hi all. Had my 20 week scan yesterday but then couldn't update as the site was down.
Bubs distinctly unimpressed - spent much to the scan covering his/her face, kicking the probe and turning away. Made me feel bizarrely proud - I hate having my photo taken and took it as a "taking after mum moment". Glad we didn't want to know the sex because its extremely unlikely we would have been able to see. Being a geek I really enjoyed all the anatomy & got a couple of photos of the bit where you can see a face.
I then had cause to be really grateful for this thread - I don't know who it was that said they had missed an appointment because they hadn't known they were meant to book it. My appointments said USS only but was sure I was due to see a midwife so went to check - I was booked in for yesterday. NO letter sent, nothing in my notes and no one told me.
To make matters worse - despite being sat there someone then put my notes in the DNA box so I was sat in the waiting room at the very end of clinic - the receptionist had gone and I couldn't find anyone. I did get seen but made a real fuss to make sure they got rid of the DNA from my records - I would never miss an appointment & definitely don't want that in my notes.
IN summary - second episode of dodgy organisation from them - it's clear they couldn't organise an orgy in a brothel - so I made midwife go through whole pregnancy plan with me - mark all milestones & I will be managing the organisation myself. Trust no-one! 