Can't believe it's taken me an hour to catch up with you lot.
Sorry to hear about your weekend H&A, it must feel like you've been invaded by a barbarian hoarde.
Impossible to comment on everything but I just wanted to say to Bumper yes there are lovely baby moments and don't let anyone tell you different, I have a lovely photo of me and DD at around 1 month, I'm lying on a lounger reading and she is asleep on my belly. Small babies sleep a lot and yes there is extra laundry etc, but it's not that bad.
Re the sex and going into labour thing, DH has fond memories of me threatening physical violence towards the end last time if he didn't get down and do something IYSWIM, apparently he wasn't very turned on by pg women. I wouldn't mind the idea at the moment actually but it's strictly off the menu I think til my cervix decides to behave.