Jackie do you need to have a souls in place before even booking in? That seems very early to me. Also to have booking in at 14+ seems very late.
Have you self-referred for a scan? Where I am, only the midwife can book it for you.
And yeah, I know time goes slowly for small children. That's why I'm debating when is best. I'd rather tell her properly than let her hear it from someone else, but we'll wait as long as we can.
Lovely scan pic Elley! Very sweet!