August 2019 Part 3: nausea, scans and big reveals

[ScotsBaby2]

Part 3 already!

A list of those already on the bus. Welcome to newbies. It's the countdown to 12 week scans. I think I have nearly a month to wait though :-(

(July): MrsC87, JodieRobson

30th Jul: Triskaidekaphilia
31st Jul: Mrsof20118, Jelliestogether
1st Aug:
2nd Aug: Kateroslin, Cardi86
3rd Aug: IrishCypriot, Bakingabean, UnicornDust17, Sammi0805 Aileenr(3rd-5th), Kbloom, Ninunina
4th Aug: FrancesV83, MrsRyan15, DT1390, Sric1994 (4th-8th), Emma1224
5th Aug: SenoraSurf, EverythingNow, Noopey, Kileah18
6th Aug: Sunshine1987, MrsH1990
7th Aug:, Clairelee17
8th Aug: Newtoallthis101, orangefolly, Mammytosuperbaby (8th-12th), sunshinerainfollower, Carlyisamum
9th Aug: Stylix1981, Whoopsies
10th Aug: SullyWife, Moonchild23, QueenofFox, CautiousOptimist
11th Aug: Crossfitgirl, Albeans, DolleyMix, Blueberry2018
12th Aug: Brownzy, Kmic, Lothirial
13th Aug: Avacadooo, lmason17, marajade12, canonlyhopexo
14th Aug: Lemon1, Purplelion, TDLO, RiseYeSunkenShip
15th Aug: Canor10, Poppy012, Blii
16th Aug: Elito, Abw94, ss3ajb
17th Aug: Chiatta
18th Aug: MummaGiles, LouPenny25
19th Aug: Coneywonder, ScotsBaby2, Jummynbean, Starreyeyed13
20th Aug:
21st Aug: NursieMum27
22nd Aug: quackersmooo, bluesdetoi, loveshinealight
23rd Aug: Sunnydays321, DippyDiplidocus, 1BobbinWinder
24th Aug:
25th Aug:
26th Aug: ScarletGlow, mamma2be, sacrecoeur0712
27th Aug:
28th Aug: Moncwf, Octobergirl91
29th Aug: Twitwooo
30th Aug: PinkLady89x, misssunshine86, FunkyEmzie, WOMANlikeME (30-1)
31st Aug:
2nd Sept: 03cclarke

Due dates TBA:

AutumnFlowers
AwaitingaLondonbaby
Bhillary
Birdtale
Calmercomber
Chocolate89
Dotty356
Ejne17
Fae1989
Giraffe888
Kcjoe
LouiseD2018
Luceeee
Mightypinkdms
Milly2000
Mimididdy
Newmumma2019
Notanotherpawpatrol

Oftenconfused
RaindropsRoses
Rosetintedview
Samsward87
Scatterbrainedlass
Sundayshoes

Tri2mum
Vicola

Wine winner
XLauraa

Hi all. Welcome newbies! To all worrying about symptoms, it's normal for them to come and go. The chances of miscarriage past 6 weeks are generally very low.

Went to the doctor this morning, got omeprezole. I didn't push for anything else because I think my nausea is acid reflux related, and I'm nauseous and retching rather than actually vomitting, so I don't think those meds will help. Really hope it works because even thinking about most foods makes me gag. I'm 8+1 by LMP although probably a few days behind that in reality. I know it lasted until 16 weeks last time, but peaked around 9/10 weeks. I have annual leave (booked pre pregnancy) all next week so that's a relief.

DS had a temperature this morning but perked up loads with Calpol. I wish there was an adult/pregnancy Calpol that would have that affect on me! And for some reason the streets of our village are littered with dog poo. I accidentally got some on the buggy wheels. Cleaning dog poo is awful at the best of times but with pregnancy nausea it was terrible. I am concocting some elaborate revenge fantasies now for people who don't clean up after their dogs. No danger of finding the energy to carry them out though.

@QueenofFox: we have the counselling session tomorrow. My sister had the test and she's 7 months now and said, she has the results within a week.

We have a history in the family of chromosome abnormalities so want to be sure and that's why we want NIPT and not just the neck measuring

@Hortonlovesahoo hope it goes well and you find it useful. I found the sessions very informative and non biased (one of my daughters has a chromosomal abnormality/resulting disability), just had the test and results next Tuesday. Eek!!

@queenoffox: that's a good turnaround! I'm glad that you don't have a long wait. I found just being able to talk openly and honestly about the options and what the test involves/doesn't involve etc.

Today I honestly feel like I'm dying and I've got to get to the dr for my flu jag. I'm going on my pjs because I don't have the willpower to even change.😔
This constant sickness/nausea is really starting to grate on me now, I feel like a shadow of myself and nothing is fun anymore.
Almost ten weeks and at this point I'm not counting down until the scans or anything I just want August here and it out so I can start living like a human again.

These past three days have been absolutely awful. Dh came home from work Friday with a cold or something along those lines. So had both him and dd to look after this weekend instead of me having a break which was soul destroying in itself but then last night me and dd of course got ill too... and she's had the highest temp I've ever seen her get. All miserable and whimpering. Pleased with dh to stay home today as I couldn't cope. Gp checked her over and said just paracetamol and cuddles, so we're both drugged up hoping for a miracle so we're both better by tomorrow when we're back on our own 😔

I’m bowing out. Had my 12week scan today and my baby stopped growing at 7weeks. I’ve had a missed miscarriage. Good luck everyone, I will be thinking of you and your beautiful babies x

@Findingaway I'm sorry to hear that x

@Findingaway really sorry to hear, so sad, thinking of you x

@findingaway: im so sorry to hear that. Massive hugs to you x

@Findingaway really sorry to hear that. Thinking of you xx

Hi all,

Thank you pixie and horton for the support messages.

It’s not good news I’m afraid. I was ok on Saturday then it all went badly on Sunday. Late afternoon I ended up in A&E due to the pain & bleeding. I’m still relying on morphine. They scanned me at the hospital last night. Baby only measured 5/6 week (I should be 11 today).

They can’t formally say I’ve miscarriaged as the baby is not big enough to show a heart beat even if all was healthy. So will need to scan in two weeks time for them to medically say what’s happened. But there’s no way I’m only 5/6 weeks and this is just bad spotting. It would need to be super human sperm to last that long to make dates workable.

However, I’ll wait until the second scan before I formally leave this lovely group.

xx

findingaway

I’m so sorry. Sending lots of love and hugs. Hope you have great support around you in real life xx

@findingaway and @Noopey I'm So sorry lovelies. Thinking of you

@Findingaway I'm so sorry to read this. Take care of yourself xx

@Noopey I am really sorry to hear, I've been in your shoes and I know how awful the waiting can be. Sending lots of love and hope you've got strong support around you. xx

I'm so sorry to hear the sad news @Findingaway
@Noopey I'm sorry you're going to have an anxious couple of weeks. Life can be really cruel sometimes.

So sorry to hear that @Findingaway and @Noopey. I hope you both have all the support you need.

I'm so sorry @findingaway and @Noopey, just awful news. I hope you have a lot of support around you. Thinking of you both

@Noopey and @Findingaway Sorry to hear your news :-(. Take care both.

@Findingaway @Noopey I'm so sorry to read your updates. Hope you've lots of people to talk to in real life.

@Findingaway @Noopey so so sorry to hear your news, I can't imagine how heartbreaking it must be for you both. Sending lots of love, take care of yourselves. xxx

@Findingaway@Noopey so sorry to hear your news. My heart is with you both xx

@Findingaway and @Noopey I'm so sorry to hear your news. I was there at the end of August receiving similar news @Findingaway . Missed miscarriages are just hideous and cruel. I hope you have supportive people around you x

@findingaway and @noopey so sorry to hear this. The same has happened to me before and I know how heartbreaking it is. Thinking of you both.