Harry's thread for bereaved mums , Wether its a hand to hold or a shoulder to cry on we are all here one for all and all for one .

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Many thanks to ILike for passing on the baton to myself and Harry . I know we are a bit previous but I am worried I will get the timing wrong .

I feel like I have only been here a wee while but it is invaluable to me .

This is a poem that has helped me in the past .

I have not turned my back on you
So there is no need to cry.
I'm watching you from heaven
Just beyond the morning sky.

I've seen you almost fall apart
When you could barely stand.
I asked an angel to comfort you
And watched her take your hand.

She told me you are in more pain
Than I could ever be.
She wiped her eyes and swallowed hard
Then gave your hand to me.

Although you may not feel my touch
Or see me by your side.
I've whispered that I love you
While I wiped each tear you cried.

So please try not to ache for me
We'll meet again one day.
Beyond the dark and stormy sky
A rainbow lights the way.

Hello all

A cheats tea sounds fab Lottie .

We have had a lovely day out in the sunshine today so I am hoping the boys will be tired out tonight .

hello all...sorry not been on here, been away for the past ten days on hols. Took a quick glance through the last few pages of messages to see what I have missed.

Anyway, just wanted to say hello to all.

Evening girls. Thought this clip might make everybody smile.....and it will give you a full understanding of my weird accent

the mighty Peter Kay

Good morning all .

Welcome back Melissa , how was the holiday ?

Great clip Shabs , I love Peter Kay

How is everyone this morning ? It is chucking it down here , but tbh I am quite happy because I don't want to go anywhere and could do with a quiet day at home . Well as quiet as it can be with my two .

Morning all.
I so love PK too....Im reading his autobiography at the mo.............very funny!! Im waiting for the washing machine man, my machine sounds like a 747 taking off in my kitchen!!!

Hi Folks,

Hope everyones ok. I'm ok... just a bit 'meh' at the moment, yunno? Love to all x

Hi Dee , I know what you mean .

Love to you . I think as its friday I may well have a wee glass of something .

Hi
We are off to a special evening for deaf children tonight, Wilf and I Antonia, Percy and Harvey!!

Have fun Lottie

I am doing bugger all tonight except having a wee one and lighting the fire .

Evening ladies. Geez I feel knackered tonight. We've had a busy week and now it's come to Friday night it's catching up with me.

I was going to have a glass of wine but I think it'll send me to sleep

right shall I make you all jealous..??

Today I cashed in a christmas voucher.. I got a massage, got my hair cut and got my highlights done

I came home feeling special.. makes a nice change..

That sounds like a lovely day xx

Good morning girls xx

FM very, very, very, very xxx

Well, i have had a hell of a job getting on here this morning!
Ive had a Wilf free morning, and this afternoon we are off shopping with my Mum & Ali..................

Me too Lottie!!! Hope you have a good afternoon xx

Hi Girls,

Hope you are all well, just a quickie as we are moving next week and its chaos here, hence why I've not been on at all. Also our stupid internet provider won't let us transfer our broadband package to the new house, they say we have to cancel here and then re apply again which is useless. Trying to find a new one so don't know how long we will be offline for.

Take care and hopefully will be back soon! xxxx

Hey folks.

Not doing so good today. Today for the first time in a long time i went up to Ciaran and hubbs' grave. And i'm so bloody mad - the monumental mason was due to put the headstone back on eight weeks ago, and it's still not up!!! I'm ashamed that i haven't been up there before now, but i find it so hard to leave them there. Anyways, the headstone still isn't up, despite them taking my money, but thry are closed now til Monday. I'm afraid they are going to hear me - i'm not happy at all!!!

aw dee thats bad, hope you get it sorted soonxx hi everyone elsexx

Hiya
Thanks travelling, had a lovely holiday. Scenery was the most beautiful I have ever seen, kids loved the skiing, and my little one was up on skis for the first time, and did a great job! Must be my Canadian blood coming through!
Its now the mission of getting everyone ready and back to school...tried to start the process this morning, but we are all so used to sleeping in now, that it was hard to get everyone moving by 9am! Not sure how we are going to do it on Monday morning!

Dee, so sorry to hear about your visit to Ciaran and DH's grave. Thats terrible, and so frustrating. I totally feel your frustration and annoyance, it is so irritating when people say they are going to do something and then do not do it, not to mention the issue of the sensitive nature of it all. I hope you give them a right telling off on Monday.

Have had a crap afternoon. Wilf has been VERY unpleasent when we were shopping, he really hurt a friend of mine! All because he couldnt have what he wanted!

Hi all

Dee you must be all over the place.. Honest to god you think these people would realise its grieving families they are dealing with .. Keep us posted as to what they say ..

its not a hard job these days to amend a headstone. its all done with lasers, well thats what we were told

lottie whats wilf been up to??

lighthouse .. just in case you are still around.. I am glad you got your original move date, hope it goes well, take it easy during the move (easier said than done)and if you dont get back before the big day I am praying for a safe outcome for you all

hugs to all

Sorry to hear Wilf was naughty Lottie - i was speaking to him earlier on FB and he added me as a friend on MSN - but i had to nip out and missed him chatting to me, sorry.

Cant even begin to tell you what he did! Am very lucky my friend is such a good friend!!

Good morning girls xx

morning

back work tomorrow after almost a fortnight off.. thats going to be a shock to the system