No, i don't have to do it - we tried before 5 years ago and it doesn't work very well. I am quite, erm, strong willed and Ryan is not, i don't think we resolve much, its just me barking at him TBH.
I'm going to ring the mediators and tell them im not in a physical posistion to start now but will consider it for future. Am not going to mention it to ex-p at all.
I am not going through this until at least August - i need to get well, back to life after Millie first.
He has been better, yes, but there are still lots of otstanding issues. He doesn't even do Reilly's reading book - his mum does. Also his mum rang me last night and said they are going away Easter weekend, so they can't have him overnight. I says; so is Ryan going away? No, says they, but we dont think he should have Reilly alone. FFS he is 25 and Reilly is 5. DH is 25 and a very near dad of 4 and the best man on the planet