I felt the same Tea - first time round I quite fancied a surprise but DH strongly wanted to know so I agreed - and was then so glad I had because I also feel I bonded more with DS before he was born. In my mind I felt different being the 'mum of a boy' than I would have done as 'mum of a girl' - i can't really explained why though! I think a surprise is lovely but knowing in advance definitely worked out for me too.
It's odd this time finding out at 11 weeks. I am not sure I liked it tbh. At 20 weeks last time I was feeling movement and, being further along, I felt more confident about the pregnancy working out, so I suppose I allowed myself to bond. This time I guess subconsciously I didn't, because it was so early. We had our reasons for wanting to know asap and since it is an optional extra with the harmony test we thought we might as well but it was definitely weird for me!
When did you all start feeling movement? I seem to recall i felt DS (first child) at about 18 weeks but in the last couple of days I am sure I can feel baby move when I go to bed. Is that really possible? I am 14.5
Twins Mum - golly! I am an older sister to twins and love it from that perspective!