hanflan Sorry, that's really difficult, I didn't mean to patronise. Just when I see someone thinking about amnio and only having heard one side about it being so low risk, I can't help thinking of my friend before she had it and afterwards how she was, and just trying to balance the story from the other side. Obviously any decision you make personally is a valid one, and absolutely no judgement from me on that, I just hate to think of someone going into it like my friend did almost convinced that "low risk/1 in 100" = "no risk", because it's not, not for that 1 in every 100, iyswim. Anyway, I'll shut up about it now! x