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March 2014 - thread 5 - Dating scans in full swing

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faithfulandtruthful · 22/08/2013 09:19

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NoMaybeAboutIt · 30/08/2013 12:55

They really are Comms and tropical fruit juice.

Is anyone else really full up? I try to eat and after a few mouthfuls I'm so full.

justmuddlingthroughit · 30/08/2013 13:04

lottie, so sorry to hear about your friend. Flowers

raspberry, I hope you're alright?

I'm hoping that you lovely and knowledgeable ladies can give me some advice. I'm going pregnancy bra shopping and wanted to know where is best to go to get measured. I've not heard very good things about m&s, but are debenhams or house of Fraser any good? Thanks lovelies!

Also, changed my scan date to 12th September. Will be 12 + 4 or 13 + 5 depending on whether I go by dates or the early scan, neither of which is hugely reliable in my case! Will keep you posted, naturally Smile

commsgirl · 30/08/2013 13:07

And pineapple.

I'm starving all the time but as soon as I eat I'm completely full.

IceNoSlice · 30/08/2013 13:22

justmuddling I hada good experience being measured at Bravissimo when I actually had boobs (the smallest they do is D cup).

PramQueen1971 · 30/08/2013 14:06

Maybe, do you think the other early IVF-ers will find the new thread I've created for us?

PramQueen1971 · 30/08/2013 14:11

Right. Maternity bras: I don't believe good ones exist. I have just been bespoke fitted at a posh lingerie shop in Manchester and I have still been left with that unsupported, unconstructed barmaid cleavage. Horrid but comfortable. No way are these bras made for big heavy tits. Where is the decent strappage and backage? I am not buying any more, I will simply keep getting fitted for my usual lovely black bras (unless I can hunt down an underwired maternity bra which separates and lifts properly. Any suggestions?)

justmuddlingthroughit · 30/08/2013 14:16

Oh buggeration, that's not good news, pram! I'm normally a D cup, so was feeling a little dubious about the supportive qualities of anything non-underwired, as it is. Jo hum. Still, where were you measured, and were they any good?

justmuddlingthroughit · 30/08/2013 14:17

That should be 'ho hum', by the way. Stupid 'puter...

PramQueen1971 · 30/08/2013 14:43

Just, I went to Boux Avenue in Selfridges. I am normally a D-cup but have gone up two cup sizes to an E. My back has increased by two inches.

FrankelInFoal · 30/08/2013 15:02

I can't find maternity bras small enough Blush Sad The smallest I've seen are C cups which are a fat lot of good for my A cups. My bras are starting to get tight so I'm pondering buying some plain old non-wired ones for now and hope that my cleavage inflates enough to fill a maternity bra at some point!

PramQueen1971 · 30/08/2013 15:06

..the one I got measured for is also a breastfeeding one where the flap unclips to allow nip access.

NoMaybeAboutIt · 30/08/2013 15:19

I got some maternity bras in mothercare. I've gone up a back size but stayed the same cup. Well, I probably have gone up a cup too, but in nice bras they don't do humongous cup sizes!! I'm so much more comfy without the underwire. My boobs have really changed shape, very round Wink

I think they'll find us Pram

rescoonetwothree · 30/08/2013 15:29

no scans today?

i'm about to go for a haircut, my pregnancy hair has taken my dark brown dye a little too well and now i look like morticia addams x a mop

Jolleigh · 30/08/2013 15:36

I'm wearing the most horrific maternity bra at the moment. I was an H before pregnancy. It's now easier to just refer to them as comedy tits. The bra doesnt separate anything so I'm constantly hauling them apart so they don't look like a single globular mass. And oh good jesus, the cleavage sweat... (far tmi, I know)

If another busty lady knows a place I can get measured AND buy a maternity bra that treats my boobs as 2 separate entities, I'd greatly appreciate it. Blush

MummyPig24 · 30/08/2013 15:54

joll I'm also an H. Haven't gone to get maternity bras yet though. I might admit defeat in a few weeks and go shopping for maternity wear and bras.

Dh is in a rotten mood, he's taken today off and I went out for lunch with my nan and he got shirty. Well he can fuck off. He's taken the kids to the shop so he'd better be nice when he gets back!

PramQueen1971 · 30/08/2013 15:56

Oh, Jolls, my sentiments exactly! Tit-sweat hell Sad

PiratesMam · 30/08/2013 16:32

lottie so sorry to hear about your friend. So sad Thanks

Mummypig they can't take the pace of life at home with the kids; when I was in bed all weekend vomiting, DH actually seemed quite relaxed, but when I said on Monday I thought I'd be able to get up he was like "THANK GOD!!!!!!!! I'M A BROKEN MAN!!!" Haha welcome to our world! He truly looked destroyed. Bless him.

Got to go out tonight for my friend's bday meal. Such a relief to explain truthfully why I'm not drinking/look green/leave early at last!

All you big booby ladies - Envy I had DDs before having kids. Now when I'm not preggo or breastfeeding they are As now. Think spaniel's ears.

rosyryan · 30/08/2013 16:33

Hello! Just had the first part of my Harmony test. The wee one was kicking and dancing about like mad. So lovely to see. Got to go back in two weeks for the results and the proper nuchal scan - Friday 13th, ooer! But everything looking good so far. Happy days. :)

MummyPig24 · 30/08/2013 16:53

pirates he confessed that he's in a bad mood, not because of anything I've done and he shouldn't have taken it out on me. I appreciate the apology. He said he feels like everyone takes advantage of us! Next door came over yesterday, said her freezer broke and could she store her meat in ours till she gets a new one in a few days. He's mad because she doesn't pay her bills (she told me she doesn't pay gas, electric or tv licence) just because she doesn't want to, or thinks she can't afford it, so he said she should be able to buy a new freezer.

Also my dad is being a twat. He's an alcoholic and treats his family like crap. It's his birthday tomorrow and I asked him over for Chinese but when I asked him today if he was still coming he was evasive so he's obviously not coming and has better things to do with his alkie friends. So dh is cross with the way he treats me.

Anyway I had better get on with making the kids tea!

NoMaybeAboutIt · 30/08/2013 16:57

Mummy sorry you're having a shit day. Nice long bath when everyone else is asleep?

Great news Rosy I too am up on the 13th!! Unlucky for some, but not for us Wink

How's the hair Goose?

Don't talk to me about boob sweat....

MummyPig24 · 30/08/2013 17:16

Thanks maybe but I'm not having a shit day, dh is having a shit day! He's just appeared home after going to buy "1 beer" with a box of 18 and then had a hissy fit at my raised eyebrow!!

Jolleigh · 30/08/2013 17:40

What is it with the men today? Mine is stropping to...but for no bloody reason. Angry

LyraSilvertongue · 30/08/2013 18:06

Since when did they need a reason ;)

Jolleigh · 30/08/2013 18:15

I didn't even strop like this when I realised that the smell of bacon was one of the things that makes me puke! Grin

RaspberrysAndIcecream · 30/08/2013 18:16

Hi ladies!

I'm ok thanku - dealing with the death of someone & trying to support their family. It's very hard.

Was it Lottie who was at a funeral today - I hope it went ok.

On a completely different note - my non undersides bras are from debenhams. They're very comfy. Not maternity bras, just non underwired. I'm a d cup - they had a range is sizes. Marks and Spencer's was awful. Worst bras ever!!!

And my lovely neighbour is having a clear out - she's given me some maternity jeans - omg they're lovely!!! Grin

I can't look and see who had their scan on the 13th - me 2!! It seems like ages away, but hopefully the next couple of weeks will go quickly & then I can see the baby again!! Grin

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