Harry's thread for bereaved mums , Wether its a hand to hold or a shoulder to cry on we are all here one for all and all for one .

[travellingwilbury]

Many thanks to ILike for passing on the baton to myself and Harry . I know we are a bit previous but I am worried I will get the timing wrong .

I feel like I have only been here a wee while but it is invaluable to me .

This is a poem that has helped me in the past .

I have not turned my back on you
So there is no need to cry.
I'm watching you from heaven
Just beyond the morning sky.

I've seen you almost fall apart
When you could barely stand.
I asked an angel to comfort you
And watched her take your hand.

She told me you are in more pain
Than I could ever be.
She wiped her eyes and swallowed hard
Then gave your hand to me.

Although you may not feel my touch
Or see me by your side.
I've whispered that I love you
While I wiped each tear you cried.

So please try not to ache for me
We'll meet again one day.
Beyond the dark and stormy sky
A rainbow lights the way.

I'm ok thanks TW. My grief seemed to turn into frustration yesterday, which is harder to deal with than tears tbh.

But, today is another day and the sun is shining. Onwards and upwards

Glad to hear you are feeling a bit better oday Ilike . Like you say onwards and upwards x

Hi Dee , any news with the stone mason ?

Grrr... stone mason is going to apparently put completed headstone back up next Thursday. Turns out he's only registered with BRAMM and not NAMM, so i can't make a formal complaint against them specificaly, only if the headstone itself is faulty. Not a happy bunny.

I am not surprised you are peed off . You really would think someone in that line of work would have a bit more empathy and understanding .

Nowt so queer as folk!!

hi everyone, not been on for a couple of weeks, been on holday for a week to lovely devon.
will be lighting a candle for the lovely billie on monday, my thoughts will be with you che.headstone business sounds heart wrenching. i cant abide anyone looking at my erins stone let alone messing with it
hope it all works out x
anyway, have a good day all, out to the garden

Hi all.......Im now feeling very guilty! I have just had an email from Wilf (whos staying at school cos of the party) "I miss you Mummy, I have been crying I want to see you Mummy....." My sister says hes deliberatley making me feel guilty. I burst out crying when I read it though! She has said very firmly that he IS NOT going to spoil my weekend!!

Not being mean to Wilf, Lottie BUT I do agree with your Sis!!! You need to have the best ADULT party Hope you have the best time xxxx

Can we have a few pictures of your 'handy man' friends????????? Pleeeeeeeeeeeeease!! xx

Steady girls - Lottie is not a loose woman - she just has some very interesting sounding friends

Will do what i can Shabs!! There will be at least two of them there!!

Bearing in mind my previous panic about the party and previous parties being cancelled I did panic when i heard an ambulance nearby this afternoon but as far as I know as is well!!!

Pics would be a great plan

I hope you have a fab time Lottie and yes I agree Wilf will be fine and he is just trying it on .

By the way I have joined the 21st century and have facebook now but I don't really want to put up my e mail as it is basically my rl name . So has anybody got a less obvious name and I can come and play
xx

Never let it be said that I wear my heart on my sleeve and I am very open with everything.....BUT....BUT....BUT - go onto the Facebook search and put in Sharon Hillman and I will see you on FB in a little while

Thanks

I am trying but it is slower than a slow thing at the mo

and when you add shabs find me!!!

Right someone needs to give me a clue
I have found a number of people with that name . How do I work out which one is you without just asking random strangers to accept me ?

Look for me TW Charlotte Jenkins............... Im on the London network!!!

I have a pic of Tom on my profile - little dark haired lad with a pale blue tshirt on!!!

Ok I give up there is loads of your name on the london network as well unless I am doing something really silly.

Anyway not entirely sure why I give a monkeys anyway to people knowing my name so here is my e mail then you guys can do the work

summerfieldsarah AT hotmail.co.uk

I think I have found you shabs

Me and fiddly technical nonsense don't mix overly well

My pic is of me with bunny ears on!!! You cant miss me!!!

Well done TW!!!! I have just accepted your invitation!

When I first went onto Facebook I could not figure it - really couldn't do it!!!!

I also had to write down all the real names of the MN girls next to their MN names I still struggle sometimes [DOH emoticon]

Well that was a v busy half an hour

Better try and get these boys to bed then I will go and have a proper nosey x

Thanks Ilike.......Ive accepted your invite on FB too!!!!

evening all

nice to see you chegirl. I will be at work on Monday.. but I will light a candle for billie when I get home

Whenever I light a candle for one of our little ones I feel closer to Fraser cos I always think "jesus bids us shine" which we played at his funeral

Lottie dont you dare feel guilty ... honestly kids are sooo manipulative .. have a great party

I hope everyone else is ok tonight