Lesley, I am so sorry to hear about your friend. I have to say I don't know what to suggest, and it is only you that can make that decision.
Bubblez, you sound incredibly calm and laid back after a rather scary experience. Really hope you and your new baby are doing ok.
CD, your dinner sounds yummy!
Hope everyone else is ok and having a good evening.
Dh and Becky are due back in about half an hour and I am so bloody nervous.