Due March 2015 - on the way to booking in, scans and morning sickness ahoy!

[notoasthere]

New thread ladies since we are nearly bursting the seams of the first one!

Thanks notoast and Zebra I think I will at least broach the subject with my MW (who is the same MW that I had last time round) and see what she says. My main problem is that I just plain don't remember so much of what went on. It took me about a month after his birth to recall that I did actually try pushing for a few minutes to see if I could un-wedge him but I couldn't. And I have a vague recollection of the consultant coming into my room on the final morning and saying "What's she still doing here?" DH got the impression she thought I should've been taken for CS hours earlier...

Anyway, Hetsto just read your original post - I cried! Heartbreaking. Can I ask if you were ever given any further reason/explanation as to what happened? Please feel free not to answer that if you would rather not .

Symptom-wise, I virtually have none today... . Trying not to let it worry me - after all if anything had gone wrong I'd most likely have had pains and/or bleeding, right...???

my stats are theonewiththenoisychild #3 edd 28/3

Oh hetsto I too just read your thread, what an awful thing to happen. Your wee baby will have 2 beautiful angels watching over him/her

i have been naughty today. i made a baby purchase. it was only a baby blanket but it was so cute i couldnt resist it

Oh my this thread is starting to fill up fast it's only been a few hours since I was on last and I feel like I've missed loads

Hope your all doing well today! I've been at a bday party, held outside in the sun, I feel like climbing Into bed right now

Oh and for whoever asked about fb group (sorry can't remember name) you can pm me your email address and I'll send invite, on your phone there should be wee arrow thing next to message, click that and it'll give you option to pm

keeper I've got my booking in on the 4th August and will be asking about a debrief.
The hospital where I had my daughter run a service called "afterthoughts" . We thought about using it a few months after she was born but decided just to focus on the future. Now that I'm pregnant again we're definately going to need to use it.

To be honest more for my partner than me. I had exhaustion, bloodloss and remifentanyl haze so my recollection is a bit rose tinted. He however had to deal with a daughter in intensive care, a partner rushed off to surgery and a complete lack of information for 3 hours wondering if I was going to make it.

Tearing up a bit typing this and he gets very upset when we talk about it so a debrief can only help

That sounds awful northdown, your partner must have got a real shock snd been terrified! Big hugs

Northdown -our service is called that too. Are you in Oxon?

Lots of people on here have some sad stories. Hesto and Northdown - thinking of you both.

To poster who asked about messaging, you can't see the message poster link on your phone, you have to go on iPad or PC. Or at least I can't see on my iPhone!!

I can see it on iPhone brummie, it's a wee square with an arrow coming out at the side of every post! It's the mn app I'm on tho, do t know if it's the same through safari

hetsto that is an incredibly moving account of your loss. I am sure it was a healing thing to do.

Big ((hugs)) and handholding though the anxiety of a pregnancy after a loss.

Hi all.

My laptop is broken and I'm using my tablet, please could somebody be so kind as to add my stats to the list? This is #1 for us and my edd is 19/03/15.

I'm full of a cold and have struggled at work today. Boobs are sore but otherwise I still feel normal.

Hetsto I'm going to read your post now. I

sp1 yes I feel like doing nothing and completely exhausted. But had blood pressure taken this morning and is 85/65 so that may explain a lot!!

hesto just read your post. So very very sad. I couldn't imagine it.

hetsto I am so sorry for your loss x

Updated Stats:

I got given two dates by two people. Going with 19th until scan tells us more, so hello due date buddy appleby and coastergirl!

*Chatlootle #2 edd 25/2
*butterpuff #? edd 28/2
*Notaqueef #2 edd 1/3
*Northdownmummy #2 edd 1/3
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*ZylaB #1 edd 9/3
*madasacatter #2 edd 10/3
*ohfourfoxache #1 edd 10/3
*tannyloo #3 edd 10/3
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*Kettlepot #? edd 25/3
*Littlemissy12345 #2 edd 28/3
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*MotherOfInsomniacToddlers #3 edd 31/3
*Purpletoes #2 edd ?/3
*Longbottom #2 edd ?/3
*Crispsandchoc #1 edd ?/3
*Wokeupwithasmile #2 edd ?/3
*FlipFlippingFlippers #3 edd ?/3
*ifallelsefailsdrinktea #? edd ?/3
*oliveobsessed #1 edd ?/3
*broodylicious #2 edd ?/3
*cal0203 #1 edd ?/3
*charlieis30 #? edd ?/3
*misty414 #? edd ?/3
*hetsto #3 edd 28/3
*theonewiththenoisychild #? edd ?/3

Hetsto, really emotional for you, lots of love to you and Northdown too, that must have been so hard for your DP.

What a relief we had our early scan today and we could see a very rapid heartbeat and baby fergie was measuring spot on. Whoop whoop...I know I shouldn't get too excited as I'm only 7weeks tmrw but already we are seeing more then when I had my mmc in April. We are back for a further scan in 10 days then we will be referred to the midwife.

Hey all, I think morning sickness hit with a bang today, it'd just been nausea and the odd case if throwing up, but today I could barely leave the loo at work in the morning!

Got a scan tomorrow with my second hospital appointment, so will hopefully see a heartbeat :)

Great news Fergie, congrats!

I fell asleep at my desk (work from home) today, never ever been that tired before just from normal life. Tonight if DH keeps kicking me and rolling on me in the night you may have a murderer on your hands.

Aww that's great fergie you must be well happy! I can't wait till I get to see a wee heart pumping on a screen!

hesto I just read your post and I am so sorry for your loss. Wishing you the most boring 9mths xx

I'm an emotional wreck today and I've got back ache.
I'm in a hotel room with a fan pointed at me. Fortunately in the office we've got aircon.
I'm sure the crying is hormones....hope this calms down
I don't know if the backache is a preg thing
Just got a copy of what to expect when you're expecting
Rang to book docs appt and the only day me and DH can do, they have an embargo on appointments as there only 2 docs in. WTAF!
Nearly sobbed down the phone to the receptionist.
Does it matter if I don't go til 7 weeks?
This is my first preg and I feel like I know nothing. Do I need to take DH with me?

Wow, I've been out or te day and we are 5 pages into the new thread!

hesto

Sorry to all the people feeling rubbish. Hopefully in one or two months we will be entering the easy phase of pregnancy and start blooming!

I've been out in the sun walking all day and was exhausted when I got home. The heat was making me feel quite ill.

Still not many symptoms, other than tiredness and struggling more with the heat than normal. Although today I turned down a piece of cake, which is unheard of for me, so maybe that is a symptom!

purple I didnt take DH to the doctor, he really wasn't needed. Very straight forward appointment. Not taking him to the booking in either and he isn't coming to the early scan (taking my MIL). He is away with work but even if he wasn't I think he would only come to the scan and not the other two appointments.

hesto what an awful thing to have gone through! fingers and toes crossed for this sticky bean x