Harry's thread for bereaved mums , Wether its a hand to hold or a shoulder to cry on we are all here one for all and all for one .

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Many thanks to ILike for passing on the baton to myself and Harry . I know we are a bit previous but I am worried I will get the timing wrong .

I feel like I have only been here a wee while but it is invaluable to me .

This is a poem that has helped me in the past .

I have not turned my back on you
So there is no need to cry.
I'm watching you from heaven
Just beyond the morning sky.

I've seen you almost fall apart
When you could barely stand.
I asked an angel to comfort you
And watched her take your hand.

She told me you are in more pain
Than I could ever be.
She wiped her eyes and swallowed hard
Then gave your hand to me.

Although you may not feel my touch
Or see me by your side.
I've whispered that I love you
While I wiped each tear you cried.

So please try not to ache for me
We'll meet again one day.
Beyond the dark and stormy sky
A rainbow lights the way.

Morning girls xx

morning shabster, another sunny day here in nottingham, fake tan at the ready

Its building up to another sunny day here in Bolton as well Just wish it would get a move on!! xx

I think Wilfs got blardy impetigo again!!

HI girls

It has been nice to see the sun the last few days. Wednesday we went cycling at the seaside, Thurs we went to the Botanic Gardens and today our neigbours kids were in playing in the Garden

Lottie I dont know what to say about the impetigo but in terms of your party I think when the day of your party dawns you will realise the pattern has been broken and you wll have a great time

Tomorrow is obviously mothers day ... and I will notice the hole in my family once again and there will be an ache in my heart..

I find mothers day sooo hard.. as I am sure you all do too

Thinking of you all tomorrow

Hi folks!

Well , i'm up here at my sisters, and met up with some friends today and Smithills working farm. Was due to meet at 11.30, and i got hopelessly and utterly lost and didn't get there til 12.45!!! I have noooo sense of direction whatsoever! Consequently, i now know Bolton better then i had ever anticipated

Hope everyone is okay and is having a good weekend.

Dee!!!!!! Smithills....Bolton.....you are right next to where I live.....I am in Farnworth....its a quaint picturesque fishing village near the coast if you get chance to call on me please feel free. Let me know and I will give you my address. Smithills is about 10 minutes drive from me. OMG Dee is almost at my house!!

morning girls

happy mothers day... lets hope it pasess peacefully and with some happy moments for us all

To all us Mums on Mothers Day.

I think this song is so beautiful. Aled played it this morning for all Mums who no longer have their children with them.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=iKuoMpjedHM&feature=PlayList&p=7307D15280EC873F&playnext=1&playnext_from=PL& index=1

Happy Mothers Day ladies.

Such a strange day. I love to celebrate it with Mac and my mum and my mil, but there's this bloody great gap.

DH got me a card 'To Mum from both of us'. It made me smile and cry all at the same time.

lottie - have you got some anti-biots for the impetigo? Are they passing it around eachother at school?

Im putting fucidin cream on it ! We are going to see the doc tomorrow afternoon!

Happy Mothers Day my friends. xx

I found the cream didn't help, but oral anti-biots did. I didn't take the oral option lightly but the cream just wasn't doing anything.

G'morning Gals,

Happy Mothers day to us all. Tis very bittersweet, isn't it? I'll just be glad when today is over and done with.

Shabs - my sister lives in Rossendale, so not far from you at all. I head back to Welshy Wales tomorrow, but next time i'm up this way we'll hafta get together!

Dee - you blew my mind last night

You must come and visit next time you are up - that would be fun. Fancy you being in 'beautiful' Bolton

You are right Everlong - good to see you here. Thinking of you and Oliver today....thinking of all our children who are not physically here on Mothers Day. We are always their Mums and they are always our children - xxxxx

Lovely to see you Everlong {{{hugs}}}

I have some pics of Mac on my profile if you fancy a look.

Awwwwww Mac is so cute - awwwwwwww xxxx

LOTTIEe

what a beautiful song.. I've just had a good bubble

I am going to visit my baby boy at his garden before I have tp go see mum and mil with a smile n my face

happy mothers day girls ,got this morning off but working tonight but dh working dd1 working as is dd2 ,when she gets upx

Happy Mothers' Day all. Weird feeling, isn't it?

Still on plus side have discovered how to keep house tidy - spend all day outside

Thinking of you all x

Disgusting post on the Jade Goody thread saying that they reckon she died two days ago and they kept it secret till today to get more publicity!!!! I have given my views on that!!!

Evening all. Have been thinking of us all today. I've found this weekend really hard, spent most of yesterday in tears,I guess its a combination of both Mothers Day and Noahs birthday in the same week. My DH had done one of those cards from Moonpig with a beautiful photo of DD and Noah and he signed it from all of them, including Bean (the one on the way).

Lottie just had a listen to the song, its lovely although has reduced me to tears again! Will have to get it now for my ipod. Hope Wilf is okay and the Doc's sort it out.

Such sad news about Jade. At least she is at peace now.

Hugs to you all.xxx

Hi Lighthouse.. I would offer you a tissue but mine are all a bit soggy from the tears I have shed today.
I promised myself I wouldnt fall apart this mothers day.. but I did anyway

I think your dh sounds like a complete star.. what a beautiful card.. something to treasure forever

The next few days will be hard for the whole family but you will find the strength to get through it and we are all here if you want to talk.

There will be a light shining for Noah in Glasgow on Thursday