Evening all and hello to Lillian!
Just about caught up....
Bunch sorry to hear you're feeling a bit down about things, I think it's only natural in the circumstances. Don't forget that your 'mones are all over the shop and it's difficult to think objectively because of this too. Really hope things pick up for you work wise soon. Can I ask, how long did you have to wait for the low risk letter to come through? And did you get in touch to ask about the Patau's and Edwards tests? Hopefully you are low risk for them as well.
Danni From your post a few pages ago, the description of the hospital sounds very similar!! I'd rather not share the location publically for fear of outing, but would be interested to know if we're in the same place! PM me if you like!
I'm veering towards the prospect of a water birth. If it all goes tits up, then I know I'll have to get out, but the bed is in the same room and they can wheel it over so I'm happy with that. The only downside is strong pain relief isn't an option (epidural) if you need it. However, some women find it useful to labour in a pool then get out for the actual event in any case.
Leslie Hope you recover quickly from Noro virus, that's good that it won't affect the baby.
Dr You should be fine with the paint situ, just stay away from it from now on! It's long term exposure that's an issue. Solvents are not good news though. (I'll be getting DH to paint the nursery! No idea on decor yet!)
Nev Can't believe how rude some family members can be. It would be so insensitive to ask someone who'd been trying for some time if it was a mistake. I'd respond by sarcastically saying 'Well, we decided to not use protection and see what would happen. What the fuck do you think?'
My weird dream involved being hoisted above the heads of people in a mosh pit whilst I shouted to be put down because I'm pregnant!