Yeah I was very positive about midwife last time and how lovely she was but the more I've thought about it and read other people's experiences the more I think it was easier to keep me on the bed than try to move me into better positions! At the time it all seemed rational! I'd definitely speak up more a second time, so ladies if you want something definitely speak up and question midwives or ask them to explain things more.
How are you getting on torf and mugoo ? Baby cuddles are close!