Gooo thanks for the tip - I think there are a couple I could get to. What sort of thing do they do? The 2 I might be able to reach are both in primary schools and don't seem to have a web presence, not exactly the sort of place to randomly turn up, esp w/o visible bump!
Also, knitting is not so hard - I can send you some patterns that are 'make a square, sew it up like this, voila! cute hat/jumper' (OK, the jumper is 2 squares, 2 rectangles...)
Deladion I would love a(nother) knitting group! The only one I can get to meets once a month, which is nice but Not Enough. I admit I have a bit of a stash of hand knits already (give them as gifts a lot, might keep them all now!) Can't wait to have a little one to wrap in wool & love :)
ditizzy it's your birthday, if you don't fancy it say no! You don't need a reason, but the one you have is about as reasonable as possible, imho. Also, a lot of things won't take you while pg even if it's early and obviously safe, for insurance reasons, so at very least get a written confirmation they'll take you before you book!