Hiya ladies, good to catch up again...I wondered where you had all got too!
Second hand definitely the way to go with baby stuff, esp. prams/cots etc. Have to admit I've got a huge amount of second hand clothes for this one, couldn't bear to start from new again, it costs so much! And they are in newborn things for such a short time. Have bought some new bits and bobs too, but nothing like as much as i did for the girls! Lol, so does anybody want any girls clothes? I have a loft full to get rid of...and a couple of prams 
Louby sympathy on the SPD, it's starting to get worse for me too, much worse this time than the previous two. It really makes it so hard to sleep doesn't it? My hips ache after an hour lying in one position, then I have to turn over, which is a performance and a half!
Minniemouse its impossible to contact midwives. I always laugh when they give you their alledged number...it never works! Hope you are ok though.
Can I join the facebook group? My profile is here
Currently I am having a dilemma over car seats, the three I have are a really tight fit in the back of my car, which is a zafira, so don't know whether to go for new seats or a new car. Trouble is dd2 is in a kiddifix guardian pro, cos she just monkeys out of normal seat straps and it's really wide, makes it a real squash to get the other two in. Sigh...