to get over this. I know there are good people on MN if you feel like 'talking' about it, in time. Thinking about you

Oh Jools - so so sorry to hear this - your tears may not have arrived yet, but I'm surely shedding some for you right now. You take your time to get over this. You will find fantastic support on the MC thread - I'll get the link for you. The support there is great - they helped me a lot back in April. Hopefully soon we'll see your name back on another A/N thread - but in your own time. Take care of yourself and DH xxx BIG HUG xxx

Just moving me from due date of 1 May to 12 May...

Yawningmonster due 1 May (36 will be 37 when dc arrives DS age 4)
Sahbear due 1 May (DS age 14 mo)
farrahgillani due 1 May (1st Child)
Brightsideoflife due 1 May
Reggiee due 1 May (ahem 30 April but want to stay - DD age 22 months)
Aquababe due 1 May (DD age 2.9)
Evergrounded due 1 May
Momino due 1 May (DD age 2.5 and DD age 1)
Loulabela due 1 May
AAL due 1 May (DS age 4)
Olderbutnotwiser due 1 May (DD age 21, DS age 19, DS age 16 DS age 4, DD age 2)
MissyK due 1 May (Now 30th April, but what's a day, bet I'm late grin )(DS age 4) 20wk scan 15th December
bantam73 1 May (dd age 2.11 + dd 16.10) from Leeds
Heverhoney due 2 May
SpangleMaker due 3 May (first child)
LoobyLou36 due 3 May (first child)
EmmalinaC due 3 May (DD age 2.4)
Inni due 4 May (DS age 2.9 and DD age 1)
Ceeceeanne due 4 May (DD age 9)
Chicadee due 5 May (DD age 6.5)
Overtiredmum due 5 May (DS age 3)
Hopefullypregnant due 5 May (DD age 10.5m)
Gibsongirl due 6 May (DS1 age 5 and DS2 nearly 2)
BrownieBells due 6 May (DS age 2.9)
lauralou1 due 6 May (first)
Jael due 6th may (DD age nearly 3yrs at mo)
Detsy due 8 May (UK, Cheshire - DD 11 months)
Carol7 due 9 May (DS age 16 DD age 12)
Jennster due 9 May (DD age 2y7m, DS age 13m)
sebandelliotsmum due May 9th ds1 5 and ds2 20 months
Febes due 10 May (DD age 9 months)
Missblythe due 10 May (DD age?)
Superdenki due 10 May (DS age 2.5)
Pinkcandyfloss due 11 May (DS1 age 5 and DS2 age 1.7)
Mootie due 11 May (DD age 2.4)
llareggub due 12 May (DS age 2)
Flippineck due 12 May (DD age 17 months)
Ses due 12 May (first child)
Minimenace due 12 May (DS age 13 months)
Millionsaway due 13 May (DD 20 months)
Mammajamma due 13 May (DS1 age 4, DS2 age 22m)
Wobblypig due 14 May (DS 1.11)
Looneywoman due 14 May
Zuka due 14 May (first child)
1stMrsF due 14 May with non-identical twins (first pregnancy, Surrey)
chocolatefrog due 14 May (DD 19mnths)
FiKelly due May 15 (DS age just over 2yrs)
Frazzledoldbag due 16 May (DD1 age 7, DD2 age 2)
Nauseous due 16 May
Daisydoo due 16 May (DS age 19m)
Bluebell82 due 16 May (dd age 7 months)
umamimama due 16 May (dd age 16 months)
Bigtree due 17 May (first child)
Divediasy due 19, then 17th, then 12th now 7th May (DS age 5 1/2 3rd preg)
Bekkaboo due 19 May (DS age 2)
Tigergem due 19 May (DD 18m)
GreenFingeredMummy due 20 May (DD age 15m)
Mags98 due 21 May (first child)
2beautifulgals due 22 May (2 dds?!)
Moonlit due 22 May (DD age 2.8)Nuchal Scan 07/11/2008)
halfmumhalfbiscuit due 23 May (DS age 2)
Agooboo due 23 May (DS1 age 6 DS2 age 2)
Swottybetty: Due 24/05/09. DD 6mths
DandyLioness due 25 May (DD age 3yrs9mths)-nuchal & dating scan 10/11/08
Alapala due 25 May (DS 1.5)
pulapula due 25 May (DD nearly 4, DS 1.5, Sheffield, nuchal 13 Nov, 20 week scan 6 Jan, elective cs)
MatthewandBumpsMummy due 26 May
Nikkiemadisonandbump due 26 May (DD age 2)citybranch due 27 May (DS age 21m)
Imnotok due 27 May
Runningmonkey due 27 May (first child)
Grumpyoldcaaaaaaaa due 27 May (DD age 10, DD age 4)
CoteDAzur due 28 May (DD age 3)
MrsEvs due 28 May (DD age 4, DD age 2)
Fryn due 29 May (first child)
SweetBROODY due 29 May (First Child) Dating scan put me at 8.5weeks! Bit confused about how to calculate! Another scan 7th November!
MsG due 30 May (first child)
Bluebutterfly due 31 May (DS age 3.5)
DorisIsAPinkDragon due sometime! (DD1 age 3 DD2 age 14mths)

Jools, you'll find great help on the Knicker Checkers thread here The thread is for those who have had a MC and support given when you conceive again and all the relevant worries you'll experience then... hope it helps xx

agooboo - I like the belly belt now. Using the smallest belt with regular jeans and it's giving me a bit of breathing space!!

I think tonight I'll give my wee plum an extra special huggle - after what has happened to Jools it's sobering to realise problems can arise at any stage.

Jools, just logged in to get an update on you and am so, so sorry. We'll really miss you on this thread and can't wait to see you back on another thread soon. Do listen to the others' advice on giving yourself space and time.
hugs and all best wishes to you. xx

MrsEvs thanks for the advice on Gap. will just hold out for another pairof jeans.

A big vote for the belly belt from me. I got one for my 1st pregnancy and used it all the time.

Jools- so sorry to hear your sad news- only just seen. I had a very early mc in 2006 and thought about it a lot for a year or so (particularly around EDD). But once I had DS I found it very strange to think he wouldn't have been here otherwise, and he's such a wonderful baby.

Wishing you well for the future and hope you get some happy news again when you are ready to try again. Take care, and pop in and say hello whenever you feel like it.

Dandylioness- I think Doris is due 2 June now (or something like that) and decided to move to the due in June thread so that she wouldn't always be lagging behind.