Haven't got time to read all posts but will reply to two:
kasha I've emailed the cranial osteopath to ask for the details of her clinic as I went to her house as it was a personal referral
notsoslim re: bottlefeeding. The thing to remember is: formula powder is not sterile. Therefore you need to do one of two things:
a) add the powder to v.hot water (boiled and left in the kettle for not longer than 30mins). If you're going to store it, make sure you cool the bottles quickly (stand in a sink of stone cold water) and put in the fridge as soon as they're cold. Then re-heat as needed (of course never in the microwave )
OR
b) add the powder to cooled boiled water (can be room temp, I know a lot of people who fill their bottles with water the night before and leave them to cool on the work-top) BUT you must feed it to baby straight away coz its not sterile.
Option b is much less faff. Needless to say we went for option A last time and spent every night making feeds, remembering to boil the kettle, go to it within half an hour, put them in the fridge before bed, and take them out cold and find somewhere to warm them. Faff.
Also, if you follow the instructions, your child is screaming for food while you're making the feed, and there's a risk of scalding them (and your wrist when you test the temp!!) coz the water is straight from the kettle.
Hope that helps!
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