Cole's thread for bereaved muumies: like the sands on the beach that never wash away. I watch over my surviving mum, who thinks of me each day.

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Welcome to our santuary and haven ladies.

Many thanks for Frasersmummy for passing the baton onto Cole and I. I am touched and hope I can do all our lo's justice.

For any people wanting to join, don't be shy. We cry, we rant, we smile, we laugh - whatever we feel like we need to do.

Good morning

We have got a snowy day here , even the schools are closed . A couple of inches and everything grinds to a halt . Not that I mind , I would rather be building a snowman than trudging up to the school today .

How is everyone ?

Morning TW - we are the same BUT Toms school is open as normal I can see the normal 10 minute walk up the hill turning into a 30 minute trek...and, yes, this over protective mum will be walking her 11 year old all the way.......cars sliding about on the roads and all that

Well done you

I bet that walk with a load of 11 to 16 yr olds will just be one big snowball fight so good luck

Morning all.

Big hug Shabs. We all have wobbles and we can't control when we have them. But you dealt with it. You know you can look after and care for Lewis, you've done it four times before.

Nice to see you FM

We have a stomach bug in our household. So it's been a bit of a crappy weekend. I think Mac had it first but a much milder version. However dh and I have been throwing up and I'm now developing some cold symptoms - oh joy!

hi girls yes snow here and ive got funeral at three today,
well my dad was seventy yesterday so we all met up for a meal ,ds and partner came as well,he ordered a lager shandy,i asked you ok with that, there is hardly ought alcohol in it mum he said,here let me taste i said i wasnt sure so we all tasted ,bloody hell said ds by time you lot have finished there will be none left for me,just what i wanted haha.

Morning all, Lovely song Shabs........I have the meeting at school today (if it isnt cancelled again...............

I'm back!!! No buses seem to be running at all in our area. So I would imagine the normal 2,000 pupils at Toms school will be slightly less in numbers

We ended up with loads of kids tagging on with our trek!! Was all going well until one of them asked 'Do you have Tom while his Mum goes to work?' Only a couple of hundred snowballs being thrown! x

......oh yes and the other comment from the same cheeky bugger of a kid! 'Oh I thought you were his Gran!!'

for you Shabs xxxxxxxxxx

LOL Lottie - the area we live in is made up of hundreds of very, very young mums. The mum nearest in age to me at Toms school is 40 - so 12 years younger than me!! I am used to it now. I asked Tom last year did he mind having a much older Mum and Dad. He said it didnt bother him at all but said 'I just dont think it should be allowed that a very short Mum and a very short Dad should be able to have children!!!'

I am 4ft 11in and DH is 5ft 4in - must admit I snorted with laughter when he said it!

Lol at Tom............I'm hoping that the meeting might be cancelled today but not holding my breath........

Might be better to get it over and done with Lottie? Good luck if it goes ahead, will be thinking about you xx

shabs tom is brillx haha good luck with meeting lottiex
shabs i went to that mill place again yesterday lovely drive over and the candle range is soooooooooooooo amazingx

We have just been out in the street for over two hours playing

I need to go and buy food but I can't face it so it might well be beans on toast for dinner today .

I'm feeling sick now................cant stop worrying...........

Lottie , I wish there was something I could do or say to help but I am here if thats any good to you xx

you will be fine lottie ..dont worry all will work out in end,

Thanks TW.............i hate this i really do,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

Thats the problem hazy it wont..........

I am so sorry Lottie , I don't know what the meeting is all about but it does sound like the sooner its done the better .

What time is it ?

If it happens it will be at 1.30 after work.......

Am now off to work....................................

Let us know how you go on Lottie xxxxxxxx

Good luck Lottie xx

Meeting was cancelled because of the weather!!